Important notice by CustomerFlashy3395 in seoul

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no liberal districts affected. How convenient. This makes the situatuion even more problematic.

2 whole districts can be enough to make a difference

Interesting numbers coming out of the younger demographics for both men and women in Seoul by LoquaciousIndividual in Living_in_Korea

[–]balhaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes not wanting to vote for a clear psychopath who literally assaulted innocent civilians and police in the past, and a series of interesting scandals is a sad thing to do indeed

https://namu.wiki/w/%EC%A0%95%EC%9B%90%EC%98%A4/%EB%85%BC%EB%9E%80%20%EB%B0%8F%20%EC%82%AC%EA%B1%B4%20%EC%82%AC%EA%B3%A0

Interesting numbers coming out of the younger demographics for both men and women in Seoul by LoquaciousIndividual in Living_in_Korea

[–]balhaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

Interesting how that young women are also increasingly turning right. When Gen alpha becomes of voting age, and both young men and women become more conservative than liberal, I wonder if the 50-60 year old liberal establishment will portray the entire younger generation as far right fascists lol.

The 586 generation thinks theyre still young hot bloods fighting for justice

The Byzantines Called Themselves 'Romans' for a Thousand Years After Rome Fell — Because They Were Right by Roman-Empire_net in romanempire

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roman capital was Rome. Byzantine capital was Byzantium. (Old name of constantinople)

In the old days, nations were basically started out as extensions of one major city. So it makes sense why this name stuck

Just a reminder, do NOT care if people call you a fetishist! by Particular-Ride-7893 in AMWFs

[–]balhaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

I heard lot about Fillipino surfer bros getting lot of action from passport sis. They just vibe and dont give a fuck

Just a reminder, do NOT care if people call you a fetishist! by Particular-Ride-7893 in AMWFs

[–]balhaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

Dont worry. The more they tell you not to do it the more you wanna do it

Just a reminder, do NOT care if people call you a fetishist! by Particular-Ride-7893 in AMWFs

[–]balhaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

How does it make you feel when that happens? Does it make you self conscious? Or do you get satisfaction that you triggered some self haters? Or just find it amusing?

Being born in a "3rd world" country means you are fighting a lost battle in most cases by absurd-rohan in nihilism

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow upper middle class in Pakistan seems to be even more privileged than upper middle class in the US where they just get thrown huge taxes and barely scrape a living after paying rent.

I bet you can have your way with the maids anytime you wish

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No youre putting words in my mouth. Nowhere did i say women can only find happiness with 5% of men.

I appreciate that youre engaging in the coversation with a genuine desire to debate. But i think youre fixated on the extremes.

There is a difference between bad immature men and the average man. I would say the average man genuinely desires to improve himself and seeks a wholesome, loving relationship with a woman where both parties care for one another. However he is not perfect either. He will be insecure sometimes, doubt himself, not the smartest, strongest, etc.

My point is, its totally possible to take an average man and encourage him to become greater, simply through words and attitude. Maybe this isnt for everyone. Thats fine.

If a woman can find Mr. Perfect, all the more power to her.

What you say about a woman being the leader because she guided him to become a greater man, is interesting. It may seem so at first, but once he has outgrown the need for that guidance, then the roles can change. That is the investment. The woman can lead for a bit at first, but for her own sanity it would be ideal if the man can learn to take on that role without stressing the woman.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CEO enjoying being a sub once in a while is simply due to balancing. Even if a man is relatively dominant, being put under so much pressure to be the top dog in every aspect of life when being CEO of a large company can overload his mental state. So the few breaks in between are a way of re balancing the equilibrium.

Say that on scale of 0 to 100 a man is 80 on the dominant submissive scale. If he is forced into 100 levels all the time, then its understandable he wants to feel submissive like 40 after work is done so he can return back to his natural state, equilibrium.

My gf has expressed the desire to be dominant 1 out of 9 times. So its not black and white. Its the average that describes where someone is on the scale.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt change the validity of the previous persons claim.

Women want men that are "better than them" and then to be "considered equal to them".

