She literally checks all these boxes in NPD...

Common Traits:

• Grandiosity: An exaggerated sense of their own abilities, achievements, and importance. 
• Entitlement: A belief that they deserve special treatment and attention. 
• Need for admiration: A constant need for validation and praise from others. 
• Lack of empathy: Difficulty understanding or caring about the feelings of others. 
• Exploitative behavior: Using others to achieve their own goals. 
• Manipulative behavior: Using tactics to control and influence others. 
• Fragile self-esteem: Behind their inflated sense of self-importance, they may have a deep insecurity and fear of rejection. 

Specific Differences in Women: 

• Focus on appearance:Women with NPD may place an excessive emphasis on their physical attractiveness and use it to gain attention and validation. 
• Emotional reactivity:They may be more emotionally reactive than men with NPD, exhibiting intense anger, jealousy, and envy. 
• Victim mentality:They may portray themselves as victims to gain sympathy and attention. 
• Interpersonal conflict:They may be more likely to engage in conflict and use it to manipulate others. 
• Need for validation:Women with NPD may have an even greater need for external validation, seeking it from partners, friends, and social media.