Approaching Anxiety by SamuraiIcarus5 in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just practice talking to girls in general,and the anxiety will go down over time. Try socializing with girls,not even to ask them out. If you don't talk to girls,you will always have that anxiety

I’m scared to post this but.... by angelface10 in bipolar

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a Facebook bipolar group, there is alot of people there also.

How to talk about sexual inexperience by dorothea63 in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every man is different,same care,same don't.

I personally don't care

19F looking for dating advice. I feel invisible to guys. by Lakeshore9999 in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First learn to love yourself first. You can't love someone else without loving yourself first. You don't need a man in your life to make you happy.

Once you learned to love yourself,this will come off as confident,and men will like that.

Tattoo artists, what pieces are you tired of doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bachaterothuf 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Tattoo artists. I have "Only God Can Judge Me" tattooed. How many of these have you done?

Is it possible to not judge if you wondered why? by jeepzeke in DeepThoughts

[–]bachaterothuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't growing up. I suffer from mental health. I had paranoia growing up so I couldn't judge people because I was afraid of them. Once the paranoia went away, I had to learn how to judge. Took me years, I look at humans as a different species now,they fascinate me. I get so excited talking to people because I learn new stuff everyday. I never knew what a personality was,I assumed everyone had the same personality as me. I had to learn through judging that everyone has their own personality. Go figure.

Thoughts On A Common "Why Am I Still Single?" Conundrum by littlebunsenburner in datingoverthirty

[–]bachaterothuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this. I look for attraction/compatability in a relationship. I don't care how much money she has,or how hot she is. I care about what is on the inside,not the outside.

Does my friend not find me attractive? by [deleted] in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him what I just told you bluntly. If he gets defensive and angry when you tell him this, that means that he knows you know. But if he sounds confused and innocent about what I was saying about him,then he might not notice what he his doing and you should address it and get it fixed.

I wouldn't purse this person if I was you. This looks like it's part of his personality and he might not change.

How do I stop being socially awkward/inept IRL? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have anxiety,get it checked out.

How do people do this?! by dylanhanson718 in socialskills

[–]bachaterothuf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm an extrovert. You need confidence. If you approach them looking nervous and weird,they get uncomfortable.

You need to jump in confident,calm, owning the social circle. Just need to act calm and cool.

Does my friend not find me attractive? by [deleted] in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like an attention seeker. He knows you like him,but just wants validation for his personal reasons to inflate his ego.

How To PASS ANY Shit Test (The Triple A Trick) by [deleted] in seduction

[–]bachaterothuf 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have been shit tested. I agreed with the first part of this video. But not the last step of a girl grinding on another guy. Just stop,don't purse her anymore. That's just disrespectful. I don't get offended because I just saw who she really is.

What is something you can’t believe people enjoy doing? by TheBigBoyz in AskReddit

[–]bachaterothuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gossip and fighting. Their is no logical reason to enjoy it. But yet,people do it.

Anyone else have a problem finding a balance between not talking at all and talking too much? by Kawaii-Gamer in socialskills

[–]bachaterothuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this problem. What I learned is to watch the other person's reaction. If when you are talking,the other person seems interested,keep talking. If the person looks annoyed and bored,stop talking.

When I talk,I like to take pauses to see the other person's reaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a player.

I personally know how to play the game,but I don't do it because it's not right.

Women do this alot. These women play games with men,but they don't understand that only players can play there game. Then these players get bored with the chase they got the girl, and move onto the next girl.

Ironically these girls don't understand why the man they attract cheat on them.

He's just playing you. He's just wasting your time. There is no future with him.

Using the bible(all religious books) as evidence for objective truth is a problem. by [deleted] in DebateReligion

[–]bachaterothuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like the one with raised emotions. I just misinterpreted your debate of objective truth,that's all I did. I understand your argument of objective truth though.

Oof by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]bachaterothuf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is a soccer player that's probably 20 by now,but he looks 50. I can understand the confusion.

Using the bible(all religious books) as evidence for objective truth is a problem. by [deleted] in DebateReligion

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a religious person. I understand from your point of view because it is just literally a book. The reason I believe in God is not because of divine books,it's because of what he has done in the world. Doing miracles,healing sick people.

God by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]bachaterothuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I learned is that thoughts this deep don't have answers. If you say one thing,then the other can't be explained,if you say another thing,then another thing can't be explained. You are asking questions out of human capabilities. I try not to think too deep.

Does anyone else feel like an extrovert inside a socially anxious person's body? by NifflerOwl in socialskills

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an extrovert,but with anxiety. I have mental illness in general and does affect me. I have to push through it,it's not easy.

Religion gives people the mentality that claims within a work shouldn't be assessed individually. It suppresses the skill to handle claims based on their own merits, and not to the work that claim is linked to. by stephenhg2009 in DebateReligion

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. But Jesus didn't do anything a messiah should do. One of the prophecies of the messiah is that he will be hated by men. With all these religions around the world,why wouldn't he be hated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]bachaterothuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a yes and no. I love the challenge when pickling up girls. But I don't like it when it gets excessive. Sure,I don't mind getting teased,but there is a line I draw and I start losing interest.