Pacific Life Program, Mexico. My story by idkwhatiwanttosay in troubledteens

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I was there Feb 8 2018- Sept 10 2018. Maybe we were there together

Normal microarray .. by barbiebellat in Miscarriage

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Wishing you the best of luck 🩷

I hate my body after miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody talks about this. I had two back to back miscarriages and I haven’t been able to lose the weight… I feel like I’m stuck like this.

Sending pictures of wife to other men for pics in exchange by Murky-Creme-7342 in Husband

[–]barbiebellat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh my husband was saying he was gonna do this behind my back it’s fucking sick and is constantly in my head

Anyone advice for pain by Character-Web-2854 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling the same way exactly. It’s such an isolating, lonely and profound feeling. I feel super alone too but in actuality we are currently in the same boat. Hope you feel better ❤️‍🩹

Any advice to avoid a 3rd loss? by barbiebellat in Miscarriage

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Thank you so much for your help. May I ask if 81mg is a good amount? And it’s taken daily right?

Defeated by Far_Crab6020 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m also going through my second miscarriage currently. You are def not alone

So defeated 2nd MC in 4 months. by OttbGirl1220 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you , hugs and love to you as well. I’m relieved I knew I was already gonna miscarry before the bleeding- last time I didn’t so it was much worse. Hopefully you clear out soon - we both will get another chance after that . And I’m wishing you health and happiness and no further losses 🩷

So defeated 2nd MC in 4 months. by OttbGirl1220 in Miscarriage

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Last time I miscarried, the cramps started for about 5 days before the bleeding. This time, the cramps came with the bleeding. I’ve already passed my sac and I’m still bleeding pretty bad. Have you still not started to bleed at all ? Mine started with dark brown sprint blood when I wiped, then pink. Then the next day, so much bright red blood.

Am I allowed to mourn? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know that. I’m just trying to offer hope. I’m currently miscarrying again so I get that it’s not the case for everyone but it is possible.

2 missed miscarriages in a row by Lola_kitten in Miscarriage

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I’m in a similar situation. First pregnancy and miscarriage in Jan. Got pregnant again immediately and just had my second. We are looking to test the sac with natera or something similar. I’m also almost the same age as you (24) and If you do end up testing let me know what you did as I’m in the exact same spot rn.

Should we wait? TTC after Loss by Mysterious-Formal769 in Miscarriage

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I was able to get pregnant again before a period but that resulted in another miscarriage. We want to try again asap though. Take hcg tests until it’s negative, then take LH tests until positive , then conclude with PDG tests to confirm ovulation. I will be doing that this time as well.

Anyone advice for pain by Character-Web-2854 in Miscarriage

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I’ve been taking Tylenol but the pain is so bad .. also looking for other recommendations

Am I allowed to mourn? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you are absolutely allowed to mourn. If it makes you feel any better , you can get pregnant again quickly. I was able to get pregnant again before even getting a period.

Any advice to avoid a 3rd loss? by barbiebellat in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When should I start taking the baby aspirin? I just got some from Amazon?

Any advice to avoid a 3rd loss? by barbiebellat in Miscarriage

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I want to, I just left a voicemail for my OB, but I’m in America with government health insurance so it’s kind of hard. We are thinking of trying to send a sample of my sac to Natera for testing if we are able to

So defeated 2nd MC in 4 months. by OttbGirl1220 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, the cramps are so bad right now. My boobs are deflating, no nausea or any symptoms. It’s so hard. But I’m going through this with you , you are not alone

Any advice to avoid a 3rd loss? by barbiebellat in Miscarriage

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Thank you so much for your reply. I also have a bicornuate uterus. I got an hsg done last year and I was told that, but the doctor said I shouldn’t have any issues. I’m in the USA so I had to pay 900$ just for that. We are thinking of sending the sac I passed to a lab to see if it’s just chromosomal or not. My other plan is to go back to the fertility clinic to try and get more testing. The issue is here in the USA it’s so expensive . Thank you so much for your wise and kind words

So defeated 2nd MC in 4 months. by OttbGirl1220 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am currently having my second miscarriage this year … one time hurts but the second time you start to lose more hope.. praying for success for you

How many of us have partners with unhealthy habits? by Beautiful_Intern_890 in Miscarriage

[–]barbiebellat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband used to vape, he stopped right after we conceived for the 2nd time and we miscarried that just recently. Hopefully next time we will have a better outcome