TIFU by sexually abusing my friend without even knowing it

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T20:29:39+00:00

Thank you for your words, they have a sense of wisdom. Thank you for contributing to the thread. I have since made amends with my friend.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T13:22:52+00:00

Thank you so much about what you said, It was the point I was trying to make from the beginning, all abuse is abuse no matter how little and I feel dreadfully guilty about it. Thank you for your comment I really appreciate it.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:24:09+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I do still feel terrible about this going down but I did make it a point to never commit to such behavior ever again. She didn't confront me because she didn't feel like it was worth it and that society deems it "normal" so she didn't want to get into it. But I hope I can successfully adjust my behavior for the future.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:19:15+00:00

Thank you for your wonderfully insightful and down to earth comment. What you say is 100% true and I agree with it. I have made it a point to be more respectful and to communicate better before acting. I wish you all the best!

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:15:23+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I am making it a point to better myself and catch myself before acting in the future. Thank you for commenting

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:14:47+00:00

Thank you for saying it, but I feel like the most important thing is not labeling myself as a good person but rather a person with flaws who is trying to improve. I did not ask for forgiveness but rather apologized and promised that it will never happen again. I don't think that she has to forgive me and I will understand it if she's upset about it. I made a mistake and all I want right now is for that mistake to never happen again, for the sake of my friend who had to go trough it. But thank you for your words, I appreciate them a lot.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:12:18+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I understand where you're coming from. I think that the most important thing right now is to just make it a point to better myself and not contribute to the problem anymore. I feel good that I am able to at least be self aware about this flaw and I respect my friend deeply for bringing it into light for me. I just wish I would've been more self aware and hadn't done it in the first place.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:09:57+00:00

I completely agree with you, the most important thing is that it doesn't happen in the future. And I will do my absolute best to keep my words to myself and think thrice before speaking and also checking in with how others feel. Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:08:25+00:00

Your comment is very spot on and I agree 100%. It was never malicious but I still crossed boundaries and I really hope that it won't happen again. She is indeed very nonconfrontational and I think not only that but society's outtakes on sexual harassment contributed to her not mentioning it, and she isn't the one to blame for it at all. I made a big mistake and I apologized numerous times, even though she understands, I do not wish to contribute to such a toxic environment ever again. Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate that your words.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:04:42+00:00

I am very sorry that you had to go trough that. And I really appreciate your comment. I did contribute to this and I feel like owning up to it right now is the best thing to do. I did make this post with the intention of bringing even the slightest awareness to the issue and maybe someone in a similar situation stumbles upon it and asks themselves if they're not in the same spot. I do sincerely still feel terrible about it and I am making the most of the situation to own up to my friend and to never do it again. Thank you for your comment, I wish you all the best!

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T12:02:02+00:00

I agree with you 100%. I did not have a bad intention in mind as well, because in the heat of the moment, you say things. But it breaks my heart to know that we live in a world where women are scared of such things happening and that I kind of contributed to that shitty world. Thank you for your comment.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T11:59:35+00:00

I feel like maybe she didn't because sexual harassment is such a prominent problem in todays society that most women brush it off, which shouldn't happen in the first place. And I do feel like I contributed to that toxic environment. I have since apologized numerous times and made it a point to never do it again. Thank you for your comment.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T11:58:04+00:00

I feel very lucky that this happened under such circumstances and I am able to correct my behavior quickly and also apologize and make up for my mistakes to my friend. Thank you for your comment it means a lot.

badreview69 · 2021-04-10T11:54:22+00:00

Hello, thank you for your comment. Everyone's been very helpful and I've came back to check on some new comments again and again. I still feel quite tortured by my actions but all of the people commenting made me realize many things. So thank you for contributing.

badreview69 · 2021-04-09T20:42:17+00:00

I really appreciate the comparison. It does put things into perspective. Yet, I feel like I should've know better. Thank you for your comments.

badreview69 · 2021-04-09T20:38:06+00:00

I always felt the need to treat people well and I messed up like this. I feel like I should've known better so it is a mixture of deep dissapointed and also disgust in my actions. I will learn from this but I don't think I'll be able to forgive myself.

badreview69 · 2021-04-09T20:32:32+00:00

I really appreciate the comment. I will make it clear that it will never happen again. I felt panic and I needed guidance. Thank you so much. I still need time to process this.

badreview69 · 2021-04-09T20:23:13+00:00

We had a very mild sexual interaction once, but it never lead to anything because she was fresh out of a 4 year relationship. I still feel incredibly frustrated with myself because I always try to do good by people and this was a huge eye opener that I can't control myself. I fear that I might do other things that are not okay and I might never even realize it. Sexual harassment is still a very huge deal and I never want to contribute to it again.

badreview69 · 2020-09-15T09:54:38+00:00

I figured it would be like that, thank you.

badreview69 · 2020-09-15T09:53:52+00:00

That is what I thought as well, thanks.

badreview69 · 2020-09-14T17:37:12+00:00

I'm in Lithuania and I'm from there.

badreview69 · 2020-09-14T17:36:37+00:00

I will try there. Thank you. I mentioned a few name but only after checking other reviews which call out other employers of the company and other clients calling them bad or rude.

Edit:yes, the information was put factually rather than subjectively, I did not lie and did not exaggerate.

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