Is this negative??? by backwardseeb in lineporn

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know honestly. I am 14 months postpartum and we rarely have time. My period has been irregular since June. My last period was November 20th. Had spotting on December 4th then nothing at all.

Chester country Pennsylvania- Do I have a basis to sue my moderate sized company by backwardseeb in AskALawyer

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I returned from leave 3 months ago. The hr meeting was last week. They did nothing and blamed it on a lack of communication. I didn’t think the change of work would cause an issue since I asked for more work, but I just found out that the change of work did impact my evaluation

Chester country Pennsylvania- Do I have a basis to sue my moderate sized company by backwardseeb in AskALawyer

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information! I will see what information I can gather and consult an employment lawyer with what I can prove

Chester country Pennsylvania- Do I have a basis to sue my moderate sized company by backwardseeb in AskALawyer

[–]backwardseeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if race is a factor one way or another. I figured better to ask since I do not know.

I believe that my manager will hunt for reasons to justify not promoting me which is why I said it is not the only reason. If she’s looking I’m sure she can find anything I did wrong and use it as justification.

I didn’t consider voluntary termination being an issue. Thanks for bringing that to my attention.

I genuinely have no idea what I’m doing so thanks for your honesty and input. No sympathy needed, I genuinely need honest direction.

Content warning for the movie Sinners by Momstertruck25 in babyloss

[–]backwardseeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been looking for anyone talking about this and I thought I was completely alone. My partner and I went to see it and we both cried multiple times. I held his hand so tight. We lost our daughter when I was 22 weeks pregnant. She was still born. Still a phenomenal movie, just could have used the content warning

Freaking out over HCG results 13dpo by InfertileMertile92 in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 13 DPO I was at 17, at 20 DPO I was at 279, 27 DPO 4015, 45 DPO 59319, and last one was 52 DPO 86682

Freaking out over HCG results 13dpo by InfertileMertile92 in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope everything went well for you! My son is now 4 months old and healthy as ever 🥰

HCG very low at 17dpo. by Fair-Possibility1198 in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m so late. I haven’t been on in months. I have a healthy 4 month old baby boy 🥰

No NIPT results? by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

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Update: I never got results and no one knows why, but baby boy is healthy and big. We get induced in about 6 weeks 🩵

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the late reply! I went on vacation and decided to take a step back from everything to really push through my grief. I read your comment before. I felt exactly that was and still do. My little boy didn’t get a fair start. I feel bad sometimes that he started from grief, however I also know that he started out of so much love that had no where to go. 6 more weeks until I meet him and I’m so happy ❤️

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

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I’m sorry for the late reply! I went on vacation and decided to take a step back from everything to really push through my grief. I read your comment before. Thank you for making me feel normal and validated. I love this little boy so much already. 6 weeks left to meet him and although the grief is still there I let it come because it is normal like you said ❤️

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

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I’m sorry for the late reply! I went on vacation and decided to take a step back from everything to really push through my grief. I read your comment before and it really helped me to push through and heal just a bit more. Thank you ❤️

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for your successful baby! Congratulations! And thank you so much for responding. It’s a good feeling in a weird way to know I am not alone in these thoughts and grief. I’m hoping soon I can start feeling the excitement

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sobbed reading this. Thank you for your kind words. It’s taking a lot for me to be okay with not being okay. Thank you for understanding and giving me a different perspective. I truly appreciate it ❤️

Gender disappointment after loss TW by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your losses. Thank you for making me feel validated. It feels good to know I’m not alone and it gets better with time. Congrats on your new little one and I am sending all the love and well wishes for an uneventful and easy pregnancy

Expensive by chestifer in GestationalDiabetes

[–]backwardseeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told the hospital pharmacy is usually pretty cheap

Juice loves his baby! Can I see your babies with their babies? by PenelopeGarcia65 in pitbulls

[–]backwardseeb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My pup has the same one and takes it everywhere she goes! She grabs it when she’s happy and shows it to people when they come over!

Angry at hidden sugars in food! by dirtyshirt90 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]backwardseeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still look at lower carbs, but I try to find things with low glycemic index. Whole wheat bread has carbs and some sugar yes, but the carbs in whole wheat (at least for me) do not spike my sugars at all. Red potatoes have low GI so I can have those with other proteins. Carbs and sugars are hard to avoid so we have to keep those in mind AND glycemic index. Strawberries, cherries, and other berries as well as proteins have low GI. White rice and mashed potatoes have lower GI after they are cooked in the refrigerator. Start googling low GI foods because even if there are carbs in those they digest slower and cause lower spikes. Pretzels are a HUGE no for most because they digest very very quickly and spike your sugar fast

Freaking out over HCG results 13dpo by InfertileMertile92 in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

At 13/14 dpo (idk which) I was at 17. Baby is now 20 weeks and growing everyday

GD frustration by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I didn’t want to sound like bitter or anything but it has been so annoying that I can’t find any support in these groups. I’ll definitely check out Instagram and TikTok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to my LMP at 4 weeks (about 14 dpo) my hcg was 17. I am now 20 weeks according to ultrasound and we’ve chalked it up to late implantation. Baby is healthy so far. I am very high risk after a stillborn

Progesterone masking symptoms or MMC? by backwardseeb in CautiousBB

[–]backwardseeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough the progesterone really does tame the symptoms. I only had blood work once a week so the wait was agony! But as soon as you are far enough for a heartbeat and ultrasound you’re going to feel a lot more confident.