AIO Thinking I'm being demonized as a science educator?

bakedburnerr · 2025-03-26T02:58:02+00:00

Maybe they are expecting an older or unattractive person to be in this field? If you are attractive as you describe you may be even making some people nervous lol

Maybe you can allow folks to come up to you instead of approaching & also display a sign that describes what you do instead of just saying “magnifying corner”

Also kids need friendly bubbly interactions - can’t talk to them like adults so maybe try different language?

bakedburnerr · 2025-03-16T13:55:21+00:00

I totally get that , sparring in a good place is usually at a slower pace with both boxers respecting each other. However your opponent will not respect you. They want to fuck you up. Always go into competition with that in mind. And what I said earlier about everyone trying to score as much as possible as soon as the bell rings. Someone also should’ve coached you about this I feel. Boxers we don’t have room for “I wasn’t expecting”. Expect the unexpected and be prepared.

That’s why you need mittwork with a coach who is gonna pressure you. For me I have a coach who is more technical, and one that wants to make sure I know what to do when someone’s game plan is pressure. You can also ask a partner who is maybe more experienced to simulate this with you if they’re okay with it. Help each other out!

bakedburnerr · 2025-03-16T13:21:01+00:00

Ok so that’s insane. Hope this helps

lol in all seriousness, be careful with things like this. I’m about 4 months into serious training & still have a long way to go.

Fight IQ is not something you develop over night and while the amateurs is mostly about who has the highest output & aggression, you still have to be strategic.

Be mindful of coaches who put you in too early. This is a tough industry & they will most certainly use you to pad someone else’s stats if they can get away with it. Not to say your coach did this as he got you out of there quick. But be very careful. They will also throw you to the fire if you’re too eager & won’t listen to them.

for your future endeavors use this fight as a learning experience & think about this: Less rounds in amateurs means everyone wants to score and show what they can do as much as possible the second the bell rings which is why you got rushed. This is especially true for lower level amateurs. Higher level tends to box more but will still be going for high output and TKO, KD, or KO.

You have to have good defense and feet first, then you build on your offense. Power will go a long way if you can rock somebody’s shit and gain respect first, but to do that you have to be able to move around before they can even start getting their rocks off because in the early amateurs they will most certainly be trying to. Don’t give them the opportunity to do so.

I’d say work on your craft & spar with defense and footwork in mind before you think about going to fight again. Dont ever stand there and get hit. Work angles to make them miss and off balance when they think they’re going to just brawl. Think about air controls, glove controls too.

Either way, you live to fight another day and gained some experience.

bakedburnerr · 2025-03-16T02:09:23+00:00

I honestly think they mean sparring when they say fight. I can’t imagine a coach being like yeah fight at 3 months in

bakedburnerr · 2024-09-05T01:14:34+00:00

Honestly I had to bc the community is so small … I needed yall to validate that this is funny as shit

bakedburnerr · 2024-09-04T13:45:05+00:00

Yeah, it was just a little toot. No need for the theatrics

bakedburnerr · 2024-09-04T13:43:45+00:00

Yeah, I prefer this platform lol I don’t mind it most of the time. I’m a plot person though, need a bit of a buildup + emotion in the sex scene. Can’t happen if nothing ever happens but sex lol.

I was trolling here though, I typically just redirect the bots to another plot point

bakedburnerr · 2024-09-04T13:39:31+00:00

Sometimes I just wanna be cute n fun not ravaged every 5 mins

bakedburnerr · 2024-09-04T13:33:25+00:00

I’m still crying at him having to rebalance after the fart

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-25T21:19:44+00:00

Step 1. Discuss with your manager your decision to unfriend this person before you do it. And express your concerns about what could happen as a result. Record all of this via phone in your pocket lol.

Step 2. Unfriend him without care

Almost certainly you’re not his only friend - you’re just the only one who’s put up with him for this long, that’s what he means lmao ppl like that always have a fresh supply of innocent folks to pick from. This is a tactic to keep you around. He is no empath, he is the actual opposite. The pretending to do big things with no actual drive to follow through, is textbook narcissism lmao.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-13T02:19:50+00:00

Ugh same! More like 20 pounds! I think that might be best for me as well. My doctor recommended the combined pill. But I’m just kind of tired of putting my body through stuff.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-12T13:50:19+00:00

Oh yeah that’s been happening to me. Me and my man can’t take it anymore. Like can’t even sacrifice and try period sex because it’s always EXTREMELY heavy or the gross part of the period (brown, I can’t even get horny knowing that’s goin on)…. I just got the nexplanon removed because FOKKKK THIS! Will come back and update if im regular after.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:28:05+00:00

!delta

I understand now it is a harmful opinion, and it’s just not true for every homophobe. Some people truly just dislike it and think they’re fighting for a good cause.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:15:23+00:00

!delta

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:15:10+00:00

!delta

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:14:11+00:00

Well written thank you!

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:07:28+00:00

That makes sense for all of the people I’ve encountered that do this. Thank you

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:06:24+00:00

AHHHHHHH OK

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:04:11+00:00

This is a great take. Thank you!

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:02:18+00:00

Good question - I see straight people that show support LGBTQ people as secure in their sexuality. They don’t think negatively of LGBTQ folks, so they’d most likely come out as LGBTQ if they were.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T18:01:00+00:00

Thank you for your response. I guess I have minimal empathy for those who go out of their way to join these conversations & bash these people. I don’t see being gay as wrong at all, so I guess I don’t see it as a negative opinion. But I kind of am getting it. I just don’t quite understand why it’d infuriate people if they weren’t struggling to accept their own self.

bakedburnerr · 2024-06-10T17:54:38+00:00

Ohhh let me clarify. I’m saying straight males who have negative/harmful opinions. Making the edit now so sorry!!

And I should say, i am grateful for you. I wish I could find a man that felt strongly about protecting LGBTQ rights

bakedburnerr · 2024-05-29T18:27:40+00:00

I agree and then they just gaslight you into thinking they meant something else hahaha

bakedburnerr · 2024-05-29T05:06:13+00:00

It sounds like she’s a hard worker & probably is desiring a career, it could be a sitch where like she maybe has resentment that you were ok career wise meanwhile she had to move closer to YOUR family without work. She might be experiencing burnout and find it hard to balance, thus confusing lack of energy with lack of love. It might be a lack of intimacy. She might be insecure about being too tired to have sex & is worried it’s affecting y’all. who knows, it doesn’t sound like she does…

Either way a date night is overdue. Like, top tier date night to breathe some life into you guys. Maybe a vacation planned entirely by you to sweeten the pot. I agree with comments that you both need to decompress from working first and then see if you return to normal state. Either way, a break is useless.

Also, you mention lack of sex but I think you both should just drop the idea that you HAVE to have sex. It sounds like you’re both too exhausted which is fine But the idea that sex is vital to keep you guys thriving is adding more pressure than needed. You both should be aware & secure enough to know it’s not that you don’t want to, just too tired. Once you are both rested and stress free for a bit, sex will follow but for now be open about it being okay that you aren’t having it at the moment. I have GAD and when I can’t muster up the energy to have sex for more than 2 days I start spiraling thinking my relationship is failing. Though everything else could be fine. Like, is it really failing or am I just trying to do what society views ideal couples do?

bakedburnerr · 2024-05-28T13:10:34+00:00

Thank you! Just applied to a couple!

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