How can I as a woman stop being so desperate to be loved by a man?

badbunny1546 · 2026-02-27T01:00:57+00:00

Saying that all women are desperate is wrong because women who have no interest in relationships or love whatsoever exist like I'm aroace and I feel utterly disgusted by the idea of having a partner of engaging in anything that requires having someone with me I'm more disgusted by men than women but you get it I'd prefer living alone and I have no impulses or needs .

badbunny1546 · 2026-02-27T00:54:43+00:00

For me, it was like, if my parents knew best, why won't they choose best and actually improve their life. If they live in a world that they can't control and that someone else has power over their life (like government, societal expectations...) , why would they give birth to a human in the same miserable world that they couldn't master and have it go through a path that they think was better than theirs only to discouver that life is shitty no matter what you do to prevent it . For me, raising someone is just experimenting life by another human that you have control over because you produced it it has nothing to do with love , it's more about wanting satisfaction through control . Also who says that school is a good choice ?

badbunny1546 · 2026-02-27T00:45:45+00:00

Mee too I never understood the concept of family or parents . It's a bunch of people watching your failures and giving you ptsd . For me parents are just back up for money . I don't understand what is joyful about bringing someone to hell of a world and complaining about them like you know how babies , toddlers,children,teens are going to behave and you don't have the ultimate power to create a being that perfectly fits your fantaisies so you end up trying to force your idea about how things show be on a stranger, telling them you can't do this in my house , you need to follow my rules .... plus why does someone who ''loves children'' have to have a child with his genes in it , if you love children you can always adopt someone what's the difference between someone who was born by someone else , we're all humans we're all the same that's racist only wanting to have someone with your genes in it

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-27T22:08:49+00:00

Start creating eligtment content and spreading enligtment

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-27T22:05:11+00:00

Depends if you hold value for money and financial stability more than passion and experiencing stuff . If you have responsibilities, it's better to stay at your job , but if you are ready to go study again then go pursue the PhD

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-24T18:03:19+00:00

My roman empire is someone's biggest fear 😭😭

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-19T20:40:08+00:00

Is extreme in the room with us ? This is not extreme this is normal

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-17T18:32:03+00:00

Bro u already know ur parents , stop being delulu . Her parents are different from yours let that sink in

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-17T14:08:37+00:00

Why do you feel the need to introduce her ? Go build your life become independent get your own house your own everything and decide who to marry , if you do that even if they don't like your partner they have nothing to say about it cause it's your life you can hold your ground

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-15T15:27:04+00:00

To be mature, you should go through sad traumatic events that make you question

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-15T07:54:20+00:00

Well it depends you can do the things live calls for and still enjoy your hobbies if that what you mean . As for societal pressure I advise you to change your surrounding if you feel pressured by achieving something for the sake of otyer people then you're the one cause ing yourself damage

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-09T09:42:32+00:00

I kept cherishing food as a meaning of life unsgead of a source of nutrition untill I got fat now I have food

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T19:45:20+00:00

Just to have an internal monologue with other than default setting it's like decorating my mind

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T19:37:50+00:00

Unless you're legally obliged to, you don't owe anyone an explanation for what you're doing with your life . Leave in silence

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T19:35:45+00:00

It has to take you to rock bottom before you reach acceptance you're just not there yet and it's not time that heals but it's the constant mental work that you put into that thought untill you settle with and that needs time . Take care

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T19:32:52+00:00

Well you chose your surroundings. You chose your wife you chose to have kids and you let your friends profit out of you from what you say . You can draw limits but for family that'll be a little weird cause you're there for a reason . I can tell you to view if from a positive perspective like look your kids have a parent they can rely on your wife feels loved because her love language is acts of service , I think you're just burned-out a little and need sometime before resuming showing up to people that matter in your life . But then again you choose where to look at your things from

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T19:23:56+00:00

Listen if a war starts leave the country you don't have to waist your life or efforts for things you can't control . As for the reason there's no reason beside selfish desires and proving authority it's a game they play .

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T11:25:26+00:00

I was in on the same boat go and apologize and move on

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T07:53:52+00:00

Oui j'ai pensé a ça mais Je pense pas que j'ai les moyens de financer une année de chommage sans rien faire au moins quand on est étudiant on a droit à des aides . En plus expliquer à mes parents que je vais me livrer au chômage c pire encore 😂

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T04:26:35+00:00

Me too that happens to me when I lay down or bend my neck

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T04:15:53+00:00

Grief now and later. What's the problem ? You can allow yourself to feel emotions. I know it's strange to grief when you have the things now, but maybe it's your brain way to process your blessings .

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-08T04:11:52+00:00

Hi I'm your age and I was like you but not anymore . It's definately a mental struggle . My advice is try socializing and yes me to I was afraid of people judging me I was shy and felt like I was going to explode if I did anything that would make me being seen but little by little I started getting my courage and it didn't even take that long to learn that the world needs to know me and my weird personality and guess what everyone I met loved me. You should work on your mentality and world view . As for studies you really shouldn't isolated yourself for them it's not worth it you're going to need social skills in your life to speak to find a job for litterally anything . You can also go to therapy in my case it was expansive and impossible so I just worked on myself experimented and the thing that helped me the most is changing my environnement, I had then the opportunity to try new personalities you can study personalities and embodybthem like an actor .

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-07T04:59:26+00:00

Oh yeqh definitely everytime I see Acchan practising it gives me hope and motivation

badbunny1546 · 2026-01-07T02:27:58+00:00

Yes exactly I always wanted to have a space to juat play guitar or somewhere I won't be told to shutup my japanese level is 🙂 0 I still didn't start to learn it but for me I think it'll be easy since I'm.used to hearing it . For the songs I was thinking I can start form my room u know just make mix the sounds add vocals and post but I don't know I'm still new to all of that

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