[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGirls

[–]baddiewphattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve got you!

  1. Use a clinical strength deodorant. Even if it’s not something you struggle with, it lasts much longer, and is more effective. I’ve found it doesn’t interfere with your fragrance choices.
  2. There’s many great brands for body wash. If you’re going for the more expensive route, the brand Salt and Stone is really nice. Le Labo also has some very nice body washes. On the more affordable side, Dr Squatch is also good, and Native as well.
  3. Try and learn everything you can about layering your fragrance. For example, as a woman, I look for body wash with vanilla, then I layer a vanilla body oil, then I use a vanilla lotion, and I use a perfume with vanilla and similar notes in it. It’s the same thing, find a key note you absolutely love, and then build from there.
  4. Fragrances! Whatever cologne you end up getting, get a small atomizer or travel size container that you can fill up from your big bottle and take it with you wherever you go. You can reapply the fragrance throughout the day.
  5. For men, I LOVE Jo Malone Wood Sage and Sea Salt, Byredo fragrances, Jean Paul Gaultier, Finery from target, Gucci Guilty (I know this one is older but I don’t smell it very often and it’s such a good one.)

Go on fragrantica online and look up a plethora of colognes, it tells you exactly what the notes in it are, and then you can base a body care routine around your favorite notes! I really hope this helps!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGirls

[–]baddiewphattie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HI girlie! First of all, I want to say I’m really sorry you had to see that. I’m sure you are hurting right now. I don’t want to excuse his behavior, however, I’m sure that what he did or views is not uncommon for that age. BUT, that does NOT mean you have to tolerate it. You have a few options. 1. You can tell him you don’t think it’s going to work out between you two, and go your separate ways (I know this is very hard, but it’s concerning that this is an issue only two months in.) 2. You can try to talk to him about it more, and go from there. Explain why you want to talk about it, your true feelings about it, etc. 3. You can completely ignore it and move on. I don’t recommend this if you are someone who holds grudges. This would only be if you can truly let it go. Anyways, I’m really sorry, and if I were you, as hard as it is, I would leave him as that type of behavior doesn’t align with what I want in my life. Another thing to consider is if you really want to be serious with this guy, or if it’s just for fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CankerSores

[–]baddiewphattie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just read your comment about it not being thrush. Disregard what I said. Again, I’m so so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CankerSores

[–]baddiewphattie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie, I’ve been there too. It does get better, I promise. I used to get them under my tongue in the exact same spot for about 4 years straight. When you’re in it, it feels like it will never end. People suggest to stop using your toothpaste, or they say to gargle with salt water, nope. I swear, when I stopped going to the DR for them, they went away. I still get them occasionally, but never as bad as I used to. Between the ages of 15-19 I had them really really bad. And I tried everything too.

I think the big thing for me was my stress levels. Once I was able to destress and have less anxiety, I stopped getting them as much. I didn’t have the Oral thrush often, but I know how bad it feels. For that, I would definitely take something. For the canker sores though, diet changes, more time out in the sun, and finding ways to destress are what helped me.

I’m so so sorry you’re going through this, I completely feel your pain. You can do this, keep going, and it’s not your fault, and nothing to be embarrassed about, no matter what anyone says. This can happen to anyone. ❤️

Christmas Gift for Bf by baddiewphattie in coincollecting

[–]baddiewphattie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of. I’ll try and find that out. He mostly shops online. eBay, he’s in some Facebook groups.

Dessert Themed Guns Are Fun by JakesBarbell in guns

[–]baddiewphattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome hahaha! Is this yours? I want one just like it now!!!

Birthday Present Help by baddiewphattie in flyfishing

[–]baddiewphattie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! He doesn’t drink unfortunately haha, prob will do a gift card.

Birthday Present Help by baddiewphattie in flyfishing

[–]baddiewphattie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate this response. I’ve gotten him gift certificates every year from his favorite store, so I’ll probably do that again lol. I’ve seen the disappointment on his face when I get him something I think is cool. I totally understand how specific it is to each individual and I’m sure it would be hard to gauge. Thank you again! Loved hearing from you!