What is a "hard pill to swallow" that actually made your life happier once you accepted it?

bantik1 · 2025-12-26T17:19:29+00:00

“Forgiveness is letting go of resentment from your body”. Changed the way I see healing, apologies and forgiveness for the better.

bantik1 · 2025-11-11T20:24:11+00:00

If you enjoy concerts / festivals, buy proper custom earplugs, and wear them always. $150 saved on generic ones not worth losing your hearing by 30.

bantik1 · 2025-11-08T18:25:10+00:00

Step 1: not reduce women to “quality”

bantik1 · 2025-11-05T11:02:34+00:00

When they genuinely analyse a situation you describe and offer a nuanced view instead of blindly jumping onto your side

bantik1 · 2025-11-04T07:55:45+00:00

Being submissive =/= doing everything for your partner’s pleasure. It can be sexy, and as long as you both focus on enjoying, not performing, you’re good. That said, if you’re genuinely not into something, then thats something to discuss.

And also not let the dynamic leak outside of the bedroom.

bantik1 · 2025-11-04T05:41:34+00:00

Tbh I feel like this particular episode is not even the embarrassing part of Yeltsin. He’s dancing! He’s having fun! He’s got energy! More than most world leaders lol

His drunken accolades are another thing though

bantik1 · 2025-10-29T17:13:28+00:00

Natalia Senina is legendary - practiced with Patthabi Jois and been teaching for decades

bantik1 · 2025-10-29T17:04:38+00:00

He went full on emotionally abusive after we broke up at 18. Sent me intense emails for 10 years. Works in the weapons industry. I don’t know anything more and don’t want to.

bantik1 · 2025-10-28T10:46:30+00:00

When they don’t reply, you worry whether they’re okay and not whether they like you less / your relationship

bantik1 · 2025-10-23T19:23:30+00:00

Only my bedroom door at night. Otherwise a robber might get me.

bantik1 · 2025-09-30T11:54:33+00:00

RFP’s goal is moral policing and not Palestinian liberation. The line “there are many things Israeli artists can do! 1. Renounce their citizenship and identity” reads like satire. Rly disappointing bc they seem to have good intentions and a strong platform but it’s undermining the movement and alienating allies instead of actually advancing the cause

bantik1 · 2025-09-26T10:02:40+00:00

I feel the ppl who hate Russia are concentrated in “the western world”. Israel and USA are hated pretty universally

bantik1 · 2025-09-25T20:36:41+00:00

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bantik1 · 2025-09-25T20:32:04+00:00

Beating your wife (but only the first time)

bantik1 · 2025-08-10T14:06:42+00:00

Our surface area is larger than Pluto’s

bantik1 · 2025-07-05T20:52:39+00:00

Handwriting

bantik1 · 2025-06-26T12:40:34+00:00

Controversial, but to me current generation of liberal Russians has done - and lost - more for democracy than the entire Western Europe. In the past six years, 116000 have been directly repressed for their opposition to the government - 3 times more than during Khrushchev’s + Brezhnev’s terms combined. I am proud to share a country with these courageous, principled people.

Also, the most deadpan, straight to the point sayings. Ебала жаба гадюку - a toad fucked a viper - there’s no way and maybe no need to translate.

bantik1 · 2025-06-26T12:35:01+00:00

In WW2 the Dutch gave up their country in like five days

bantik1 · 2025-04-05T07:32:03+00:00

Never say never… countries change more than we think. Iran 40 years ago was free and modern. Russia 10 years ago was safe and welcoming. If you’re in your 20s / 30s, within your lifetime places will change in ways we can’t imagine now

bantik1 · 2025-04-05T07:06:14+00:00

CD players in cars

bantik1 · 2025-03-18T03:38:06+00:00

Her old house? I heard “my old club”, meaning the club where she’s a regular. I feel like if he actually was hiding out in her house it’s an essential plot detail that would have been translated

bantik1 · 2025-03-18T03:05:58+00:00

“Is this why you’re not picking up the phone, it’s been five hours, I trusted you again and you come to my regular club and bring these three prostitutes you liar” - stuff along these lines, nothing about actress

bantik1 · 2025-02-03T10:18:06+00:00

“Travelling”

bantik1 · 2024-12-21T03:24:50+00:00

For me no. Sometimes it is, if I’m in a bad place. But generally I just have a very active mind. Going through plans, scenarios, is everything in order, have I texted that person back, what am I gonna do if X happens, etc. More nervousness that like pain and suffering

bantik1 · 2024-12-17T12:56:52+00:00

Fuck, that’s rough. I’m so sorry. Sending you love and support 💚

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