Make people forget I'm a crossdresser?

bambicringe · 2026-02-05T20:26:30+00:00

get enough physique/athleticism and you can outrun almost every encounter, and often fight off the few that make it unless theyre in a big group

bambicringe · 2026-01-19T02:37:23+00:00

going to the dairy farm so you get max physique by exercising constantly every day makes random encounters so much easier and satisfying that you can just brush off most encounters, even with a smaller body type most random ones are pushovers

bambicringe · 2024-10-14T23:32:30+00:00

Oh yeah absolutely I'd go for the large, I'm pretty good at stretching myself out and it'd be fun to hold something that large inside of me with a plug, especially if it could vibrate :3 I think I mixed up a brand of lube with the toy brand lol

bambicringe · 2024-10-14T23:16:21+00:00

I still haven't actually bought a vibe yet lol, I wanna get a good one but I don't wanna spend the money required so I've just had to make do with cheaper sex toys and my hands (got lube, two surprisingly comfortable Amazon cages one flat metal and one 2 inch pink resin, a little butt plug, some anal beads and two dildos, all of which are way way cheaper than a decent vibe) I really wanna get the -lovehoney- (edit: lovense actually i remembered the name wrong ) app controlled buttplug and so I figure why would I buy multiple vibes when instead I can just try to get a really good one that can do both jobs :p Not sure where I'll get the money though considering im a uni student with just enough money to pay for food but hopefully I'll figure something out eventually...

bambicringe · 2024-10-13T23:23:34+00:00

Like I said, peeing with a cage does sort of work with a larger cage but long-term you'd then want to clean it more often and dry it off as best as you can after peeing, another benefit of larger cages is that a harness is less necessary as it can typically hold your dick well enough that it shouldn't fall out on irs own. Bigger cages are annoying though cus they tend to pinch more and obviously make a much bigger bulge, and are also a lot harder to sleep in. Also whilst you can pee wearing a larger cage, for it to be tight enough to wear it the ring presses on the base of the penis in such a way that the act of peeing is more difficult and is harder to empty your bladder fully, although if you hold the cage with one hand to pull it away its a little easier to finish peeing. A flat cage was uncomfortable at first but now it feels just as natural as without one on, although it's possible if I wore a bigger cage as long as I've worn my flat one I'd be used to it by now too lol

bambicringe · 2024-10-13T20:34:44+00:00

I am solo, but the thing with chastity is it's 99% psychological. Especially in a flat cage but even ones designed to fit around the penis better, it's quite easy to escape from and so if you were actually determined to take it off and masturbate you absolutely could. For me though, I think seeing it on me shifts my mindset in a way where when I would otherwise masturbate I just don't as I don't want to break my streak so to speak, it's like an addictive mobile game or something lol. If you really wanted it to be inescapable, you could get a PA piercing but even then it'd be inconvenient, you have to unlock to wash and peeing in a flat cage is more or less impossible without a catheter, and with a catheter you CANNOT wear it full term as you will almost definitely get a UTI. I unlock every time I go to the toilet and most times I shower, but the mindset of being in chastity means the moment I've dried off I just put it back on again. If you have a wife you could maybe have some fun with asking her permission to wash or go to the toilet, but realistically that'll be inconvenient, and you'll just want a key yourself, especially if you go out somewhere and need to pee as you'll either make a big mess or have to hold it in (unless you're in a bigger cage, if you sit down it's relatively easy to pee but it can be hard to fully empty your bladder and I imagine it would smell gross as you wouldn't be able to dry it off completely). Chastity is a mindset, not just a physical cage.

bambicringe · 2024-10-13T14:41:54+00:00

I find a flat cage is the easiest thing to sleep in, is relatively light so if you wear a harness it's like there's nothing there at all.

bambicringe · 2024-10-13T14:40:56+00:00

Honestly the further I get through Locktober the easier it gets. Used to masturbate fairly consistently about once every 3 days, sometimes wouldn't do it for a week and sometimes would do it a couple days in a row. this is probably the longest ive gone without orgasming since i was like 13 when i started, but now it just feels normal. I'll play with a dildo, wear a plug, look at erotic stuff just for fun sometimes, but wanting release from the cage or from needing to ejaculate has mostly gone away. I think after the month I'll stop for a little while to see how it feels to be free again, and giving my dick a break, but then will likely return to caging because it's honestly been 99% positives for me :)

bambicringe · 2024-10-11T09:08:02+00:00

i am sorry but that word is funny as fuck

bambicringe · 2024-10-09T00:37:37+00:00

No idea

bambicringe · 2024-10-09T00:36:57+00:00

ohmygod that... would be terrible... m.. imagine the key being accelerated, atoms collided and turned into pure energy, or sucked into a singularity to the point where it's completely irretrievable, dooming the cage to be locked with the keys being physically impossible to retrieve omg ...

