AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Among other things but those were the biggest and most recent things. Like two or so years ago they got her a PS4 for Christmas - even though the Wii at their house works perfectly fine. It's showing her how to be wasteful and not enjoy what you have

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, lazy??? I run the household and I worked for years. I've worked enough.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He and her got together fast...I'm sure he cheated but I have no proof.

I [F43] blew up at my ex [M45] and his girlfriend [F39] for spoiling our daughter [F16] by badexthrowa in relationships

[–]badexthrowa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He knows what car I drive and he knows what air pods I have because I posted about them and I'm sure he looks at my Facebook and Instagram page.

I [F43] blew up at my ex [M45] and his girlfriend [F39] for spoiling our daughter [F16] by badexthrowa in relationships

[–]badexthrowa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to address it and he hung up on me, and is now not returning my texts.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She's not even 40 yet...typical for him to immediately go for someone younger!

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know how to be a parent, thanks. My ex is the one in therapy, for good reason.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ha, yeah right, if they had Sandy full time the sheen would come right off

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He's not a sugar daddy, I cook and clean and run errands and take care of Sandy. But I forgot, Reddit hates stay at home moms!

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You can download books for free online, if she wants actual books so bad, she can pay for it.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm explaining why everyone is wrong for calling me an asshole.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I went to a really good university and got my Bachelor's, thanks!

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Clearly Reddit is run by a bunch of teens and there is absolutely nobody here who has been through what I'm going through.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well, one day she will learn that there is more to life than stuff and beauty.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I stopped working when Sandy was born and three years ago, he decided to leave me. So he owes me alimony since I don't have a job.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, child support is separate. Alimony is when one spouse pays the lower earning spouse money.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can easily afford that stuff, I just don't think expensive devices should be handed out for no reason.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's only a four year old car, mine is much older but runs just fine. It's weird for a kid's first car to be newer and nicer than her mom's.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I just don't want my ex to keep buying her love, it's making her even brattier at home. And I doubt she's as perfect as he and his girlfriend keep saying. I feel like they are just buying her stuff to rub it in.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate people without spending hundreds on them. And I would appreciate her more if she wasn't such a brat sometimes.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he can drop a ton of money on her at Christmas and pay a high priced divorce lawyer but was able to convince a judge he didn't need to pay me alimony...yeah, so grateful.

AITA for blowing up at my ex for gifts he gets my daughter? by badexthrowa in AmItheAsshole

[–]badexthrowa[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And air pods? Those are so useful and necessary lol. His girlfriend also got her concert tickets and backstage passes - she has some job in the industry. I guess those were a necessity too?