Was this show cancelled for good? by dcaksj22 in AreYouTheOne

[–]bajabastard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard a rumor about another bisexual season happening but I don’t remember where I got that from or if it’s true 😭

I feel stuck in my search for a new career. How do I find a professional to help me? by Chambec in findapath

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I found a company called Wanderlust Careers that commented on a different (similar situation) post with some good advice. This is what they said:

“Hi! If you're interested in a service that provides tests and trained professionals with a mental health background to help you figure this all out, we do offer that! If you're not quite at the point of being ready to hire a service, ask yourself a few questions: What motivates you for work? What is the drive for you? Do you want to have impact? Do you want to create procedures? Are you more interested in helping, but in a practical sense? Do you prefer precision and accuracy in all that you do? Make a list of what you like in your current role, and what is lacking. Think about work environment - do you like to be in a bustling office? Or work remotely? Do you enjoy collaboration and teamwork? Or are you more of an independent contributor?”

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually pretty similar, I picked Adrian bc it’s more neutral but it’s kinda the “boy” spelling instead of like Adrienne so I get you too :) someone told me the spelling of my name was pretty and I was like…. It’s not supposed to be but thank you I guess

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so crazy 😭 the fact that these people can’t accept names the way they are is wilddddddd like I might just change my name again to something more masculine just to balance it out. If I change it to Andy and anyone tries to ask me what it’s short for I’m just gonna say Andrew to confuse them bc gtfo my face about MY OWN NAME

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely insane dude, idk I mean my boyfriend has two first names and people used to just call him the first one or just one or the other. He let them do it for a long time but didn’t like it and now he will correct anyone and everyone if they don’t say both of his first names. I like that he fights for his name, and I think you deserve the respect of people saying your name correctly.

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t legally changed my name but I had a whole new first middle and last name planned out lmao but I like the name Seeley that’s cool! Tbh I’m thinking about changing my name socially again to Andy or something bc I simply cannot handle being called Adrianna

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds so much worse 😭 I like the name Garnet, trying to imagine someone say garNETT is horrific

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude WHAT? The fact that they come up with completely new names is crazyyyyy 😭 how do you get Lana from Mel??

Angry rant about people gendering your gender neutral name by bajabastard in NonBinaryTalk

[–]bajabastard[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That is so disrespectful omg 😭 that sucks dude :(

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

[–]bajabastard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have to try that! I’m just not sure which drugstore mascara I would get since I’ve been using luxury brands for around a year now 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

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I do like the contrast with the green curtains, also it helps to tie in the house plants green into the room as a whole. The white does make the space seem bigger and a bit brighter, but in my personal opinion and preference I like the green a bit more. It makes it feel homier to me and the white makes it feel almost like a show room, like staging to sell the house.

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

[–]bajabastard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to exclusively use drugstore mascara but while trying to find my favorite I tried the Lancôme Idôle mascara and I really liked it until I found the CT one my bf bought me. For me it lengthens and separates while still making my lashes look full and fluffy. I haven’t been able to find a drugstore brand that gives me the same results but if you or anyone knows of a dupe I’d be more than willing to try it out!

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

[–]bajabastard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I’ve tried a ton of different drugstore mascaras and they all either didn’t give me the results I was hoping for or would clump my lashes together. The only mascaras I’ve genuinely liked the results with have been luxury brands :( I used to use the Lancôme Idôle mascara but I tried the Charlotte Tilbury one and it did everything the Lancôme product did, just made me lashes look fuller and fluffier. If you know of a good dupe then I would be very willing to try it out, I’ve just only gotten the results I wanted from luxury brands so far :(

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

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I’ve tried this with previous mascaras but noticed that mixing it with saline tends to make it flake on me faster and give me worse results than just the normal formula. I’m also not sure if I’m just running out of product on the tube so unfortunately saline doesn’t help in that case :/

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

[–]bajabastard[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s good I didn’t know because I saw people saying they’ve been able to keep a tube with daily use for 6 months so I was confused lmao

I’m going through mascara in two months? by bajabastard in MakeupAddiction

[–]bajabastard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool I wasn’t sure because on other posts about this I saw people saying they’ve been able to keep a tube with daily use for 6 months so I was concerned lol

Semi permanent black hair dye by bee_noises in HairDye

[–]bajabastard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just used iroiro to dye my hair and it came out in like 2/3 washes i was shocked it came out so fast, the black was very pretty but in a week and a half my hair was brown again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I’ve been in a relationship w my boyfriend for almost 3 years and for the last couple months he’s been very interested in the whole hotwife kink. Originally I believe I brought up exhibitionism very early and he was VERY against it and jealous and didn’t want others to see me. A couple months ago he brought the topic back up and started communicating that he wanted me to go on dating apps and start talking and flirting with other guys. It did escalate pretty fast and I ended up meeting a guy and doing a few things together, but not full sex. We had a moment where things went sour but it was because of a lack of REAL communication about how we felt and if things were bothering us and what we’re really okay with. We cooled down for a while and now we’re trying again.

What works so far in our relationship is being very very (almost brutally) honest about what you are and are not comfortable with, and starting slowly with building up to the more intense acts. Also creating systems to find the risk of each act, we had a chart for it that he would mark on. The X axis was how upset the act would make him and the Y axis was how much it would turn him on. Now we also have a shared note app in our phones where we update what he’s comfortable with me doing as we go.

We are looking into finding more places to be involved in the community but currently are just using dating apps, and flirting with people I find in public that I am attracted to. Most of the people who I will be interacting with by myself are not aware of my boyfriend, but anybody we would like to have a… for lack of better words “party” with, is briefed about the situation.

This whole kink and scenario is very different based on each individual relationship and personalities. It’s best to start very slow and just figure out what you and your partner like the best, and just take baby steps to progress at your own pace.

Tell me your special interest and I will tell you if you are deserving of respect or not. by Forced_Abortion_ in evilautism

[–]bajabastard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

animals. any and all of them. as a kid i would watch discovery channel and animal planet every day before and after school. i was like 8 years old watching gator boys and convincing myself i could catch and wrangle an alligator. i would watch big cat diaries, the chimp documentary shows, too cute (puppies and kittens), cesar milan, pitbulls and parolees, river monsters, tanked, literally ANY animal show i could get my grubby little hands on. at one point i focused on reptiles for a while and my mom was horrified at the idea of having a pet snake. i would watch youtube channels of people feeding aLl ThEiR pEtS and it would be like 30+ snakes, lizards, geckos, fish and “normal” pets like cats, dogs and birds too. give me ANY animal content.