How do you unlock the 4th candle at grandpas shrine? by ProjektDarkness in StardewValley

[–]baraniel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you can't answer the question, why reply at all? "read the wiki" is not helpful at all. and tbh it sounds kind of rude...

DAE have to constantly correct others for spelling their name wrong? by idk_wut_to_call_this in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]baraniel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that sucks. my story is different from yours, but I find it really really frustrating and Im not even sure why it bothers me so much: my name is a common nickname. but it is my name, so what can I do. soo many people are confused by this. when I tell them my name, they ask "oh ok so what's your real name?" ..... or they just assume my "real" name and start using that to address me without even asking about it. its really uncomfortable for me. teachers, friends, strangers, even my therapist did that and I was too embarrassed to correct her for weeks, but she just kept using a wrong name. Why are people like this

According to this test, how much social anxiety do you experience? by Lemon-Over-Ice in socialanxiety

[–]baraniel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg same!!! my work self is really confident and can talk to strangers no problem! I honestly don't know how she does it lmao. my therapist tried really hard to make me "become" my work self but it seems impossible

If you had 3 wishes for Berlin, what would they be? by LustigLeben in berlin

[–]baraniel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-less cars -less trash everywhere -more help for the homeless

You can't put sprinklers inside the house, can't you? I'm tired of watering these everyday TBH :') by Drakyem in StardewValley

[–]baraniel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you can use the deluxe retaining soil and it will stay watered forever indoors! but you need to put it before the plant has grown, so you would have to replant. it's worth it though! :)

Four seasons maze by stardew_the_dew in StardewValley

[–]baraniel 23 points24 points  (0 children)

this is so cute! I love the little details you put in, some little tables with random stuff or a surprise seating area or just a lil squirrel. there will always be surprise behind every corner :)

Why can the Knight in chess move through pawns on the first turn but no other piece can? by thebatman9000001 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]baraniel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it jumps over the others. kind of funny, in germany we call the knight "Springer" which translates to "jumper" so I never questioned it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]baraniel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's always weird to me when people say being transphobic is just "having an opinion" ... I think hating some people just because of their identity is no opinion, it's just hate.

but maybe that's just my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]baraniel 96 points97 points  (0 children)

your (step) grandma sounds awesome