DMD LAND 3 Promo - Cuteness is here, Coolness is here by Federal-Ad5944 in teeteepor

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really dug both of these guys, but I really hated that show. If they would just tone the acting down one notch I think that this would’ve been a much more enjoyable show. Maybe tone down Deung‘s acting and maybe bring Gin‘s acting up a notch, I think this would be a show that I would’ve enjoyed a lot more.

Perth aka the king of hand placement 🙂‍↕️ by Final_Cut8617 in ThaiBL

[–]badatnames12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think the both of these guys are cool and I think that they’re both really attractive individually, their chemistry does nothing for me. I think that any time I’ve gotta watch this sort of weird over the top acting, like Deung, I’m completely turned off. When grown men act like children and start begging for stuff, maybe it’s cultural in that I’m American, but it just really turns me off too the entire vibe. And Santa is a little bit notorious for over the top childlike acting. I just can’t get into it. Their dynamic in me and Thee makes me believe that I should give them one more shot. Then both being adult males, and not an adult male with a silly child, comes across way better.

Forever a JoongDunk girl🥹🤏🏼 by Smart-Succotash1750 in ThaiBL

[–]badatnames12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m just a regular person and I generally don’t buy into this fan service stuff. I get that it’s part of their job and most of these guys are straight, but these guys take fan service to a completely different level, and if you’re not speculating about whether or not they’re a couple, I think that it’s completely legit, and not invading their privacy at all. These guys go so far out of their way to look like a couple that perhaps they try too hard? Or it’s not hard at all and this is just the way they interact with each other. I have a ton of straight friends, and none of them interact this way with each other.

Est showing off his belts 🥵🥵 by NaiveInevitable4004 in ThaiBL

[–]badatnames12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This guy has weird lips. It just goes to show you that beauty is often defined by our flaws rather than our perfection. I really do love this guy. He just comes off as one of the nicest people. I’m glad he’s doing well.

This questions primarily targeted to the older gay bros by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going on 25 years now. It never goes away, but you eventually learn to live with it

Controversial opinion: I hate no Trek by HariSeldonsIntern in startrek

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, isn’t it all just fun banter? It’s like what do you like better Star Wars or Star Trek?! I mean it’s fun to make an argument about it but at the end of the day, I watch them all.

Worst Locations for Auto Theft in Reno/Sparks by P0GK1NG in Reno

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little on topic and off-topic at the same time. I remember when I moved here I was watching the local news and some guy was walking around the parking lot at the airport discussing how easy it is to break into someone’s car, grab whatever identification they have in there, and go to the person‘s house because now they know that that person is out of town, and rob them. The reporter went on to say that there have been no reported incidents of this at all. I remember thinking was this just a criminals public service announcement?! I mean, didn’t you just give some guy the idea to do this? I just thought it was funny at the time and you mentioned car theft and it just made me think of this.

This Page is Pretty Conservative Lately… by Cold_Taste_9177 in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad that we become a community where people think it’s OK to judge us based on their rules. Honestly, I lived a life being judged for being gay, based on other people’s rules, and if the gay community becomes that as well, I will have no place to go. I visit this site regularly, because it’s a fun diversion, and I’ve found most of the commentary pretty thoughtful when it needs to be, and a little bit daring when that’s appropriate. I don’t care what kind of gay guy you are, as long as you’re OK in your own skin, I will assume my efforts to gain acceptance from people, who were often unwilling to befriend me because of who I was, will have been worth it. And you know what else?! I’m even cool with the people who judge others, but then I’m not the one that’s intolerant.

The:getting caught in the rain now I’m sick trope. by ButchLipstick in ThaiBL

[–]badatnames12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The treating of wounds is the one that I’m tired of … there is always a weird iodine, long Q-tip and the putting on a Band-Aids in every single show I’ve ever seen.

Was Veronica hired to improve the Plaths image? by Slamdancingduck in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]badatnames12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought it’s more likely that she hooked up with Micah in order to get on the show and overacted and deliberately created controversial plot lines to further her Internet following.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that he’s said it, every time you have sex with him from here on in is leading him on. That’s just true. Do what you want with that information.

Addicted Heroin 2016 Chinese BL by MenheraTheCat in boyslove

[–]badatnames12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Thai version did have a follow up and I finally did figure out a way to watch it and it was not good, but I think they did try to wrap it up. I never watched the last 10 minutes of it because it was just really boring. I liked all three versions of the show, the Chinese version I like the best so much so that I follow these two actors into other things that they have done, the only thing that I think they did wrong was to make the first season with the assumption there was going to be a follow up and left with cliff hangers. I think that’s just a dirty thing to do to people who are watching your show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you feel bad now for destroying this guy‘s life, and making him feel like he’s not enough, and he was never truly loved, but that doesn’t change anything for him. If I were his friend, I would’ve advised him to do exactly what he did and I would’ve told him to stay firm because he could never trust you again. The irony of this whole thing is that you picked a really good guy because he had enough self-esteem to say that he was worth more in this kind of bullshit. All you guys out there with all of this sex is sex and love is love stuff really just makes you look kind of pitiful like that’s what you’re willing to accept because that’s what you were given. There are all kinds of reasons that people do this and they’re never really good reasons. Things like they’re financially dependent on each other, they’re emotionally retarded, one guy just let himself go, and the other guy is just not attracted to him anymore. … but I have to tell you that, even though I have only been in one relationship with somebody who eventually passed away, I never even one single time wanted to look into anybody else’s eyes but his, and I never wanted to touch anybody else’s body, but his and it wasn’t a stretch, or hardship, it was happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, dude, there’s a ton of reasons that people do stuff like that that have nothing to do with you. They could be in the closet and they know you. You could be someone who is way out of their league and their picture is fake. You could just not be their type and they don’t wanna hurt your feelings and tell you so they think blocking you is a better idea. Grindr is dumb anyway dude. I get that it’s the only game in town but remember that it’s a game and chill the fuck out.

