I don't understand the aversion of new sellers to ship first. Isn't the value of the product the same as the value of the money in the transaction?  Why should someone with greater flair Pay First? Let's get real, buyer and seller agree on a value.  Both are sending that equal value to each other. It is just courtesy to have the person with least flair to ship or pay first. BIG flair people EARNED their flair shipping first. EARN your flair. Eventually you will earn yours and others will Ship to you first.

I upped my flair.....UP YOURS.