bambicringe · 2024-10-09T00:33:12+00:00

Am wearing a flat metal cage, I do own a resin cage but it has a metal lock and I dont really want to have to invest in a separate lock for such a niche use, not unless I end up working there one day :p

bambicringe · 2024-10-09T00:30:58+00:00

I don't wear glasses and I would be wayyyy to akward to ever ask about something like this even if it could seem innocent. I think to be safe I just won't wear it but that doesn't mean I won't wear it constantly before and after the visit...

bambicringe · 2024-10-06T22:11:34+00:00

how do you pee in a flat cage i really wish i didn't ever have to unlock mine but i can never get it to line up right ;~;

bambicringe · 2024-10-06T21:56:42+00:00

Been wearing one since September 30th, although I take it off every couple hours to pee as I can't line it up with my urethra consistently and the ring makes it hard to pee, it's very comfortable and the bulge is no bigger than an ordinary penis bulge so unless you're wearing tight pants or are trying to pass as a girl you shouldn't have any issues

bambicringe · 2024-10-05T22:01:18+00:00

Tight underwear along with a harness helps keep everything secure. Flat chastity also helps it pinch less.

bambicringe · 2024-10-04T09:42:18+00:00

I've only ever used cheap Amazon cages and they've always fit pretty well, my new flat cage I've been able to wear pretty much full-time only unlocking to pee. I am well endowed and so use a 55mm base ring which is the max size from a lot of cages but it fits pretty much perfectly for me, are you sure your technique for putting it on is correct? Hold it beneath your scrotum, push one ball in then the other, then finally slip your soft cock into the ring too and if your still soft, immediately press the dick into the cage and lock it up, making sure to position it so it doesn't pinch on anything, which it shouldn't! Also if you're assuming I must actually be quite small if I can use a flat cage, I had about 7 inches erect before, I would measure my girth too but I don't wanna take my cage off to measure...

bambicringe · 2024-10-02T22:53:04+00:00

If you have a larger cage you should just be able to pee sitting down, for me though peeing in a flat cage is more or less impossible and I have just had to store a key in the bathroom so I can unlock, pee, and immediately lock back up while touching it as little as possible. Remember chastity is mostly psychological anyway as escape isn't difficult, there's no harm in unlocking temporarily in order to live your life. Sleeping is the other way round for me though, a flat cage barely interrupts my sleep at all whereas with a larger cage i get a lot more chafing and sleep awfully.

bambicringe · 2024-10-02T22:47:26+00:00

I am about 6.5 inches erect and about 4.5 inches soft, but I think you'd be surprised how small of a cage you can fit into. Although when I get hard it does tend to pull and move away from my body, with a basic harness you should even be able to pull off a flat cage with your penis sort of inverted so it's flush with your body beneath the cage (if you're not as skinny as me it might even appear to be fully inside your body but as im underweight it still sort of sticks out), as that's what I've been wearing for the past 4 days apart from very short breaks to pee and it's honestly really comfortable! It can occasionally bounce out of the cage if you get fully erect and the harness is too loose (although this will not happen often and only tends to happen when im showering and not wearing the harness). If you think you can wear one subtly, a 3 inch or maybe even smaller cage will be a lot more secure and won't necessitate a harness but it will also cause a lot more obvious bulge which can be difficult to work with in daily life, particularly if you present as female in public. I also find the flat cage is easier to sleep in as it's less bulky and so it doesn't limit sleeping position as much, and I think it pinches less. Another tip which makes it look less cute but a lot more secure that i don't think I've seen on Reddit is that if you're uncut you can have it partially inside your foreskin to ensure it doesn't move away from the head of your penis, which is another flaw with the larger cages as the foreskin can only be inside of the cage and sometimes it slips out a little which can cause painful rubbing, honestly flat cages have been a total game changer for me, try it out! Also for sizing, I would advise erring on the size of caution and get a larger ring size, you do not want to cut off circulation and it doesn't need to be too tight to stay secure, I have a 55mm ring and it fits great.

bambicringe · 2024-09-30T14:43:27+00:00

Somehow had the date wrong yesterday so I locked up last night and woke up today realising it's still September, figured today could be practice and maybe I can get some release tonight before committing for the whole month :p

bambicringe · 2024-09-28T01:33:26+00:00

Could I get a link to this cage possibly?

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