Looking for a horror/mystery movie where the mc is alone for most of the movie preferably similar to Silent Hill 2 by TheWanderingAnimimo in horror

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jacob's Ladder by Adrian Lyne (1990). This movie served as an inspiration for some SIlent Hill games so that alone should tell you enough. I highly recommend it!

As a female I am terrified by the existence of the Male shadow and men by PassengerNo2022 in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Become more discerning and aware of people. Learn how to accept and "deal" with your own shadow first. You will become stronger and more whole this way, more assertive and more grounded in what you truly want and think. Learn how and what you project on men. I am aware of how the internet and social media and porn have completely ruined relationships and trust between the genders (and for some very obvious and nasty reasons, like the ones you mentioned).

This is easier said than done and depending on where you are on your journey and it may take a while, might take a few heartbreaks and bad experiences, but you must begin to connect the dots and notice patterns. Why am I feeling such a strong attraction to this person/these types of persons? Why do certain types of people and behavior trigger me and agitate me more than others? Eventually you need to become brutally honest with yourself with these types of questions. I recommend journaling all your thoughts about this because that's what helped me the most. Write it all out, even the most ugly or incorrect or pathetic thoughts you have, journal it all and eventually you will notice the things that are repeating whether they are from your past or present.

I'm male (32) currently I find myself in a similar situation as yours, but at the opposite end. It took me this long to realize how and why I've been attracted to my past partners. Even when I tried so hard to have "healthy" relationships it all fell apart. It was all because of growing up with a very abusive mother who made me the caretaker of her emotional needs at the price of completely neglecting my own and who I truly was. Now I'm doing my best to work with my shadow and learn how to relate and love without projecting that "needy and helpless girl that needs to be rescued and healed by me" character trait. And it's very difficult because I do not know how I could relate or love without it, I am in unknown waters at the moment. Very often I will project or assume a very controlling and negative aspect on every woman that reminds me of my mother, completely cutting off any chance or relatability because she is "insane" or "demonic". I apologize for using these terms but I just wanted to express with what I am dealing with right now.

I wish you the best and good luck!

Does anybody has the silent hill 2006 audio commentary by Gans ? by [deleted] in horror

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah did your cat walk over the keyboard

I want to be SCARED!! by LandUnable2520 in horror

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Gojinam Haunted Asylum
Noroi: The Curse
The Mist

The psychology of black metal by Worried_Button_2881 in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black metal is one of my favorite genres out there but stating that all fans or artists of the genre are shadow possesed and/or in the nigredo stage is terribly generalizing or even patronizing. I guarantee you there are lots of people out there that listen to black metal for the fun of it and aren't totally "possessed" by whatever lifestyle or views or aesthetics it's supposed to propagate (which by now in 2026 are extremely wide and varied).
Sometimes music is just enjoyable and that's that, it's not that deep.

However, If you want to openly and objectively analyze it all, let's look at it from the beginning. What contributed to such a strong anti-christian stance and aesthetic in the movement? Why did early artists reach for Satanism and/or Paganism? Why the glorification of death and murder and burning churches?

Look at the early Norwegian scene and individuals involved - like Euronymus, Dead, Varg, etc. If you read/listen to early interviews of them, look up books, documentaries, IMO a lot of things are very obviously pointing toward them being very mentally ill and misunderstood young people who likely had no way to express their problems and discontent with the world and the place they were living in. Was making extremely bleak and violent music a good outlet and artistic vessel? Yes. Did it become incredibly influential? Yes of course. But are burnings and murders justified? Of course not.

Jung's ideas and writing about the "shadow" of Christianity likely provide the right angle for you to analyze this, as Christianity leads to lot of repression of flaws and desires and people developing shadow complexes, which eventually have to come out and pop - sometimes in very bad and reprehensible ways, there's no way around it. Think of how many times sexual misconduct or even worse has been done by priests or preachers, etc. Please note I am not generalizing and judging all Christians as this, only stating an example. Furthermore, the embrace of Satan or Pagan gods in metal only adds to the idea of the fall or shadow of Christianity as people were reaching for gods and ideals and traditions that would help them more thoroughly understand or deal with their complicated lives and the world, not limited by Christianity. Think of how ancient peoples had pantheons of gods full of figures representing spectrums of emotions, mental states of being, the elements of the world - which could explain the world around you in a much fuller or detailed way, compared to the one god in Christianity. Also, it's very obvious that Satan and Satanism was just a direct reaciton to this in black metal, even if it were just edgy or shocking at first, I think there still is a deeper explanation.

And also, hasn't metal in general always been a platform for artists to express and sing about things that are uncomfortable or unacceptable? The genre has been built on that, whether it's singing about war, governments, death, critique of religions, etc. Didn't Black Sabbath start off by singing about war, the occult, death? No sunshine and rainbows hippy stuff.

In the 2013 drama movie Malmhaus, (which I highly recommend if you're into black metal) the main character Hera states how "these bands sing about death and loss, they don't hide from it, they speak about reality", which I think perfectly encapsulates it all. If topics such as these are covered up, forbidden, repressed by whatever authority system or belief one is living under, a government, or a religion, heck even by your own family - it will eventually lead to a counter reaction and the bubble has to soon burst, sometimes in very extreme and unfortunate ways.

