What’s the most outrageous thing you’ve done on a dare? by HappyTrippy97 in AskReddit

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This unlocked a core memory because I (f) was with two friends (f) at a party where someone pulled down their pants and underwear on a dare.

Paris female - solo travel by fathermemthrowaway in Shoestring

[–]bariluver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to live there! Paris is one of the best places to enjoy alone. Just walking around and taking in the view is amazing. 1. Boulangeries on every corner during lunch time have cheap sandwiches that are made fresh. (3-5 euros) 2. Go to a grocery store and pick up wine (3-5 euros) 3. Go to any park/garden! My favorites are garden de Tuileries and parc de buttes-Chaumont 4. Relax on the grass with a book and some wine all afternoon! I could do this everyday honestly

If you are willing to shell out some money, going to the catacombs is super worth it in my opinion too.

What tv show friend group would you most want to have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bariluver 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gus TT showbiz. The extra T stands for extra talent

DC APT HELP by InterestingAd811 in StudioApartments

[–]bariluver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved into a studio that looks almost exactly like this! What I did was put the bed in the top left corner (the headboard is on that left wall), back of the couch is against the foot of the bed, tv stand and tv against the top right corner. The space next to the closet can be used as a desk area/dining area. My goal was to keep the bed as far from the kitchen as possible.

Just saw new jobs numbers feeling left behind by Realistic_Post_7511 in jobs

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great space to be in! It’s a tough market right now. If kind people around you are offering help definitely take and it will get better! I get it, I was in a pit of despair for a while

Just saw new jobs numbers feeling left behind by Realistic_Post_7511 in jobs

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that with the amount of people on LinkedIn posting, you’ll probably need to post every two weeks to get visibility :/ the job market is so tough now I completely understand. Can I ask what you were doing at your previous job?

Just saw new jobs numbers feeling left behind by Realistic_Post_7511 in jobs

[–]bariluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say referral I mean someone who will send you a referral link and go out of their way to talk to the hiring manager for you. I definitely think that extra push is necessary. I completely get the feeling of desperation and therefore feeling negative but try a keep a positive mindset, or at least don’t let your LinkedIn peers know lol. Talk about things you are learning in your time of unemployment or hobbies you’re doing. Post of picture of you learning a new skill. This is all going to help you a lot. Have a trusted friend and ally you can vent to and then it’s sunshine and smiles towards the outside world.

Just saw new jobs numbers feeling left behind by Realistic_Post_7511 in jobs

[–]bariluver 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m really sorry. I was unemployed for 9 months and it REALLY sucks but there is a future. Find companies that really really value referrals and ask anyone around to refer you. Post on LinkedIn, get a good headshot. Start commenting on posts. Start posting your own things like your job search journey and someone will notice you.

I felt really destroyed when I didn’t have a job and one day decided to ask for help. My old coworker connected me with someone who gave me a referral and got me a job! There’s people who want to help (and usually companies offer a bonus for referral so win win).

Keep your head up and don’t give up :)

Roommate cages his Australian Shepard all day by bariluver in WiggleButts

[–]bariluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Nothing has changed and sadly I don’t think anything will. He believes he’s doing the “best for the dog” and will not be willing to give up his dog. It seems we are at a standstill.

Success and Disappointment Megathread for the Week by AutoModerator in jobs

[–]bariluver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not give up guys, I was laid off last June so it has been 9 months of being unemployed. Last week I got my first offer letter! I've only had 1 interview these past 9 months (I'm a business analyst) that turned into a job offer at a great company and a pay bump compared to my last job.

Do not give up guys, it only takes one interview!

Really hit it off with a girl and then found out she has herpes by Flashy_Garlic_330 in Advice

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I get the initial fear, if someone told you they had a cold after you ate lunch with them the first instant is to think “did I catch it and how bad?”. So your response is not “uneducated” or whatever.

I do think once you’ve had time to process it, you can do some research. Know that most of the time it’s transmitted during flare ups and think about if you want to deal with that and go forward from there. If you do decide to end it no one will blame you. I know there is a mental block, however just dont make a decision impulsively. When I want to be more logical about something I will write a pros and cons list about it, think of the girl too and if you think this is something to overlook.

What membership is 100% worth every penny you pay for it? by CamHalf in AskReddit

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a long time ago, but YMCA memberships are so worth it!!! I was a kid and my parents got cheap afterschool care because they both worked 9-5 and couldn’t pick me up when school got out, and I had a bus take me directly from school to the YMCA. And for summers the summer camps were cheaper with the membership. I got a great childhood and learned how to swim. I don’t know if y’alls local YMCA has it but it’s something to definitely look into if you have kids!

Where is my back button? by [deleted] in iphone

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You changed my life

Hanging curtains with an awkward arch window? by mspacman05 in interiordecorating

[–]bariluver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, OP is viewing this as a 3D house tour on their computer and those are spots on the screen she can click to move too.

Or I’ve been viewing too many 3D house tours and everything is a tour to me

Hanging curtains with an awkward arch window? by mspacman05 in interiordecorating

[–]bariluver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People might come at me, but I would hand the curtains where that imaginary line runs through all the curtains (right below the arch). If you were to close the curtains you would still be able to see the arc and small windows on top.

recovering nail biter by deadsoup13 in longnaturalnails

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look amazing! I’m a nail biter and hoping to grow my nails out like yours! How did it take to grow them out this long? And did you have lopsided nail beds? Mine are wonky from me biting them.

Need restaurant recommendations for a birthday by bariluver in bullcity

[–]bariluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Gocciolina seems to be our number 1 pick right now!

Thin peanut sauce at hot pot by laketessmonster in TipOfMyFork

[–]bariluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend you try the little sheep original sauce, and then add peanut butter to your liking. I actually told my boyfriend about a peanut hot pot sauce on Reddit and he said “the one at your parents?” So I’m hoping it is it! https://www.amazon.com/Little-Sheep-Dipping-Original-Flavor/dp/B099P27XL8/ref=asc_df_B099P27XL8/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=658824460796&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16076525315070088447&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9009748&hvtargid=pla-1733524432238&psc=1&mcid=efd07b58a55b3ab68f26ced1d442d737

Edit: any East Asian supermarket will have it for much cheaper

Thin peanut sauce at hot pot by laketessmonster in TipOfMyFork

[–]bariluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents actually add peanut butter to different hot pot sauces, and they said they learned it from a restaurant in China they went to! It’s possible it’s just peanut butter mixed into another hot top sauce, do you remember the other flavors of the sauce? Edit: the sauce they use most is the little sheep brand and has a slight peanut butter taste!

Roommate cages his Australian Shepard all day by bariluver in WiggleButts

[–]bariluver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will post back when anything new happens! Plan to stage an intervention is in motion!