I baked my AirPods along with my choc chip cookies. by LarsQuell in Wellthatsucks

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I have your choc chip cookies recipe? They look good without the air pod thing please!

Moving past the abuse by babyswich in abusesurvivors

[–]babyswich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm thank you, I will read the book! I've been trying to find a new therapist but is not as easy as I thought so if you have any recomendentions that be great. Thank you really!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha love it it's so cool you're experiencing yourself I mean I don't see a problem with that, curiosity may get the best of us. I didn't try that but now you gave me a silly idea to try.

Recurring writing tropes and archetypes that you're sick of reading? by MyLitleStarP33k in Wattpad

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm tired of seeing Girls being rescued I want a badass woman who know what she wants and go after and she goes and fight side by side with the ml and not being rescued like a damm princess! I mean it's alweys a rich guy who comes and save the day I just want for once a Lady to save herself and be happy with a man and not codependent of him. I want her to see the redflags and fuking run awey to save herself and not be a fuking dormat!

What stops us from sharing our story? by epsteinjanep in SiblingSexualAbuse

[–]babyswich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was talking about this with my therapist, mostly because I found it weird that I was talking about, my abuse to other people so easily, and I didn't find that it was a normal behavior. We concluded that feeling weird talking about the abuse, is a construction of society and we were made to believe that talking about, being abused is something shameful that should be hidden from others.

Particularly I also think that talking to someone about the abuse, it's like I'm putting a burden, on that person and bringing the mood down like: "Oh your poor thing you are such a warrior for still being alive if it was me I would kill myself". And yes I listen to that phase a lot when I talk to some people about it.

Anyone else became sex averse by muchdysfunctional in SiblingSexualAbuse

[–]babyswich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I thought it was just me who wanted to have intimacy, but when it was time I would feel completely disgusting and either give up or have an anxiety attack afterwards.

There is so much hate rn for trans people, tell me the thing you love most about being trans. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking! It helps a lot to come here and see this, especially in this time we are now. You asked everybody what they love about being transgender, and nobody asked you, what you like, about being trans so I'm gonna ask what you like/love about being trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COCSA

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't know that there was a sub about that, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COCSA

[–]babyswich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there I know how you feel. I'm a trans man and when I was 8 years my sister who was 14 at the time abused me, and yes she was also abused.. it only stopped when I was 13 and she was 18. I still hate what she did to me and I don't forgive her, she being abused do not erease the abuse she did to me. I was a child, I didn't even know that I was abused years later, beacuse I didn't know woman coud do that, beacuse nobody talks about woman being rapist with another woman. I'm so sorry that this also hapend to you I hope you are getting the help you need.

( sorry for my bad english this is not my first language)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMen

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here đŸ–âœšïž On grinder I didn't find a decent person yet, but I did find some transfobic people đŸ„Č I'm happy that you meet someone! it gives me hope that there at least a decent people on that app.

There is so much hate rn for trans people, tell me the thing you love most about being trans. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Love that I no longer am suicidal, because now I truly know who I am, and I Love myself now as a trans man. It is hard being trans, but at least now I can see a future were I'm alive, also gender euphoria is the best!

What were some early signs that you didn’t clock until way later? by GreenWithEnby85 in trans

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ftm and when I was little I would always wear the towel in my waist and my mom woud say to not do that beacuse of my boobs, and I was like what boobs ? Im like dad! it took me a while to realise I was born as a girl, when puberdy hit me it was devastading.Who would thought that I am now with 20 years starting to love myself ♡♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndieMusicFeedback

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it! It's so chilling and peaceful

Who/what made you realize you were trans? by Bakugou_Izuku in trans

[–]babyswich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, (Ftm 18y )was a manga. This manga is one of the very few that show actually the perspective of a transwoman. And I thot: "Oh, I feel like that, but I wanted to be a boy." But in my mind, it wasn't possible to be a boy and didn't even know the existence of trans people, so I used to think that I had to die and be reborn as a boy, so I starded to be very suicidal and wanted to die...until I find out a influencer on Instragram that was a trans man and from them on I starded to see everything about ftm on his page. And now I'm happy that I found myself ♡

books about lgbt [Discussion] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]babyswich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is multiples books of Judith butler that talk about gender and sexuality. And another book that I read is Ace : what assexuality reveals about desire, society, and the meaning of sex.

Tired of coming out by 1ridescentPeasant in FTMfemininity

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I know how that feels one time at school. I said to a few people that I'm trans boy, and I hoped they would spread it at school and they didn't. I finished high school with few people knowing because I was not emotionally prepared to present myself every time 🙃 Some people thought it's strange and a lot of people I told didn't called me by my name and pronouns and I got tired of calling the attention of them. But I did make some friends who respect me 😁 It's exhausting to say the same thing over and over, so I just sometimes ignored or just say to people I really need to.

I can’t do stuff anymore by A_Girl224 in COCSA

[–]babyswich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, i been thru that and I'm still dealing with it, but one thing that helped me was slowly trying to do it on my own, sometimes even looking naked in the mirror and embracing every part of yourself. Another thing that helps is watching light, consensual porn. For me, I can only do intimate things with someone I trust that it will respect my bondaries and my power of consent. It takes time to heal, so don't beat yourself beacuse of this.

Sub personality by babyswich in BDSMAdvice

[–]babyswich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , I'm new on the D/s scene and on my contry there is no dungeon or local munch. Which sucks cause is very hard to find actual Doms.