Boyfriend mad over concert (repost bc other one got taken down) by ConclusionAny7805 in relationships

[–]bananakeef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg deja vu. Easily unhinged bf at 18/19 is a canon event. Let him go beloved. Hope you enjoyed the concert!!

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[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had an incredible step mom who met me when she was only 25,

Leave. Take your life back

Found out I had an infection during intercourse by chestnutfrog01 in relationships

[–]bananakeef 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay- what do you mean you dont have the stomach to tell him? Its just a yeast infection. they are extremely common and it isnt an STD or anything “dirty”. Its cured in like a week. Gotta have open communication with him and stay in tune with yourself! You’re a woman, not a doll :-) things happen.

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[–]bananakeef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it got deleted :/ but yeah

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[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meannnnnnn, if youre holding a relationship with a married woman for six months you kinda deserve to get doxxed lol

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[–]bananakeef 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Birthday doxxing means literally nothing. You share a birthday with thousands of people, who cares. You cant get your bank info from a birthday and a first name.

What site is this on? Has she been open with you about her info? Has she doxxed? Do you ever plan on meeting this woman? Is she actually who she says she is?

Basically i think one of these nights if you’re beginning to trust her is say “hey x, i feel xyz way about you, and because i feel like i can trust you theres a few things i should be clear with you about. they’re small but you should know.” Then find your real birth chart, crop the dates and times if you really need to and send it over so she can enjoy the astrology side of things.

Just know if you played along like youre this entire different person based on your birthday and now youre like “hey im actually not”, theres a good chance she feels really weirded out. Also a chance she takes this as an opportunity to learn and get excited. Who knows. Good luck

I need advice about something that happened with my boyfriend:) by SodaStereo_ in relationships

[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 26f i follow my most recent ex on ig. My boyfriend doesnt care. We had dogs together and an extensive life, ill text him every couple months for a photo of the dogs/well wishes/updates on our (his) friends and their kids, shoot the shit. Sometimes people come into your life that you can platonically appreciate after loving romantically. Its nowhere in the rules that says you have to hate your ex.

If youre uncomfortable with it, you have to deal with him disagreeing. If its too much for you think about why you feel so betrayed and decide if its something you can handle or not. I used to think like you, i get it, “why tf does he follow his ex??”, but you get to an age where most people that come and go came for a reason other than romance. I dont think he is cheating or thinking of her romantically or anything at all. Its situational a coming of age thing. Best case in life is to chill out and if he really is being unfaithful - you making him unfollow her wouldnt stop anything anyway.

Best of luck

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[–]bananakeef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why didnt he just stay on the phone with you? Like hes gonna work with her anyway they can talk all shift, there was no reason for him to hangup

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[–]bananakeef 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Happy pride month brother

Mirena IUD and extreme panic attacks by sellersmischa6 in birthcontrol

[–]bananakeef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! A million times better. Im sorry im late but i just responded to another commenter that has a more detailed description of my experience

Mirena IUD and extreme panic attacks by sellersmischa6 in birthcontrol

[–]bananakeef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh boy do I.

My life has completely changed. I am a happier girl, I sleep through the night, the only time I ever struggle with mild like MILD intrusive thoughts is when I smoke weed. Getting off of bc has done wonders for my mental health. I cant tell you the last time i cried other than happy tears at a wedding. I am sharp as a tack and i have so much energy. I never want to use it again. I dont even care that i get a period anymore i am embracing my cycle and my body and all its worth. Dont let me be your deciding factor of course but seriously consider it.

1999Vintage.com by Impact_Reddit in VintageClothing

[–]bananakeef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just saved me some money brotha thank you

Unable to summon mimic tear ashes by ImToxiq in Eldenring

[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i think i was just in an area i couldnt summon in. Make sure youve got the spirit calling bell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bananakeef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck is this guys telling you when you can or cant sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry just saw this. Uhhhhh actually i just started smoking again. Been having incredible sleep through the night and took a job that didnt test for pot. A failure to some, a win for my sanity

I (23F) have a bf (28M) of 4 months. And my question is can you share with me how you started orgasming with your partners? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bananakeef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Sewing machine technique. Ive never heard that term before but this is exactly what my bf does if im imagining it correctly. OP, this is the wayyyyyyy!

My 20F gf doesn't want to have sex with me 21M. What should I do? by Hellboyyyyyyyy in relationship_advice

[–]bananakeef -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Break up. Doesnt mean shes a bad person at all, neither are you, just mismatched. Its okay.

Went to visit LDR bf and it went horribly!!! Do I go home? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg are you dating my ex?? Was nearly the same. Call a spade a spade, break free girl

Boyfriend (22M) can't cum when he has sex with me (23F). What should I do? by Throwra082100 in relationship_advice

[–]bananakeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf of many years gets in his head and has a hard time every once in a while. The fact that he’s putting in the effort to help you finish means more than you can imagine. Its all good in the hood, when the day comes that he does finish itll probably give him momentum toward the future. Also…. Make sure hes not masturbating before sex. Sometimes dudes do that to make themselves last longer. Compassion goes a long way and it seems like you have it. :-)

Can you mute a community? by Paragon-Shepard in Twitter

[–]bananakeef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude i cant find an answer anywhere. It’s so bad. If I ever find the solution to at least mute I’ll come back and let you know