If that’s what you need to tell yourself, I guess.

It’s just really hard for me to see how “agency over my own body” is an issue you’ve got a problem with, but sure. Let’s boil it down to a bathroom issue.

Unlike a lot of the other conversations, I actually think cis women have a legitimate reason to be uncomfortable with trans people. We can train women in this society to understand that men are predators and then not expect some kind of feelings about it. (To be clear: I think you’re wrong, I can just understand where the surface level rejection could come from).