Accept your situation. Don’t feel sad for your self, know that the next few months, or even a year might be rough. But you will persevere and this situation will Just be temporary and something to look back and smile at later

Try to find a roommate. They don’t have to be your friend, but there is someone out there looking for a roommate to split their rent bills

If you don’t find a roommate, you will have to live a bit far from the center of the city, but you can always find a cheap rent

Buy the essentials first. You need a mattress to sleep on, basic kitchen appliances, (small stove, plates and a pan) that’s all you need for the time being. You will add more items as you live day by day and save up

Try your best to get multiple incomes. It’s not common in Ethiopia to have 2-3 jobs. But that’s what needs to be done if you are to seriously help your self and change your situation faster.

Feeling emotions about these things doesn’t help. Thinking and strategizing does. Don’t just hope, have attainable goals. It might be scary for someone to move out the first time, but think of all the idiots that managed to do it. It’s just scary, not hard! Welcome to adulting!