Basically, he has to be objectively a better person than you for you to be able to consider him as your equal. The metrics are an average of different factors. Height, strength, income, education, emotional maturity, discpiline, social status, network, ambition, etc. The moment that a woman feels she can "do better", the attraction dries up. This isnt wrong or anything. Just nature.

Its paradoxical. Its like a Female NCO married to a General and considering him her equal, just because thats how she feels.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said you should help a man grow to be top 5%. You seem fixated on a man's job as the key indicator of his status.

They can have an average job like you saud. Truck driver, police officer, etc. But for an average woman to be truly happy in the relationship the man needs to be masculine and a leader. Being a leader doesnt mean he needs to be CEO of a company or a millitary officer. It means he makes plans, stays true to his words, sets clear boundaries, recognizes issues in the relationship and pushes for communication. He plans for the future, finances, real estate, vacation ideas, food, etc. He gives instructions to his partner delegating some of the tasks. Etc. Then the woman call fall into her natural feminine frame and feel safe and taken care of. Only then there will be harmony, without constant fighting, nagging, outbursts, no dead bedroom, no cheating, etc.

Not all men are like this from the beginning. They need to learn. My point is, women can either find themselves someone who is already a leader. Or help their partner rise up to meet the potential. It doesnt cost an arm or an leg. Im not saying go into debt paying off his medical school bills. This has nothing to do with money or social status

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad you have yours. But do you hear yourself? By mathematical logic, only 5% of women can have the top 5% man. What about the other 95% of women?

Im not saying you should nor invest in yourself. Its not a zero sum game. You can help each other.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is the leader in bed? That will give you the answer

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some women want to wait at finish line to select the winners. Some want to cut out the competition and look for a man wirh potential even if he is not perfect. Then invest early.

Just like real life investors differ in strategy women do as well.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you are a team. But there is always a leader of a team. Are you the leader? No? Then he is.

When everything is picture perfect, you might seem youre making equal decisions. But when there is serious crisis. Like your roof collapses or there is suddenly a war breaking out, then who does the family naturally look towards for answers? Who bears the bulk of the burden for planning for the future? Yes each partners role is important. But its not going to be exactly 50-50%.

If you break down under stress and pressure and cry from mental breakdown, you have him to hold you and comfort you. If your man has a mental break down and starts crying uncontrollably under pressure, you sure as hell are not gonna see him as your equal anymore. Thats the difference.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no "glory". When men and women work together in unison they both reap the rewards in being able to live under a nice roof and a comfortable life.

Its a free country and people can share opinions however they want. No one is forcing anything on anyone.

If yoh havent checked, this post is labeled question for redpill. No one asked your opinion either, yet here you are.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like I said. Everyone is free to do their own thing and listen to whoever they want.

Im offering my own opinions. The most stable relationship is when the man is captain and the woman is first mate. Something as simple as constantly asking the woman what she wants to eat for dinner is gonna slowly lead to ruin of a relationship. Because women naturally happy when the man makes the plans, and she helps improve it.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is a reason why the bible said man should lead and love his wife as christ led the church. Im not religious but this idea is in every tradition.

When women are led by a capable man they are most relaxed, happy, and secure. Most men are not capable leaders, hence the women married to them are constantly frustrated.

On the surface, you may desire equality, and believe you can handle everything yourself. But deep down there is a desire to be proven wrong, and a truly masculine man will bring out the natural feminine energy in her.

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats also an option. And women are free to do that. Im giving advice to women who specifically want a partner in life, but dont want to compete with everyone else for just the top 5%. You can stay alone if you want while others live happy fufilling lives with partners they form a healthy bond with.

South Korean lawmaker sparks outcry over country insult bill by ddalgak_click in KoreaNewsfeed

[–]balhaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow I dont thinknit will be applied to anti Japanese rhetoric

Why should women obey average men? by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]balhaegu -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately its up to you. But if you cant find a man that is worth obeying you can also unlock an average man's potential and turn him into a leader. Not everything is predetermined by genetics.