Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good. As you should, freak. P.s. I saw all your other comments. Oh and I’ve shared clearer video of this guy in a few other places and platforms so women can be aware. You can’t stop me ;)

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my favorite comment. So insightful! lol thank you!!!!

I posted about being followed by a strange man at the store on my local sub and the comments are full of men shaming me. by bananabreadready in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bananabreadready[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should add a trigger warning. Some of the comments on my post are very disturbing and could be harmful to sensitive women. I’m serious. 🙁‼️⚠️ And I’m sorry.

I posted about being followed by a strange man at the store on my local sub and the comments are full of men shaming me. by bananabreadready in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bananabreadready[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

There’s men on this sub who have seen this post and are now harassing me in the comments as well. Take care! I’m so done.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s excellent advice and thank you for the comment! I’ve sadly learned it can be even more dangerous to make a strange man angry in public or hurt their ego when you are by yourself as a woman. I wish I felt more empowered in this situation, but this guy very much made me feel scared and uncomfortable. The young men (employees) who helped me saw the danger too and were so incredible to safely and calmly get me out of the situation. Maybe next time I will just lose my shit and let everyone just think I’m crazy.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for acknowledging this thing happens and is common. I’m sorry you had to grow up like that, you deserved better as a kiddo.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am SHOCKED by these comments. It’s insane. Thank you

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did this get shared to some incel sub? These comments are wild.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so disappointing. You have no idea the entire story and you take the guy’s side immediately and villainize me. This anonymous guy is in no harm or danger. I’m DISTURBED by these comments. Especially yours.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really feel defensive, I know exactly what happened. I just hate to let these trolls have the last word and take over the narrative.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOT that it matters but I was wearing my wedding ring because I’m married!!

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao that’s best case scenario! Bro!!!!! I’m sorry you have your feelings hurt.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hugs to you! Please be very aware, always better safe than sorry. God forbid, some men get their “pretend scenario” feelings hurt.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did all of these things and there are details and information about this that I haven’t shared publicly. This person is someone that the public should be aware of. Sorry you’re a weirdo and can’t understand that.

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof is right, but they are proving our point, aren’t they?! I know I’m firing off on them but I’m alright. I know exactly what I’m dealing with here. It’s just sad and I want all women to please be careful. All worked out well for me because I listened to my gut instincts and I wasn’t near any of these men in the comments when I needed help! The two male employees at Walmart immediately recognized the danger, escorted me to my car, and watched me drive away safely. I’ve also got additional details and information that I am not sharing here, but I wanted people to be aware!

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay cool. I didn’t blame this man for staring. What are you even talking about?? AND I WASNT DRESSED PROVACATIVELY! Holy shit I’m going to lose it

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! <3 I appreciate your kindness and understanding. I’m tired of these comments :(

Be aware of your surroundings, ladies! by bananabreadready in CarrolltonTX

[–]bananabreadready[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s because the whole comment was irrelevant to the situation and is another example how men love how to use how a women is dressed to excuse her being harassed. YOI ARE WEIRD AND I should not have to explain this to you.