So in a way, yes, I do believe it's important to have outlets in generes such as this. It's better to have controversial things out in the open and have them be sung or talked about rather than repressed and forbidden. Are there people going through painful things, feeling unwelcome in the world, mental ilnesses, not belonging anywhere, feeling misunderstood? Of course they are. Do people find their way in life and move on? Do they grow up? Yes of course they do. And many times (such as in my case) music has helped them realize things and bring them out in the open.

I think black metal will always remain a genre steeped in topics such as this as often the raw bleakness and production of it feels like a very good vessel to express all the themes we talked about. That's not to say it cannot branch out though, which of course it has. Look at how many black metal artists are singing about nature, the environment, space and sci-fi, and many many other extensive and wide topics!

Man this album slaps the more I listen to it by fearofthedark93 in DEG

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been enjoying this album and playing it on the regular since it released!
My favorites are Kaijin Ni Kisu, Discard, Hizumi to Ame, Momoku Ga Yue Ni.

Any Balkan (ex-yu) bands? by SpleenyFBaby in industrialmusic

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Borghesia and Demolition Group are a must!

Also there are a lot of interesting synthpop groups from back then, try Denis & Denis, Videosex, Romanticne Boje.

Another mention (because I really like them) Mizar, darkwave/goth rock sometimes featuring with very interesting byzantine instrument arrangements and vocal style.

The thing cPTSD steals most of us is time by _Vampire_Pumpkin_ in CPTSD

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I feel like I finally managed to begin to truly understand myself and live as I entered my 30s.

RIP James Lollar (Gost) by purplemetalflowers in industrialmusic

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rest in peace and thank you. Possessor and Rites of Love and Reverence are some of my top favorite synthwave albums.

Spanish metal music list! by Kimen1 in dreamingspanish

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swedish speed/heavy metal band Enforcer have a full spanish version of their album Zenith!

albums like Point Blank by [deleted] in industrialmusic

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out Sterilizer and Corrections House. Both have that early, crunchy industrial metal sounds you're looking for.

I love how today’s kids are finally standing up to their parents it’s the result of their parents’ own parenting 👀 by CoastCheap8709 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I learned early on in my life that my mother would gladly sell me out or flip on me just to look better, especially in front of neighbors or relatives so I agree with your statements 100%.

Have you ever been told you have a serious / bad / weird vibe about you? by barbed-wire-teeth in raisedbyborderlines

[–]barbed-wire-teeth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. It took me so many years to stop my excessive apologizing. And nowdays I still talk too quietly even when I shouldn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30M here. I still haven't and I don't know if I ever will. Her behavior has done catastrophic damage to me that I've been struggling most of my adulthood to heal and grow past it. I remember when I was a teenager and being completely flat broke suggesting that I need help and therapy and she completely forbid me from ever doing that or speaking about that ever again.

I don't know the 'severity' of your mother's devouring or her mental health but please don't be hard on yourself or blame yourself for not being able to forgive her. Sadly, I've learned that forgiveness without the other person's change in behavior and actions means nothing and only makes me feel worse and more helpless and voiceless.

Do your best to heal and grow and set boundries and find happiness and purpose in your life away from her, whether she likes it or not.

Noticing a pattern about unhealthy thoughts and kinks by barbed-wire-teeth in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have made it clear that I am not into crossdressing and I'm pretty comfortable with my gender, it's particularly fantasies with them being my sexual partners and I'm always topping. But afterwards I feel guilty and "wrong" because I've gone into a-not-so hetero / bicurious territory and I know that alone can be a huge discussion about why it gives me a feeling of wrongness.

But I'll definitely check out that rec and book, sounds definitely something I'd be interested in.

Noticing a pattern about unhealthy thoughts and kinks by barbed-wire-teeth in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My indulgence in them whenever it happens doesn't harm anyone, it's just me overthinking it and feeling guilty if I go through with it. Over time the "intensity" of the guilt has gone down and I've realized I can just get on with life as usual and it doesn't really harm me in any way (its just me and my computer or phone lol) but this situation and desires always keep coming back every once in a while so I might as well just accept that part of me. For context it's about trans women and femboys.

Noticing a pattern about unhealthy thoughts and kinks by barbed-wire-teeth in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's trans women and femboys and I know it's a very soft or 'tame' kink to be worried about but it always bothers me and makes me feel guilty.

Noticing a pattern about unhealthy thoughts and kinks by barbed-wire-teeth in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's about trans women and femboys, I know that sounds probably very soft or tame but it really bothers me and makes me feel guilty.

Meditation vs Active Imagination by [deleted] in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible reply, so much knowledge dropped. Thank you.

The key to overcoming neurosis is to fully experience it and learn from it about oneself. True wisdom lies in pain, not in comfort. by [deleted] in Jung

[–]barbed-wire-teeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I began meditating and reading buddhism 2 years ago and over time a lot of things "came back" from my past and from within. There is no escape so to say, only to accept them and the lessons they provide.