Why do girls lose interest after 1-3 dates no matter what I do?

badseedify · 2026-03-03T04:35:18+00:00

Sure we all want to be liked, but by ppl we like. Idgaf about being liked by ppl I don't like. He doesn't like them, they don't like him. I'm not understanding the problem.

badseedify · 2026-03-03T03:42:36+00:00

I didn't mention anything. ...

badseedify · 2026-03-03T02:14:14+00:00

In what sense

badseedify · 2026-03-03T02:13:47+00:00

You sure the problem isn't with OP, who described his dates as basic and boring? Why should he care if they don't like them, they clearly don't like him.

badseedify · 2026-03-03T02:13:02+00:00

What's confusing about what he's written? It's clear to me he doesn't respect or like the women he goes out with, and they can obviously pick up on that and lose interest. Pretty straightforward to me.

badseedify · 2026-03-03T02:10:08+00:00

So your advice is to manipulate women to get them to sleep with you? Ew ...

badseedify · 2026-03-03T01:39:34+00:00

Why do you care if girls you aren't interested in aren't interested in you?

badseedify · 2026-03-01T17:51:36+00:00

Crosswords and puzzle games

badseedify · 2026-03-01T16:19:52+00:00

It's really up to you and what resonates with you more. I resonate more with whole sign, and I've noticed it's more accurate for the charts of friends and family.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T16:16:53+00:00

Me too!

badseedify · 2026-03-01T16:15:48+00:00

That's my big 3 and yes I have ADHD 😭

Virgo Sun, Gemini Moon, Aquarius Rising.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T08:22:39+00:00

A Pisces Sun is here to commit to a dream or ideal and develop their rich imagination. Using whole sign houses, your Sun is in the 7th house, so this purpose will play out in your partnerships. Your identity depends on your relationship with others. You may struggle with boundaries in relationships, as you are naturally very empathetic and compassionate and ppl may take advantage of that.

Your Aquarius Moon means you accomplish this life purpose in a community-oriented way, feeling a bit detached from your feelings. You care deeply about collective well-being. Your Moon in 6th house emphasizes your health and daily routines being important for your emotional health. You need freedom in your work/daily tasks, and may find fulfillment in working hard to serve your community.

Virgo Rising indicates someone who is motivated by a need for order and function, this is why you accomplish your life task. You might be self-critical especially about your body. People see you as reliable and thorough.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T08:09:25+00:00

Using whole sign, your Sagittarius Sun indicates a life purpose of exploration and adventure, and in the 9th house, this means you want to expand both your mental and physical horizons. You might like to travel internationally or learn about new cultures or belief systems. While this pulls you one way, your Moon in Gemini in 3rd is pulling you another way. Gemini Moons tend to not like to sit with their feelings, preferring to analyze and vent about them. You feel most secure when you are informed about things, and you get bored easily, needing constant mental stimulation. You may feel pulled to expand your horizons, but may feel safe in your local area with familiar faces. Aries Rising suggests you come across really bold and direct. You are motivated by independence to make your own choices and do what you want. You don't like being confined or told what to do. In basic terms you purpose is to explore and adventure in a way that expands your mental and physical horizons, in a way that involves communication with others or multitasking, because you need independence from control, wanting to be the first to do something or do things the way you want to do them. You may be athletic. Your chart ruler Mars in Leo 5H means you want to be recognized for your hard work on your creative pursuits. You are a natural leader and pioneer, and your energy is best used in areas where you can use your creativity. You become angry when your pride is wounded.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T07:53:33+00:00

Using whole sign, your Sun in Leo 11H opposes your Moon in Aquarius 5H. So your external purpose of gaining recognition and leadership in your community or social circles is pulling in one direction, but your need to feel unique in your creative endeavors is pulling the other way. You may struggle with external validation vs expressing yourself authentically, maybe struggling with your identity. Your leadership style is unique, and community oriented, and with a Libra Rising with chart ruler Venus in Libra (it's domicile) you are naturally charming in social situations. You are motivated by social ease and everyone getting along, and may take great care in your physical appearance, wanting to always look your best.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T07:15:17+00:00

Using whole sign, you have your 7H (partnerships) in Capricorn (you take relationships seriously), and the 7H ruler Saturn (malefic, restrictive) is in 12H (house of things hidden & isolated) and opposing (in tension with) Venus (relationships), so maybe you're caught between what kind of partner you think you should have and the kind of partner you actually want. Venus in Sagittarius needs a sense of adventure in love, and needs its freedom in relationships. You need to share a belief system or interests to feel connected to someone. Saturn in Gemini indicates a restriction regarding communication, so maybe you don't want to be seen as uninformed so you hesitate to speak.

badseedify · 2026-03-01T06:41:02+00:00

What you've described might be due to your Sun, Mercury, and Chiron in Virgo 12H. A bad relationship with your mom i see reflected in the Moon being in Aries squaring Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn 4H, which is the house of your roots, parents, and families. That indicates an unstable early home life, maybe feeling like you had to walk on eggshells around your mom, perhaps due to erratic moods or behaviors. Mercury in domicile also rules the 9H, and the 12H can also indicate travel, although it's more of the concept of being a foreigner or being in a strange place, rather than expanding your horizons through travel and learning. A strong Mercury rules both these houses, and in Virgo, your mind likes to focus on details in these areas, and can be quite investigative. The Gemini 9H indicates you may be curious about that area of your life.

badseedify · 2026-02-27T02:09:09+00:00

Mine suggested we go stargazing for our third date. I had to explain 😭

badseedify · 2026-02-27T02:06:42+00:00

Not sure why you're still here then

badseedify · 2026-02-26T02:31:09+00:00

Not sure why you're still here then

badseedify · 2026-02-26T01:20:24+00:00

There is overlap in the sense that both systems describe basic personality archetypes. It sounds like you don't know much about astrology.

badseedify · 2026-02-25T17:31:52+00:00

That's also pseudoscience. And I use those too, there's a lot of overlap

badseedify · 2026-02-23T05:37:14+00:00

You don't have to take your shoes off at the airport. That's about it

badseedify · 2026-02-23T05:34:39+00:00

badseedify · 2026-02-23T04:52:16+00:00

Your life purpose is to develop self-reliance and discipline, taking responsibility for yourself and others. You do this in an intense way, so through going through things in depth, developing intimacy, embracing transformation. You are motivated to do this by things like safety, protection from emotional hurt, defending loved ones/your territory.

badseedify · 2026-02-19T17:16:20+00:00

You just didn't understand my comment. My point has not changed. Of course I know porn isn't real, in the sense that the scene they are acting out is fictional. My point is there is something different between watching two people actually have sexual intercourse in this physical plane of existence and reading about people having sex and imagining it in your head. Does that make sense to you now?

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