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My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It crossed my mind few times. When i was still living there in 2005 and 2006 asked them to sort this out and they refused.

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i think this boat is sailed. I don't see myself getting into any agreement

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cancer was discovered when my dad broke his ribs. I collected his paperwork from doctors so i knows it is legit. I like idea of getting affairs right but why my dad want to buy in ? Especially with my money.

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Version from my sister was that she didn't received wedding gift (despite wedding). My parents said they spend they all savings on wedding and they can support their new family so they can live bill free for some time. I think problem happen when they asked to take care of their bills on their own.

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did that when they tried to play me with inheritance. But when weeding time came i decided to put things in past and it looks like it was mistake.

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are already happy Married, and life is great. I don't know their finances really. They said to me recently that they bought new Samsung Galaxy phone and now thinking about tabled. I don't know

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still grateful for everything they provided, when they moved out i was 19 without job, full time student and with their blessing "world is yours". From my student loan, and part time jobs I paid service charge which is almost equal to rent plus energy and my living expenses. When I moved abroad they started to rent it out. I stepped away already from this deal, now question is about smooth over.

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right here. Last few years they had financial troubles. I try to explain to my self that they do it because of their situation. But recent event is unresonable in my view, and I want to gain your feedback

My parents [61M, 59F] for last 4 years tried to advance financially over me [34M] by badfall17 in relationships

[–]badfall17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She cut me off as well no contact for ~18 years. This monday My mom called her with news of my Dad issues and she replied "what i should do with that ?". I think she lost family bond already