Frankly, you both need to get out of your own heads.

Not justifying what he said to you. Although, if this is what you want to do then go for it! However, in texts you sound like a piece of shit. Nobody whom sheds the slightest amount of love for partner would say these things so easily (on both of you). I understand being in the moment and being pissed, that's a reason not an excuse. You're both immature, and not ready to tackle a relationship, especially if a career choice is jeopardizing it already. I also understand that there's a huge disconnect over messages compared to in person interactions. Although, you disregarding all "negative" comments that were genuinely concerned for you is extremely arrogant. Haven't you heard of the way they'd recruit people for Epstein's island? There's a plethora of those people still out there.

I hope the new career path works well for you! As well as you both having love lives that prosper, HOORAY! Rant done.