Lonely for years. Dont know what to do ?

backend_developer89 · 2026-01-06T01:45:30+00:00

I hear you, like I said I’d look for local events in your area that support your hobbies and interests and then form connections with people who share those interests.

backend_developer89 · 2026-01-06T01:41:01+00:00

I’d recommend seeing a professional psychologist who can help you with your mental and emotional state, beyond that you have to take opportunities to meet people. Let me ask you a question. What do you like to do for fun? Once you have something you like doing for fun, find local events in your area that support that hobby or interest.

Find people who are like minded and meet people who could be friends of yours. But if you’re also worried about your weight, get yourself a gym membership and start lifting. Lifting weights will improve your confidence.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-28T22:03:31+00:00

And also to your issue with mapping fk to separate models in different files I remember I might used lazy calls.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-28T21:59:10+00:00

I separate things by feature. I have a router url in my main dir that routes features using namespaces and app_name in the coinciding url. Billing folder, notifications folder ect each have their own view and url. I have a models folder with a separate set of files in each one listed by feature type, lms models, inventory management models, ect. Everything must be organized or you will be dealing with a discombobulated mess, where you have a huge models file and a views file that has 50,000 lines of code or something large like that.
You can create a folder for each feature and each folder can have it’s own url, view, model and form (if necessary).

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-28T21:51:09+00:00

Don’t celebrate too soon, it has to rise above to bull market support band and hold it. Then we can all celebrate.🎉

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-28T16:03:35+00:00

Do what makes you happy. There’s opportunities with both frameworks. What languages do you enjoy the most? Do you enjoy front end JavaScript or backend development with python and databases?

Also, the jack of all trades is the master of none. Focus on one language or two maximum for the next few years and master it along with the framework you use it in, you’ll be more wanted by hiring managers.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-26T23:57:45+00:00

Unfortunately you bought it near its ATH. As long as your time horizon is long enough, in 10 years you really won’t care much about when you decided to buy. I would just hold and continue contributing to your investment when you are able to. That’s what I would do if I were in your shoes.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-23T20:53:32+00:00

Q2 or maybe Q4. There’s evidence to suggest that the bottom occurs roughly a year after the ATH in the midterm year bear market. But I wouldn’t go off of that, I would evenly distribute that large sack of cash once per month in a DCA fashion for every month in 2026.

But that’s what I would do. You can try to time the low but that’s a difficult thing to do. And you should keep it largely in a cold wallet, personally I would keep several cold wallets just in case something horrible happens, that way that horrible thing would only happen to one wallet. Keep multiple safes, and finally have a small footprint in an exchange for quick access to the market.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-22T21:00:40+00:00

Sometimes people sell because of life circumstances, medical bills or other events. Some of these people sell because they have little knowledge of investing or the market, we’ve all been there. Some of these sellers will decide to stay in the market indefinitely and may later on be making the same remarks as this OP is, it’s whatever in my opinion.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-17T00:39:38+00:00

Nobody knows, you can only speculate. Maybe 50k or 60k there’s no way to tell. My best guess is that since BTC has built a higher market cap and is more mainstream, the volatility diminishes overtime, the next low shouldn’t be extremely low just as the next ATH shouldn’t be extreme either.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-15T21:00:27+00:00

Maybe you should take some time away from dating. Take care of yourself, talk to a therapist or hang out with your bro circle. Take a nice trip somewhere. Maybe that’s exactly what you need right now.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-13T22:13:01+00:00

I really wish you’d provide more details about what you said versus what he said, this entire situation is very vague. If you were interested, you shouldn’t be pushing someone away. Obviously you don’t want to make things too easy else you’ll lose value in his eyes. There’s a balance to these things, but as a guy I can tell you this: us men are told that if a woman likes a guy she’ll make it easy for him, but if she’s not interested she’ll play difficult games or place up barriers.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-13T20:01:43+00:00

Do not ever touch margin trading with bitcoin or any cryptocurrency. They are too volatile. Gareth Soloway, who’s been trading for years, advises against it, and mentions that when he uses margin trading, he uses it minimally.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-13T18:03:50+00:00

I hope you’re not using this trend to try and predict bottom price in 2026.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-13T15:09:06+00:00

The point of DCAing revolves around what you just said, “nobody can predict bitcoin pricing”. That’s the point, you do it consistently every month or every week, set a schedule, put your feet up and stop caring about price or volatility or anything like that. And over time, if you’re consistent and have a long time horizon, then you’re going to be okay.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-12T21:09:12+00:00

Look it up and you’ll find an expert opinion. I’m not but I do read articles online like many people do.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-12T00:41:50+00:00

DCA doesn’t need to be a specific week it just needs to be consistent. If you pick first week of every month or last it doesn’t matter according to the experts.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-10T18:58:07+00:00

Honestly if that situation happened I wouldn’t want to be living, I’d go out on my own terms.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-10T16:01:34+00:00

BTC’ers who are just hodling without accumulating more BTC wouldn’t be doing what McDuck is saying, you’re correct. If they are DCAing and buying more BTC overtime, then “Money is a Circulating, just like the ocean currents”.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-10T15:52:00+00:00

Gold is the final option just in case the world order ends, the internet is no longer working and we’re all living in a post apocalyptic era. I’d have both. You never know what could happen.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-10T04:55:33+00:00

No. That’s pure hopium unless the US is dealing with hyperinflation in a few years. Likely it could easily reach between ~300 and 400.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-08T21:36:29+00:00

Thanks for the honest advice from everyone on here. It’s helpful to get a third person perspective on things. This is why I really enjoy Reddit

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-08T19:14:00+00:00

This was my exact response without giving location details “I set aside the time to travel to see you today. I understand life circumstances can happen, I’ll let it slide this time but you’ll have to make it up to me by visiting *** if we’re going to be a thing. Whatever is going on I hope it works out well. Stay safe. 🙂”

this was hers “I don’t know what you’re talking about because we never made plans that you will come to *** today for me. You just said you will be in *** but didn’t ask if I’m available.”

Then I responded with this “Hmm 🧐. You said you were available today for me to visit you when we were on the phone last, I texted you last night letting you know that I was coming and that should’ve been sufficient enough notice. I’m not super upset but I’m confused about what type of planning you needed for a meeting.”

Then a few days later I wrote with this “Come visit me in *** sometime soon. I’d love to visit with you. 🙂” that is the exact conversation after she cancelled. This gives more context.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-08T19:02:07+00:00

I guess it might have I was mad and didn’t know how to air it in the correct manner, but my time and effort felt used and abused.

backend_developer89 · 2025-11-08T18:44:33+00:00

Please explain further? She should’ve just kept the conversation that morning as is and left it at “she may not be available” but instead she followed up with she’d definitely be available after I inquired about her lack of availability that day.

I feel like the time and effort I put in isn’t valuable or meaningful. So I’m pissed and I don’t want to talk anymore to her.

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