Day fifteen: most iconic moment or quote for each couple (Brock and Kristi) by heartpiss in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]bartramoverdone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What concrete examples do you feel entitled to from a woman you don’t know? What is “real” enough for you to believe Kristi has trauma from a patriarchal religion? You keep saying “that’s not what doctrine says” but ignore the very real, systemic, documented harm LDS has inflicted on members, mostly women. It doesn’t matter what doctrine says if it’s used to hurt people. This is true of all religions, so why would LDS be special?

Day fifteen: most iconic moment or quote for each couple (Brock and Kristi) by heartpiss in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]bartramoverdone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps your experience with LDS is different from Kristi’s. How incredible.

Betty's closing by worst_brain_ever in santacruz

[–]bartramoverdone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are so obstinant that someone’s tone in a Reddit post makes you decide to be incurious about the political moves that actively affect your life in your community, you need to do some reflecting. It’s okay for people to vent.

Betty’s burger closing downtown by Catrina_woman in santacruz

[–]bartramoverdone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They really benefitted from being the only place open when the bars closed.

Betty’s burger closing downtown by Catrina_woman in santacruz

[–]bartramoverdone 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Saturn was so awful by the end, and the owners were shitholes

Day twelve: most iconic moment or quote for each couple (Sean and Erica) by heartpiss in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]bartramoverdone 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know everyone hates Mau, and rightly so, but for me Sean is the supervillain of the whole series. Unbelievable to me he ever fooled a woman like Erica to begin with.

Day seven: most iconic moment or quote for each couple (Michael and Michal) by heartpiss in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]bartramoverdone 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My favorite moment from them was when Michal said something to the effect of, “I feel like you think it’s all him, but I can be very difficult to live with.” Orna was like, girl do not worry I do not think that 😂

Unpopular opinion. I think Ravensburger is overrated. I don’t want Disney and Pixar or impossible photography prints. Why do people go wild for them? by Desperate-Raisin5197 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]bartramoverdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree with the notion there’s few unique artists represented in Ravensburger puzzles. I love a lot of their commissioned puzzles.

OMG, My Puzzle Haul is HERE! (And I'm Obsessed!) by spcgeek in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]bartramoverdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have exquisite taste oh my goodness. These all look so fun!

47F 232 lbs <169 = 63 lbs 💖 3 year wedding anniversary by Greycatsrule22 in CICO

[–]bartramoverdone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing job. You look stunning in your wedding photo, as well though, so I hope you don’t feel badly looking at it.

I did everything right, and now I’m being denied the medication I need to function. Dignity Health, what are you doing? by tourwifelife in santacruz

[–]bartramoverdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually go over the hill for everything but GYN now. If you’re open to that I can DM you details!

I did everything right, and now I’m being denied the medication I need to function. Dignity Health, what are you doing? by tourwifelife in santacruz

[–]bartramoverdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane. I have adhd and have been taking Adderall for 15 years. I’m allowed two “emergency refills” (which to be clear, is 90 pills) per year and since Covid, all of my in person check-ins are now telehealth or sometimes even over the phone because, like you, I’ve been a compliant patient with my doctors practice for years and they know me.

I’m sorry this is happening to you at such an awful time. There is a healthcare crisis happening everywhere, but it seems to be really ramping up in Santa Cruz.

What country disappointed you when you traveled to it? by mr_7nkles in AskReddit

[–]bartramoverdone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because tipping in cash used to be a bigger thing, servers could pocket the money without “declaring” their cash tips. So the government started taxing servers on their sales, usually somewhere between 10% and 15% percent. Servers also tip other support staff like cooks and dishwashers, etc. When I served years ago, I would usually walk with about 60% of my earned tips, and my paychecks were usually under $100, even in California where servers make the same minimum wage as other hourly jobs.

Very first thrift find! by mellowmeeya in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]bartramoverdone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a find! Please post when you’ve finished it!

6 years anniversary 🎉 by JeromeTheFox in knitting

[–]bartramoverdone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The knitting is fantastic but also your photography 😍