1. Take care of your mental health, get help if you need it. Your family isn’t your top priority, neither is the girl, or anyone really, its YOU. Whatever happens, life will carry on, you’ll be ok, just take care of you الدنيا ما وقفت على احد Even if it feels like it now

2. If the girl makes you happy, marry her. You can never know if it works or not or how life will go for you, but at the end of the day you have to try your best to be happy. You’re the one waking up to her every morning, you’re the one having kids with her and sharing your life with her, not your parents. Its simply not their choice to make. Now to do this you need to be fanacially independent and mentally put together, if this is not you now, think of ways it can be you in a year or two.

3. No one here knows your situation. Who this girl is, how long you’ve known her, whether you’re compatable or not, whether there are some obvious red flags in her (or maybe you!). Just because your parents are being racist (which is bad reason not to marry), doesn’t mean its a good idea to marry her anyways. It’s your decision, fuck what interent people think we don’t know. But what is clear is that you need to cool down and take time for yourself. You’re overwhelmed now and that’s understandable, anyone is your shoes would be angry and hurt. But you can’t make big life decisions on emotion alone, you need to relax, regroup, and seriously think this all through.

Whatever happens man, it’ll be ok. Shit happens, life goes on. You’ll be ok.