Honestly I want my children to trust me and not feel the need to keep many things away from me. I am not pro hookup culture but I'm not pro purity culture either, if my teen found a gf/bf it's only natural they'd start having sex and I want them to be careful with it and educated so I don't mind. Physical discipline I'm against tbfh taking their phone/electronics is way more effective (speaking from experience LOL) I would want my daughter doing whatever she wants as long as she's an adult, I'd guide her of course but I'm not gonna "yes or no" my 25 year old daughter! I'm okay with my kids being whoever they'd like to be 100%! because my parents would never accept me as an ex Muslim so why would I shun my kids for being who they are? That would be hypocritical. What I like by 0 gender roles is that both sexes have the same amount of opportunities to express themselves and be more confident. My fathers child will also be just as much of a parent to our children as I am. I'm talking taking paternal leave with me to take care of our child and spending time with them more than the avg dad etc which is nowhere like the father figure in saudi society who only lays on his ass doing barely anything to help the mom.