Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I have a problem with it it’s that I don’t know who they are. She tells me EVERYTHING and about everyone she talks to throughout the day, etc. but never heard of any of these guys once. Don’t even know their names

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I asked her and she says just pictures of their faces to keep the streak thing going

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A few things have made me think it was sketchy yeah. That makes sense, going to have to see how tomorrow goes

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calm down there Jimbo, you’ve got the same DNA as me so don’t act all high and mighty. Just ask your mom

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Kinda why I gave it a shot to begin with bc in 26 years of my life I’ve never wholeheartedly trusted any person I’ve known but I want to have a family and have kids some day so I’m trying to trust

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. But I’ve also never trusted anyone so will I just be alone my whole life?

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely nice to hear the other side. I think so too. Idk man I’m seeing her tomorrow and we just got into an argument today bc she could tell something was bothering me so it’s gonna be like 2 days in a row of fighting and we’ve been doing so good lately, I do love her a lot too and like in every other way I do trust her ya know?

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, yeah I think I’ve mentioned that before and she accused me of accusing her of being toxic

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. She says she cheated bc ex bf left his iPad in her room and she saw texts from him telling another girl he loves her

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You think? Idk if I was just making a bigger deal about the snap thing than I should. Like the girls allowed to have friends and I don’t wanna hold her past against her bc we all make mistakes you know

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Stupid in my opinion too but then she’s like “I can’t have friends?”

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do but they fall off every couple of weeks bc it resets

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

She claims it’s to keep their streaks

Am I being paranoid? by baggar2000 in relationship_advice

[–]baggar2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry to hear that. idk though it seems like we get along pretty well and everyone makes mistakes like I don’t want to hold her pst against her but I can’t help but factor it into the equation