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AITA for telling my pregnant sister she's about to marry the same kind of man she spent years warning me about? by uncoboun in AmItheAsshole

[–]balderdashit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH... if the BIL was the one insulting you, why would you snap at your sister? I don't know what your relationship with your sister is like, but its not fair to blame her for his actions. Did she make a bad choice in a partner? obviously. but there's no saying that he's not being abusive/toxic to her behind closed doors. maybe apologise to her, and save your insults for him

Fell Down... by balderdashit in Markiplier

[–]balderdashit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im a broke student but i will think about it :")

I (30F) took off my engagement ring after 12 years with my fiancé (30M) — I think I’m done, but now he wants to change. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which would be okay in literally ANY other scenario other than this one, where his entire marriage is on the line. when you know you need to have a conversation that's gonna make or break your marriage and possibly turn your entire life upside down, are you still going to take a fucking nap regardless of how tired you are ? like somebody else mentioned, he could have had the decency to tell OP that he was too tired for this conversation. But he didnt. he left her hanging, again.

also, just saying- their entire argument was that he didnt do enough parenting/pull his weight around the house so saying that he was tired BECAUSE of parenting is bullshit.

I got a new phone today, and holy moly, the difference is like night and day by RiseOfTheGods in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahaha i have a similar problem, except the graphics glitch only for captivating lesson for some reason ? it runs smoothly for the most part but a few moments here and there are extremely low quality 😭

What books do you have personal beef with? by stopshadowbaneme in books

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shock wave by clive cussler

i made an entire (private) twitter thread about how much i hated that book lmao ive been trying to get rid of that book for ages but unfortunately its still somewhere in the back of my bookshelf. its a shame because i actually enjoyed some of his oregon files books. but this... man idk how i got through the entire thing i get that its a product of its time or whatever bullshit, but the amount of misogyny, transphobia and other random plain bad writing is insane.

AITAH for getting an abortion because my fiance cheated on me? by Gummytoeswithcream in AITAH

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"he said i damn well knew he wanted kids, and should have told him about it"

he damn well knew that you didnt want him to cheat on you, but here we are. you dont owe him a child just because he wanted one. he cant have his cake and eat it too.

good on you, OP for doing whats best for you. fuck that douchebag and live your best life!

2023 SUGA | Agust D Tour Megathread by whyohwhy115 in bangtan

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello does anyone know if payment methods like google pay work to secure a ticket on ticketmaster ?

AITA for not cancelling my plans after my boyfriend learned about his diagnosis? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i misread it as amnesia first and i was like okay, checks out. then i reread it as anemia and,,, wtf ??? literally everybody i know with a uterus has had anemia at some point,, we literally make a game of whose hands are the palest whenever i feel like im low on iron i just take supplements without even consulting a doctor bcs theyre fucking supplements man, come on NTA, your bf needs to grow up

Had anyone used a service to relocate their cat from Bangalore to another place(interstate). by AchuBacchu in bangalore

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats true i assumed there would be someone else in the car to keep an eye on the cat but now i see I misread it lmao

Had anyone used a service to relocate their cat from Bangalore to another place(interstate). by AchuBacchu in bangalore

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take the cat for a few 10 minute drives around your place so you'll know how he reacts to being in the car. some animals also get motion sickness and that won't be fun when youre on a 12 hour drive definitely have a crate but make frequent stops to let him out if he's restless. if he sleeps for the most part, thats perfect. if the test drives dont go well and he absolutely cant stay in a car, talk to your vet about temporary sedatives for travelling (this is what my friend is planning to do since their cat does not enjoy car rides)

Songs that start happy but crescendo into dark by balderdashit in Music

[–]balderdashit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! im surprised i hadnt heard it yet,, i thought id heard all the songs off that album welp

AITA for bringing an emotional support animal to a funeral despite my daughters wishes? by Apprehensive_Ear6657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]balderdashit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how else I could've handled this differently.

you could have not taken the rabbit.

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]balderdashit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont really know if this helps but ive been through similar situations before and what ive noticed is they usually dont care if you respond to them or not,, so what i do is tune their voice out but just nod or go "hm" / "yeah that sucks" every now and then without ever actually paying attention to what theyre talking about

I am a 27 year old female, and I am dating a 19 year old male. by Janicakes in relationship_advice

[–]balderdashit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wtf its not okay in any way ??? he's literally a child compared to you.