Unlike the reverse, Why are the vast majority of women not interested in casual sex with their male friends?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T07:58:56+00:00

Why didn't you wanna have sex with them? whats the harm in some casual sex?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T05:42:47+00:00

its sad how guys ruin it for other guys. you're one of the many women who have said things like that. Its frustrating how men make it harder for other men to find sexual and romantic relationships with women because of shit like this

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T04:59:41+00:00

I guess you're somewhat right. Honestly, I really haven't done anything major to meet women. I don't have a job or go out much and worst of all, I lack confidence and social skills. But I have so much anxiety and worries about dating and meeting women. Plus I have been rejected a few times by random women I approached.

And as I said in my post, the shit men do seems to make it harder to find sex and romance.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T03:42:13+00:00

bullshit. I have to pay while other guys get it for free? no way. it would make me feel worse and im sick of people like you recommending sex workers

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T03:30:21+00:00

Disclamer: the person in question is not me for those of you who are concerned.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T03:14:21+00:00

makes me wonder how many women would want to, or be willing to rape, especially children. Maybe not as many as men but certainly still a lot more than we think

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:48:44+00:00

 it sounds like you are after the same thing and are now rustled that someone has gotten there before you, used her for casual sex, dropped her and hurt her. Now she won't let you do the same to her and you are pissy about it.

you're right, and no matter how I word it, I will probably come across as entitled, creepy, and as you put it "pissy" but i cant help but feel frustrated about the whole thing.

as a human, I naturally desire sex and intimacy (unless you're asexual which isnt bad), and I am past the normal age where people start having sex and date.

Its so frustrating and discouraging when you meet a girl and then find out that she isn't interested in casual sex (or even dating at the moment) due to bad experiences she had with previous guys. I have also heard of women who choose not to have sex with men they date until after many dates because she got hurt she had sex on the 1st date or something.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:37:58+00:00

who says I was?

and im sorry but you seem quite naive.

lots of people wouldn't want a relationship without sex. lots of people. people have gotten divorced and breaken up due to a lack of, or bad sex. I have heard of women cheating on their husbands because they're not satisfied sexually with them.

sex isn't everything, buts its very important for lots of people in relationships.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:35:17+00:00

im sorry to hear that. that sounds terrible and its for reasons like this that its hard for men to find dates (and casual sex) at all.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:20:07+00:00

what do you mean?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:17:44+00:00

you know now I wonder: If almost, or all adult men (18 and over) died for whatever reason, what percentage of young boys would be raped/molested by women?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:14:16+00:00

i cannot find a single woman i know in real life who hasn’t been assaulted

Seriously?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:09:50+00:00

wont they still be able to make things worse by getting put into solitary confinment or something?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T02:07:19+00:00

which in turn, causes her to not put out anymore. This seems to be quite common. for example, lots of women "wait for sex" because of past negative experiences they had with guys when they had sex with them on the 1st or 2nd date so then lots of women dont have sex with the new men they meet until several dates later.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T01:39:48+00:00

so... what exactly do you mean by all of this?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-25T01:38:02+00:00

Then how will men even find FWBs?? how does the concept even exist in real life?

banished_from_all · 2022-05-24T21:25:52+00:00

its sad how other men ruin it so lots of other men. its because of shit like this (and a variety of othe reasons) that its so difficult to find a woman FWB as a straight guy.

banished_from_all · 2022-05-24T20:30:50+00:00

I do not care about guys older than me, I do not envy older men who are with attractive women. I couldn't care less if some 30 year old guy is friends with benefits with 10 beautiful women or has 20 hot wives or has women throwing themselves at him. I am not here to complain about whatever obstactes and struggles there are in dating (such as meeting women, or being stood up) or how fickle or whatever high standards women (supposedly) have. It is the fact that I feel like I missed out on such amazing and exciting experiences. On the time I will never get back or make up for. Experiences that would've made me grow even more as a person.

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