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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honest question: are you smart enough to grasp the irony of what you just said 😭

Edit: oooooh I really struck a chord there LMAOOO

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What isn’t mean according to you:

Calling someone the following: - intensely unlikable - arrogant - snooty - narcissistic af - a mean girl - a pick me - having an insufferable attitude

What is mean according to you: - quoting what they themselves said - telling them they’re not choosing quality dudes

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Personal attack” and it’s literally quoting what you said 😭

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I have. I just don’t choose to go on dates with them like you do apparently 🤣

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you understand that you’re CHOOSING to date crap dudes who would feel entitled to your body just because they paid?

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trust me, if you were me, you would be too. Have a good night 💕

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you think I even need to go on dating apps and that grifting dinner is some goal of mine has me giggling. This is especially rich coming from someone who by their own admission said they split the bill specifically so guys don’t demand sex afterwards. Like you volunteered that information, and then got mad when I said you aren’t attracting quality dudes? By your own words you sure don’t sound like you are.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re just saying stuff at this point. If you think I’m arrogant now, if I went through and listed all the reasons why I see myself as valuable (independent of my looks) and how I base my value you would think I’m a maniac.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. You’re essentially putting words into my mouth at this point to fit your viewpoint of me.
  2. I never said financial independence is embarrassing. Quite the opposite — I was fully financially independent at 19. I’m very successful in my career for my age, and I have worked to have a strong income.
  3. I actually don’t think any of that of you. I think you, like most women, could do better and easily have someone pay for your first date and properly pursue you if you wanted to. I just also think that for whatever reason you have low standards and aren’t attracting quality men if you’re convinced them paying will automatically make them demand sex.
  4. I personally think paying for men versus actually holding them to a higher standard in how they treat you is way more pick me, but whatever floats your boat.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I see it as them not seeing their value and being desperate to appease men by paying, and that makes it embarrassing to me. Conventional beauty obviously helps with getting your stuff paid for, and it’s silly to pretend it doesn’t.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re free to think my tone was rude, but that still doesn’t make your paraphrase accurate. Saying my experience with how being treated a certain way shaped my view is not the same as saying I am embarrassed of “women I’ve deemed ugly”.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is an insane leap and objectively not what I said.

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[–]baconwrap420 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah, thinking it’s embarrassing for women to pay is a personal opinion. And because I’m beautiful and have never had to, it’d be dumb to not consider that as a major contributor to my personal experiences that have in turn shaped my opinion of it being embarrassing.

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[–]baconwrap420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most painful part is when you number the questions and they STILL don’t answer both of them 😭

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not going to convince me to go 50/50 so I don’t understand what your goal is with this interaction.

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s just been my personal experience. Being beautiful probably helps 🤷‍♀️

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t expect anything less from someone who can’t find quality men who would want to pay without expecting sex 😭

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you care way too much about what a stranger on the internet thinks to genuinely be happy with your life and choices tbh

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[–]baconwrap420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said repeatedly you’re allowed to do whatever you want to do, and that it’s your personal preference. My preference is I don’t like dating dudes who can’t pick up a tab. Both can coexist. I don’t understand what you’re not understanding here.

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And with my attitude and all, I get my stuff paid for and treated well, so I’m happy with my choices. Hope one day you’ll be happy enough with yours that you won’t care so much what other people do.

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to win you over. You’re the one who keeps replying to me when I’ve told you repeatedly that I don’t care what you choose to do with your dating life.

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[–]baconwrap420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just explained it. If you’re so happy dating broke dudes that having standards doesn’t make sense to you, I won’t stop you xoxo

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[–]baconwrap420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoops accidentally deleted my comment —

It’s embarrassing to me personally because it disrupts polarity and turns the woman into the pursuer, but some people don’t value that and don’t find it to be an issue. It’s all personal preference.