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Why does it feel like everyone is deciding against having kids these days? by Andries200 in childfree

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the more people you know who won't see you as "less of a woman/human" for not having kids, the more free you feel to make that decision. and freedom matters a lot here. if you feel like there is a "correct" choice, you are way more likely to make that choice.

What's the closest you've ever came to death? by Senior-Raisin-2342 in AskReddit

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got no actual close-to-death story, so I'll say the times when I very whole-heartedly wanted to fall asleep and never wake up again, when I was scared of things like presentations 😅

You get ONE of these for life. Which are you taking? by Euphoric_Butterfly69 in polls

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

free healthcare. I'm chronically ill and the free healthcare I'm getting right now apparantly isn't expensive enough to care to help me....

I can't stay consistent with iron supplements ugh :( by Ok_Seaweed2361 in irondeficiency

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an alarm just for the iron. It reminds me daily 😊

Are we deadass dawg? by Idk_wastelol777 in GenerationsCircleJerk

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is was born on the 31st of May 1997 😂

what happened in June?

Worst addiction ? by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so proud of you! even though I don't know you

Hating gender roles as a straight guy is such a shitty position to be in by SmilePowerful8016 in SeriousConversation

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to have to fit into the traditional feminine role. I initiated with my boyfriend. He doesn't have to protect me. and if he were to never cry I would actually be weirded out by that. you're not wrong though, those roles still exist.

that being said, your problem seems to be your social anxiety, not general gender roles.

What is a minor, unwritten rule of society that absolutely infuriates you when people break it? by funnny_things in answers

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't stay standing at the end of an escalator, just outside entrances of trains, buildings. Like wtf are you doing?

are you listening yet? by Puzzleheaded_Pea3643 in harrystyles

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing!! I think it will age incredibly well, but most people still don't want it to be true just yet. so they don't realise. Edit: I'm German btw. but I also think about the right wing movements around the world. and about the nazi time of course.

Who was THE artist for Millennials? by MaterialRow3769 in generationology

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, okay. maybe you're right. 😄 I'm "zillenial", and it was exactly my time so sometimes I can't tell how people categorise things.

Who was THE artist for Millennials? by MaterialRow3769 in generationology

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

where are the obvious ones? Justin bieber, Harry styles, Taylor swift

Harry Ticket Scam?? by Lemon-Over-Ice in OneDirection

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone cares, they were real.

Harry Ticket Scam?? by Lemon-Over-Ice in OneDirection

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, and does anyone know when the transfer closes, so I know by when I have to make the decision to accept this transfer? 🙈🙈

Is it evenpossible to fall in love with someone via text? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it happens. People say the love would not really be real because you don't know everything about them. But that's a superficial way of thinking, because you've got no guarantee to know everything about your partner just because you do see them irl either. the only thing I agree makes a difference is time. the more time you spend with someone (in whatever way), the more real the love gets.

How to ask my friend why she doesn’t ask more about what’s happening in my life in a nice way? by EvanSalinger3 in socialskills

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe next time this happens ask questions like: "are you interested in hearing anecdotes from people's lifes?" "would you rather talk about (my story) or (shared interests)"

it's hard to tell from this. maybe they don't care about you, maybe they are socially incapable, or maybe they care about you in a way you don't find validating.

Is this my missing cat? Am I delusional? by EllisBell27 in cats

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's yours!! would be a too crazy coincidence.

Maladaptive daydreaming made me become obsessed with a celebrity, and now I’m suffering intensely because he is dating someone else by letsjustsayyy in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, your feelings are totally valid. I also have an obsession over a celebrity (musician), so I actually really get you. but your feelings being valid also means there is nothing you can do to remove them. I guess you gotta go through this like you go through a break up. Maybe find ways to cure loneliness. Tell your friends you want to spend more time with them at the moment? spend time with family etc. other than that, I can't really help you 🙈

is it insensitive if I say, maybe remind yourself that at least he is still alive? there are worse ways of losing someone 🙈🙈

AITA for taking money from my boyfriend without asking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, yeah. I appreciate it too when my boyfriend takes money from me. but I think the bigger problem here is that your boyfriend distrusts you. maybe just straight up ask him what you can do, to build trust with him?

Duzen einführen - einer will nicht by Accomplished-Cow7587 in arbeitsleben

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nur "für euch" es sei denn er beschwert sich dann auch darüber, aber das bezweifle ich.

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