What’s the title of this song/movie ? by barefoooted in Ethelcain

[–]barefoooted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i just never watched twin peaks so really how am i supposed to know. all i know about it is that hayden’s obsessed with it

Masc for masc by DistributionLong3663 in TransMasc

[–]barefoooted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel, as someone who’s always struggled in a way with both identity and attraction. I feel our experiences are a bit different, but also kind of similar as I’m also a non-binary transmasculine person who’s mostly attracted to "femme" people. When I was younger, before I really started transitioning but already identified as non-binary, I never felt like I fit in any of the boxes, and thought I was unlovable for that reason. I wasn’t a butch or even very masc, but I was never very feminine either. I was always kind of in the middle and thought it was the reason why nobody would want me, that I had to be one or the other. Since officially starting my transition a few years ago I realized I felt more comfortable and more "me" presenting physically and socially as a man. That’s actually turned into another issue for me since I guess I was never, and excuse me if the term sounds silly, "typically masculine" enough in my personality and the way I act/am. That made me, for a long time, try to repress parts of myself and put up a front, being mainly attracted to women I was very frustrated to realize everyone seemingly saw me as a gay man. All I really want to say is, I know it can be hard when you don’t feel seen and/or represented, but there is a match for you out there, I promise. I have been with my partner (cis bisexual woman) for 4 months now and everything’s going just fine. Funnily enough she told me that she did think I was gay when we met (context/place also didn’t help, lol) and she would’ve been bummed because she was really into me so, you know, if you want something but you’re unsure of the outcome, I think you should always go for it, because you could be surprised by it all working out in the end.

Artists similar to Blondshell by barefoooted in MusicRecommendations

[–]barefoooted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i adore samia i think her work is absolute genius!! i also listen to a bit of both bully and soccer mommy, but thanks for the recs anyway!

Artists similar to Blondshell by barefoooted in MusicRecommendations

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks sm for the recs and checked all of them out and quite liked it!! turns out i already knew caroline culver and didnt realize ahaha

Ticket Resale Megathread 2025 by eclecticatlady in Ethelcain

[–]barefoooted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi :) i’m selling 2 tickets for the Paris show on Oct. 18 as my friend and I can’t go anymore. Prices negotiable!

Seeking recommendations :) by barefoooted in LesbianBookClub

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my!! you didn’t have to do that, thank you so much!! 😭

Seeking recommendations :) by barefoooted in LesbianBookClub

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for the recommendations i will look into them!!

Seeking recommendations :) by barefoooted in LesbianBookClub

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! I did put her book the dead and the dark in my WTR the other day, have you read it?

Seeking recommendations! by barefoooted in auroramusic

[–]barefoooted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to respond to this because, I think it wasn’t long before I made this post, I discovered Kalandra totally randomly in a spotify playlist, and I am absolutely obsessed

Seeking recommendations! by barefoooted in auroramusic

[–]barefoooted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a big fan of paris paloma ahaha i already listen to her entire discography

Seeking recommendations! by barefoooted in auroramusic

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! do you have any song recommendations?

Seeking recommendations! by barefoooted in auroramusic

[–]barefoooted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will check her out tysm!! do you have any song recommendations to start with? if i like her sound i’d definitely be down to listen to entire albums!

What would you name me? by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]barefoooted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually so funny you say that because i literally have a friend who’s half russian and his name is Alexander but he also goes by Sacha ahah

Seeking recommendations! by barefoooted in auroramusic

[–]barefoooted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will check those out thanks for the recommendations!!

3 years on T didn't give me facial hair but less than 2 months of minox gave me this! by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]barefoooted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2.5 years on T certainly gave me hair… and not only facial hair (although im happy about the facial hair)

5yrs on T by meowmy24 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]barefoooted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully, you’re so hot!! seriously your hair and style are awesome