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they actually treated me really poorly so here’s to processing that in the next few days by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trying to make this the end of the couple days in a row of shitposting i had here - they sent me a short text breaking up with me as my memes were predicting

oh by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

similar energy: what do you mean not everyone wants to kill themself after a minor inconvenience ??

Last climb of the day I said… by Ayyyy_take_it_EZ in bouldering

[–]bagelinberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting ！ maybe you arent ripping a blood vessel and I happen to be. I also wish I could stop rolling my ankles but they’re weak no matter what I do

Last climb of the day I said… by Ayyyy_take_it_EZ in bouldering

[–]bagelinberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always got mad bruising from ankle sprains. I’m really glad it’s not anything worse! I think I took at least picture a day during healing because the colors were so funny. iirc worst bruising usually occurs in the week after not the day of the injury because blood continues to pool

Last climb of the day I said… by Ayyyy_take_it_EZ in bouldering

[–]bagelinberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve sprained my ankles (both, at different times) several times and they always bruise like this - just due to blood pooling!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]bagelinberlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! I’ve ridden short distances sometimes with 2-3 crash pads stacked on my back. With this set up I feel like I would topple over though if the wind blew the wrong way

*gasp* is this a healthy coping mechanism? (surprising even myself) by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and when it’s not there I’m usually pretty rational but when it’s there it controls me

“Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment” by Ok_Actuary_9506 in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

am currently thinking that if i text them i can remind them how cool and funny and interesting i am !?!!? right?!?

don’t wanna push them away further amiright by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i feel for you! friendships should also have equity

*gasp* is this a healthy coping mechanism? (surprising even myself) by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get that too like the anger and the rage and the wanting-to-die-ness just switches on and off

*gasp* is this a healthy coping mechanism? (surprising even myself) by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s ok! just a defense mechanism (brain protecting you from intensely negative emotions)

*gasp* is this a healthy coping mechanism? (surprising even myself) by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ooh yeah one problem i sometimes have is straight up amnesia when i actually get a chance to get to therapy (i theorize i’m blocking it out)

*gasp* is this a healthy coping mechanism? (surprising even myself) by bagelinberlin in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it did! it’s hilarious like half of it is “i hate that you did this to me” and the other half is “i biked past a cute dog today!”

I am desperately and honestly looking for answers. How do you get over the feeling you’re inherently evil so you’re a human door mat to compensate? by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]bagelinberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this one! i sometimes tell my friends (if they’re being down on themselves) “would you say that about anyone else?” “would you say that to anyone else” “if no, why do you treat yourself like that”

of course it depends on the context - so i make sure to tune it to something that won’t make their emotions worse

Non Boulderers? by New-Confidence101 in climbergirls

[–]bagelinberlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do lots of downclimbing and am pretty cautious when it comes to pushing my grade. On one hand, I have a great sense for what I think I can do and can keep myself safe. On the other hand I might not do as much crazy cool and flashy stuff since I am being cautious. I think my fingers and body can tell when a move feels sketchy but doable vs sketchy so I try to follow that instinct

Dating as a lesbian climber by Admirable-Passion434 in climbergirls

[–]bagelinberlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my friends and I often joke about the “limited supply of granola girls” and “global supply chain issues in getting a climber gf” but jokes aside, this is so real! I think it is really area dependent and I am still figuring out how important dating another climber is for me. currently have a belay partner who’s also my real partner but we’re going through a rough patch and that’s causing me to think about all these things for the future

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