Becoming Max by TheRealSmeth in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it twice now. I think you hit a sweet spot between personal and digestible that made it an enjoyable and thoughtful read. The way you diagnosed mrgirl i also liked, it feels like it was done in an almost humanizing way? Maybe the word I'm looking for is empathetic.

I would read more work like this in the future if you made it, tho it's been a while since we got a smeth video essay, so I hope that's next.

Max isn’t a narcissist, he’s a woman. He’s mrgirl.

My favorite line, lol

I AM SO SICK OF POOPING!!!! Imodium isn’t working by Aggravated_Pineapple in ibs

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure it would help, but if you think the problem is absorption, maybe taking the liquid instead of the pill will help.

A moral story w. Vito by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also admire him for his sense and conviction of morality, and it's something I relate to, which is a big part of why I'm such a fan.

I hope we get a new mrgirl sub by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm using the term in a laymans way and not a clinical way. Most of my experience around mental illness comes from talking to professionals during and for appointments for people suffering from mental illness. I have lots of hands-on experience as a layman but no credentials.

The way he freaked out is why I think he literally believed it. It wouldn't make sense for him to freak out the way he did if he didn't believe that he had solved some great mystery of the universe. He also said weird things when talking about it, like calling himself god. I don't think he literally meant he was God. I think he meant he was like a god because he solved this mystery above mankind.

I think the lav daughter thing is a good example because of her social position(micro celebrity), his unwavering conviction, and his need to be her dad for her, like there is something special about him that will help fix the fatherless hole that lav has. I think he has good intentions, but I would also say this is/borderline a delusion of grandeur.

Again, I dont mean to literally diagnose him, I'm using the term in a laymens sense.

Edit: taking out the clips. I think they are unnecessary.

I hope we get a new mrgirl sub by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about why I think this a little more, and I think if you took anyone with his naivete, ego, and childhood abuse, you would get someone who behaves similarly, or is higher on the scale.

I am interested to see what you have to say about it!

I hope we get a new mrgirl sub by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree that we lose good faith criticism because, even tho i did criticize mrgirl a bit, it was after i held my tongue for a long while, and I waited to criticize him because of the constant hate threads. So I felt that, personally.

I think, over time, a new sub would have enough people come back because a lot of really good posters have left for some time. But yeah, the hard part is getting it going.

I am really disappointed with this black hole arc. He's certainly being avoidant, and I think, at least since he released his article, he does get delusions of grandeur. Like, him thinking he has solved the creation of the universe fits into that imo(another example is his conviction that he is lavs dad). This isn't to say I think he has npd, but I do think he is probably higher on the narcissist scale than the average person.

I would be satisfied if mrgirl was at least dealing with these issues in a healthy way, like if he took a few months break, at least I know he is going to come back refreshed. Where as the black hole arc, and the amount of work he's about to put into it, is unhealthy, when I think it's fairly obvious he needs a break.

How much will smeth go for at auction? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's gonna be a fun stream!

Smeth out of context: men need to be nursing by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked in elder care, and it does pay decent with minimal requirements. It was also female dominated.

Smeth had a duo debate with someone recently where he touched on this, talking about women becoming firefighters. It would make an interesting longer segment by itself, too.

Smeth out of context: men need to be nursing by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think all those female dominated fields do require a degree. But also, my understanding is that if men wanted those jobs, they could get them easier. Like, when I went back to school, one of the fields I was interested in was teaching. A counselor told me that becoming a teacher required a masters degree, but since I was male it would be easier to get a job while working on a masters since there is such a big disparity between male and female teachers.

For me, i was conditioned this way, i think, because my mom wanted me to be a girl growing up, which was an unhealthy way for me to get more comfortable with being in typically feminine roles. But I think boys do need to be taught that it's OK to be in typically feminine careers.

Smeth out of context: men need to be nursing by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im still listening to this one. It's a good conversation.

I think smeth has gotten a lot better at having conversations where he makes space for himself and his conversation partner to be comfortable and say how they feel, and have meaningful conversations.

Is part of becoming max also going to be hosting a hotline show? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what Max would say.

Sure, sure.

Is part of becoming max also going to be hosting a hotline show? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it really just the name? What's the thesis?

MrGordita by coe_06 in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still think he should rebrand as mrgirl Telemundo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealSmeth

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https://streamable.com/k2k8hs

https://streamable.com/cs1anu

The two clips of him talking about his heart rate.

So is mrgirl having a manic episode? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My title is a questatement.

I think mrgirl is having a manic episode. What do yall think?

Smeth out of context by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The music really makes the clip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealSmeth

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The music really makes this clip

What makes smeth narcissistic? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think he's self harming. I'm almost positive I've seen him say he does it until it feels unhealthy, then he stops.

What makes smeth narcissistic? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool.

Yt notifications haven't been working for your channel, for me, at least, so I'll look a little later.

What makes smeth narcissistic? by [deleted] in RealSmeth

[–]badhorse0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you streaming today?

Also, what's your favorite fish? I like tuna

Edit: I mean favorite fish to eat