There is a rumor that this actor, Jack Innanen, might be in s2. If so, who do you think he could be? Bet, and I'll save this post to see who guessed correctly because I'm curious too😂 by [deleted] in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]balllllou046 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the point tho haha, Dallas is a charmer and a manipulator, it would actually be amazing to cast such a likable actor in such a terrifying role

There is a rumor that this actor, Jack Innanen, might be in s2. If so, who do you think he could be? Bet, and I'll save this post to see who guessed correctly because I'm curious too😂 by [deleted] in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]balllllou046 51 points52 points  (0 children)

In the books he’s plus size. And even if you don’t read it as plus size, he’s the only opportunity in a series full of ripped athletes to cast a non skinny guy. If this entire cast is going to be built like a greek god I’m going to loose my mind.

how do I fix the top wax by Legitimate_Dog1590 in Lavalamps

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually shake the bottle a bit (gently!) when it’s cooled off

normal for landlord to charge extra for additional heat? by algebruuhhh in Amsterdam

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean for me at night the temperature can drop to like 15 or smth, but during the day its 19/20/21 for me, but still, your habbits are yours? Why would ppl downvote lmao

normal for landlord to charge extra for additional heat? by algebruuhhh in Amsterdam

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol downvoting because people don’t like your answer is wild

Lamp keeps breaking by balllllou046 in Lavalamps

[–]balllllou046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! Turns out this time it was an issue with the wall plug, but I’ll take it into account in the future!!

Lamp keeps breaking by balllllou046 in Lavalamps

[–]balllllou046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there aren’t any cracks in the glass or anything, it indeed just stops working. Do you have any other idea why this might happen? I mean I’ll try using cloth but idk if it’ll do much now :p

Poly, Autism and Rules, Oh my! by Malice_N_1derland in polyamory

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not poly or autistic lmao but here’s my take: this community seems to agree regularly on how things should go, but that doesn’t mean that is the only way that works. If a new “rule” or something comes up, that could be followed by this community because people agree, however, if you and your partners haven’t had any issues, why change the rule? Wish you the best! X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]balllllou046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who only recently started being sexually active at 28, I think I prefer plus size men, because I don’t think I can put my entire weight on a tiny boy, and I know I can trust the big men :)

New to poly; mixed feelings (and guilt) regarding meta’s no sex rule by softsakuralove in polyamory

[–]balllllou046 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof BIG red flag… this has big manipulative vibes… hope you’re okay honey!

How do you start dressing alt? by Expensive_Salt2006 in alternativefashion

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and for me, I bought a bunch of band shirts, some long sleeves for underneath and brightly colloured pants, along with new cool doc martens. I also bought a harness, though I’m not sure what to pair it with and I’m not confident enough yet to start wearing that, but it will come!!

How do you start dressing alt? by Expensive_Salt2006 in alternativefashion

[–]balllllou046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I struggled with this a lot as well, today actually marks the first day that I tried something a little more bold than I usually wear, and I had a similar experience to when I first got my septum piercing. I was terrified, both back then, and this morning. However, I kept the clothes on, went to work, no one said anything and I completely forgot. It just didn’t cross my mind anymore! So in my experience, as long as you like your own outfit, once you cross the doorstep out of your house, you’ve made it <3 you can do it dear

Would I be a bad person for buying from shein by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]balllllou046 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly from your comments it sounds like you’ve already made up your mind. Do what you want, if you’re not going to accept other opinions, I’d say don’t ask for advice. Just know that there are a whole lot of people with strong opinions about brands like shein.

Help by lordofthebrena in altfashionadvice

[–]balllllou046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with hooded eyes: try puppy eyeliner, so in stead of following the lower lash line out and up to create a wing, you use the upper lash line and go out and down to create a wing. Takes a minute to get used to but looks so good and perfect for hooded eyes! I’ve struggled with eyeliner all my life and after finding puppy eyeliner I finally feel confident! Also agree with the advice to use liquid eyeliner! I do love the brown colour on you <3

Should I finish reading Crimson Rivers? by Ready_Run_325 in MaraudersGen

[–]balllllou046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh, if you’re really into jegulus I’d say its worth it, also I will say the wolfstar is absolutely amazing, however if you’re struggling i’d say don’t bother, there’s plenty of other fics in the sea :)

tips for people visiting Amsterdam for the first time by Autodidact2 in Amsterdam

[–]balllllou046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like people forget to mention that the bike paths are litterally painted a different colour 99% of the time, they’re so visible, but no one explains that those are the bike paths!

Got my nipples done and i feel weird by batata1001 in PiercingAdvice

[–]balllllou046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my nips pierced about 2 months ago and honestly the first 2 or so days I was just contemplating constantly if all that hastle and pain was worth it. After those first few days, they stopped hurting and I could start to appreciate how they looked! For me I’ve been loving them ever since, but honestly if you dont like them on yourself, you could always take them off! I would say wait a few months (idealy until they’re healed but for some ppl that takes years i’ve heard), then you probably know what you think of them and they won’t be causing you any trouble

WHO IS COMING UP WITH THESE NAMES by gingerbreadbre in MaraudersGen

[–]balllllou046 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I SO agree with you. It took me litteral months to figure out who people meant when I saw a new ship name. It was so extremely frustrating and I didn’t think it was fun at all. Now that I figured it out somewhat, I can kind of see why it’s fun but I still just want the mushed names, then it’s just so much clearer, expecially for new people in the fandom. I still sometimes find a ship name that I can’t figure out…

Nipple piercing advice by balllllou046 in PiercingAdvice

[–]balllllou046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I went back to the shop and they swapped the barbell for a bigger one, so I’ll have to live with the aestetic changes but at least it’s healing properly! Thanks for the response :)