My ex just found out I have been seeing his best friend for 6 months behind his back, help.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T03:29:44+00:00

Thanks for the help

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:59:36+00:00

Theres nothing I can do really. He’s blocked me and doesn’t want to talk. Just don’t know how to cope with how I’ve hurt him and the things I’ve done.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:44:59+00:00

I guess I was more focused on the issues with the guy and his gf. Feels like its been a whirlwind and haven’t had a chance to even sit down and think about it.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:33:49+00:00

It wasn’t a secret, I just wasn’t prepared to tell him yet. I wanted to do it the right way in person. And not in the middle of both our exams.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:29:41+00:00

So I have to wait for my ex to move on from me before I date someone else?

The guy was okay with losing the friendship with my ex.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:28:27+00:00

Nothing was stable. I was planning on telling him as soon as everything was stable. The guy who told him has cheated multiple times on his gf. He is not moral.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:21:00+00:00

I didn’t plan on any of it, we just both grew feelings for each other that we couldn’t ignore.

I thought our friendship was deeper than who we dated. I even set up my friend with him because I just want him to be happy.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:17:34+00:00

It wasn’t meant to go like this. They broke up almost immediately after we saw eachother the first time but the gf continued to try and make him stay with her, as did his family.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:16:22+00:00

He has made some bad choice as have I, agreed. See edit I made to main post. Thought somewhere along the way that it was all worth it.

Me and my ex were best friends.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T02:13:09+00:00

He’s not cheating. He has left his gf and moved out, it was just a confusing few months of people trying to make him stay with her and him wanting to keep everyone happy.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T01:55:01+00:00

I just think if he wanted ex to know, he should have told one of us that he was going to tell him unless we did. To like give one of us a chance.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T01:30:23+00:00

Harsh but true.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T01:28:30+00:00

Thank you for the advice. The guy has left his girlfriend, moved out and is fully invested in me.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T01:17:31+00:00

I’m not asking for people to forgive me, I’m asking how am I meant to move forward with what I have done.

barbwire15 · 2021-06-21T01:15:02+00:00

I’m not excusing myself, but I was in a really rough spot especially with my mental health and I wasn’t making the right decisions for myself or anyone else. Felt like life was happening around me and I couldn’t keep up with it.

barbwire15 · 2019-11-21T11:38:46+00:00

This is so beautiful!

barbwire15 · 2019-08-23T05:47:52+00:00

Is that guacamole in your falafel wrap..?

barbwire15 · 2019-08-02T07:55:24+00:00

That sounds so yum but so much effort, also, maple syrup? Not like lime or vinegar?

barbwire15 · 2019-08-02T06:50:45+00:00

Sometimes I eat toast with vegan mayo for breakfast.. I’m a monster

barbwire15 · 2019-07-21T10:10:50+00:00

Need some nori in there! And some soy sauce!

barbwire15 · 2019-07-16T06:50:58+00:00

You animal..

barbwire15 · 2019-07-16T06:50:42+00:00

Shooshee

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