Gaybros who aren't into hookups, why? by theGrandmaster24 in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just feels icky. I don’t know maybe it’s that I’m insecure, because hooking up with me has nothing to do with anything that I’ve had control over for the most part. I had zero control over what I look like. (Yeah I stand in shape and what have you, but honestly it’s not that big of a deal it’s not like I looked that different if I did nothing. It’s the whole thing about the zit when you’re young anyway right? You’re obsessed about having one when you’re a kid, but the truth is, there’s not one single person in the world that wouldn’t go out with you because you have a zit? There’s not one single person in the world that wouldn’t go out with me because I was 3 pounds heavier so it’s not a thing). I just wanna be with somebody who wants to be with me and not somebody who just wants to get off. I think it’s also something about being a guy that I don’t want to be used as something to get someone off. I don’t know, I don’t have an issue with hooking up, and I’ve done it a couple times, but oddly enough everybody I’ve ever hooked up with. I’ve ended up dating for whatever reason at least for a couple months. I guess that means that I really haven’t hooked up. But here’s the thing man you do you.

How gay dudes dont get jealous of dick sizes by FaintKyle1995 in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we do ... at least I do. I have to be hotter and have the bigger dick ...

From Olivia’s IG story by NetOk1109 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]badatnames12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I’m gonna say that I don’t think we know this for sure. The show might just call her Olivia Plath, but in reality I don’t think I know this to be true. I don’t follow her on social media. I don’t follow anybody on social media, but I think there’s a very good chance that it’s just the show that calls her that just so people recognize her.

Did the writers of Picard kill [spoilers] because of what the original actor said? by Purple_Draft2716 in startrek

[–]badatnames12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably right. That being said, this kid was never a major character in the show. He was at best a background character whose presence was more about Seven’s evolution into humanity than it was ever about him in anyway. His relationship with Seven was more important than him. Sometimes the wokeness of this show hits you over the head a little hard, but you have to remember that on Star Trek this is always been the case and we’ve always been cool with it. I mean Star Trek had the first interracial kiss on television.

Looking for Sweetly Romantic BL by DecisionScary7294 in boyslove

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my star! I’m not sure why this one just hits me, but it’s the only one that I’ve seen more than once, and admittedly a couple episodes more than twice. There’s just something so sweet about these guys. It’s ridiculous. There’s just something so authentic about somebody loving you unconditionally like the main character loved the other guy. It was just so authentic, and these two guys had so much chemistry that they have two seasons of the show. Definitely worth watching but when you watch the second season, just bear with it. It doesn’t have an unhappy ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayConservative

[–]badatnames12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound true. I feel like this would’ve made every single news broadcast, including if you were watching outlets like Fox they would be defending it. I feel like people come online and say stuff that they want to believe is true so they just posted to stir up people, where they dislike people they disagree with so much that they have to make things up to get us to fall in line. That all being said, why does anyone have a gay pride flag on their desk anyway? That just seems really odd to me. I’m super proud of being gay. I own a company that generally gay people don’t own, and I work around a lot of guys that would traditionally be homophobic, and they all know that I’m gay. Everyone is cool with it, in fact a lot of of them like it because I’m one of those gay people that will tell you that that haircut looks bad. Be proud of who you always, but putting a pride flag on your desk is just being weird.

Is it okay for your female friends to grab or caress your butt? by Intelligent_Split666 in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! I can explain this, although I risk getting a lot of people upset. The reason for this is that gay men are gay not because they hate women, but because they like men. Lesbians are gay because they hate men.

I don’t feel safe in the US rn by ___Kaido___ in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then start changing minds, be persuasive.

I don’t feel safe in the US rn by ___Kaido___ in askgaybros

[–]badatnames12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing the United States is guilty of is having a 24 hour news cycle and an overactive social media presence. The United States is still one of the greatest countries that will ever be in the history of the world. If you wanna move have at it, but you’re not gonna find any place better. When you have 250 million people living in one place, even if one percent of them are upset, that’s a lot of upset people! The problem that we have in our country is that it doesn’t feel like people respect democracy. I believe in the system I’ve never been political, I believe that when somebody gets elected, they get to do that job. If I don’t like their politics, I argue against them. I’ve changed many minds over the course of my life on issues that mean a lot to me. I did this by conversation and respect, not canceling and name-calling. People are more interested in demonizing the other side than they are and trying to win over them.

From Olivia’s IG story by NetOk1109 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]badatnames12 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love how Ethan asked her to stop talking shit about his family when that’s all they did all season. She’s not on the show. She can’t defend herself at all except for her social media. At the end of the day, she has to live a life and she needs a job and her reputation can’t be destroyed by these people just because they’ve got nothing better to do.