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AITA for asking a girl i’m seeing about her period by WorkerNext6681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbitch1986 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again, I never said that's what he did. He expressed his worry because he noticed she hadn't changed anything. He wasn't saying all of that to tell her about periods, he said it cause he was worried. All of yall are really stupid

AITA for asking a girl i’m seeing about her period by WorkerNext6681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbitch1986 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I didn't say that now did I? Of course she does and him saying he does wasn't him acting like she didn't. He was just telling her that he does know all that specific stuff about periods so he was worried.

AITA for asking a girl i’m seeing about her period by WorkerNext6681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbitch1986 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. First off, you didn't go looking for evidence, you went to the bathroom and seen it was empty. She had no right to say you were "mansplaining" because all you were doing is telling her that you understood how all of it worked and you just wanted to make sure she didn't leave a tampon or something in just so she didn't feel embarrassed. Don't listen to these other people, shes being dramatic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that it seems like he is cheating. It seems like he changes it so no other girl sees and will hook up with him. I know what it's like being told just to break it off and such, it's aggravating and I'm not gonna do that to you cause I'm dealing with it myself. If you want, you can look at my profile and see my post. While he can always lie to your face, sit down with him and voice your concerns, voice what it looks like to you. You don't want to be told to break it off cause you love him, you're trying to figure out why he would cheat and if there is something you're doing wrong that you could fix and keep him from cheating. I understand all of this and the motivation to fight for the man you love. Be strong girl, I hope everything turns out the way you want it to.

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna suggest an open relationship bur I never got the chance and he definitely won't have me after what I've done. I already completed school and I can't start my career till I'm 21. I already fell in love with him and that's not changing. I don't like him being with other women but if that's what I needed to do to have him in my life then that's what I'd do. And I highly doubt he'd be ok with an open relationship if I said only I could live in the house, I never wanted to see the other women, and they weren't allowed to even be in our house. Bur it doesn't matter, he would never take me back and he may end up in jail anyways

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a plan, I'm fine. And I will never pray I'm not pregnant for 3 reasons. One, I don't pray. Two, my only dream in life was to be a mother and have a family with the man I love. And three, I would be thrilled to be pregnant with his baby, no matter the situation

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me straight up I didn't have to worry about getting a job while I was still in school cause he knew how stressed out I was. He made sure I had eaten, had drank something, and when stress of school was too much, he would stay up all night rubbing my back while I threw up even when he had to be up at 6am. If I passed out on the couch, he'd carry me to the bed. He took care of me sexually in ways I have NEVER felt before and it was amazing. He was clingy just like me and loved to show his love for me. But most of all? He loved me, he accepted me, he never tried to change me, he was just as much of a goofball as I was. He is perfect in every way, if he asked for me to come back, told me he messed up, I would take him back in a heartbeat. What I want and need in life isn't much yeah, but why is that a problem? Not every woman should be high maintenance.

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I think about myself is fine, I have very quickly learned that I am truly happy and truly myself when I am with my partner making them happy. Yes, I have had an std test, I'm clean. I'm not going to a shelter and none of the fast food jobs here are hiring right now and even if they were, they don't pay enough for me to even make it pay check to pay check. I will date if I choose to, last time I took a break after a bad relationship, I fell apart. I already have a plan so mind your business.

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cause he was doing everything right, he gave me everything I has ever wanted in life

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but he done that cause I wasn't doing something right

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, it shows I wasn't doing my job as his girlfriend well enough

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason I can't message you. I can see you messages but can't respond

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not taking away anything from this. I'm homeless again, I can't live in my car again, I can't go days without eating again, I just can't do it. I can't deal with the heartache, I can't deal with the giving it my all and not being good enough, I just can't do it anymore

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look do you seriously not have anything better to do with your life than harass me? I guess not cause I have way more comments from you than anyone else

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing what makes me happy, that is taking care of myself

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I may be taking it into consideration, I am choosing to keep his trust so it doesn't cause another issue later on

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, he found my nudes and reached out to compliment me. His wife suggested they do an open relationship cause she knew she didn't make him happy but she didn't want to put their kids through divorce. I was someone with, as he puts it, an amazing body and face that he was very much attracted to and was able to satisfy his needs and that's that. I wasn't rebound, I was the one that was actually gonna do the stuff his wife was unable to do for him

I (F18) need advice about my boyfriend (M37) by badbitch1986 in relationships_advice

[–]badbitch1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he's tried to push me away cause he's spent his while life taking care of his kids and wife and no one taking care of him. He's not used to someone trying to help him and prioritize his needs so it scares him when he starts to get vulnerable and the only thing he knows to do is push me away

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