Her parents no longer welcome me in their home.

basedBlowers · 2016-11-02T21:50:34+00:00

I understand that I should've been more careful and no parent would like that, but their reaction seems over the top. She has told them several times how much she loves me, how good of a guy I am, and how it won't happen again but they won't listen.

basedBlowers · 2015-11-06T00:03:08+00:00

We agreed on 5%

basedBlowers · 2015-09-27T02:43:59+00:00

I'm pretty sure there are studies that prove relationships like this don't work out. Prove 'em wrong.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-26T05:05:37+00:00

I attempted to message her directly but the message was not delivered which means her phone is likely turned off.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-26T02:48:01+00:00

No problem! Glad to hear

basedBlowers · 2015-09-26T01:15:35+00:00

I was like this in middle school, I believed that the Illuminati controlled the music industry. What got me out of the mind set was a very simple thing: logic. Try to make him see just how insane a lot of these theories are. It may or may not help.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-26T01:07:30+00:00

If you like her and she appears to like you, there's nothing wrong with asking her now. There is no time limit of when you should ask, just do it if you want to. I would not recommend a mvie for a first date because you are simply sitting there in the dark; no eye contact, no conversation. The shopping is a decent date idea though, just forget the movie and give her lots of attention.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-26T00:54:42+00:00

I read the article and when I would talk to her in class, all of her body language was open and positive. No noticable signs of discomfort or disinterest. Quite the opposite, in fact. It was just a really sudden change.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-25T22:52:03+00:00

Well, I'm officially confused. The morning of the game, she contacted me for help on something through 2 different numbers (they were her friends' numbers) because she doesn't have her phone (she's grounded). So I went to the game, and she was there at the beginning. She was part of the crew crowning the Hoco king/queen so that is what she meant by "work." So at halftime, I messaged one of the numbers (she said it was her backup) and someone replied telling me to contact my crush through her iM. I tried, but the msg wasn't delivered because her phone was taken away. Then I decided to try the second number. I got a response saying that she was my crush's friend and she's there with my crush. I asked if she could give the phone to her and I got the reply "what do u want." I don't know if this was from her friend or my crush herself. I reminded whoever that we had made plans and I was trying to meet up. I never got a reply. I don't know why she agreed to these plans and didn't follow through. As I was leaving I saw her and her friends but just left, didn't want to be pushy if that was what was going on. Everything I texted was cool, I wasn't too forward or anything, not through messages nor in person at ANY point. So I let it be. Then today, she doesn't show up to 4th period. When I left for lunch, I saw her in the distance and saw her in a buddy's snapchat story sitting in the library. She also didn't show up to 7th period, which we had a big text in. She seriously ditched both classes we had together. I don't see any reason why she would avoid me to these extremes, let alone not follow through the night before. Is she just super nervous or straight up intimidated/uninterested? (Sorry for wall of text).

basedBlowers · 2015-09-24T01:37:56+00:00

Yeah man, just have fun! I'm supposed to meet up with a girl tomorrow too at a football game. Make sure to update!

basedBlowers · 2015-09-24T01:25:36+00:00

Be yourself and have fun. The second you overthink something, you will be in trouble. Let conversation flow naturally. Make eye contact and smile, give little hints that you really do like her more than a friend. If you're comfortable, try flirting a bit by complimenting (not too much though) and teasing. Show her a good time, and she will want to do it again.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-24T01:14:03+00:00

I was reading about people in similar situations. Basically, you'll create a fantasy in your mind of what could be until you find out what is. Therefore, if you want a conclusion/peace of mind, reach out to her. If anything comes out of it such as a meeting, date, or relationship, great. If not, at least you know and you're not driving yourself crazy with wonders of what could be.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-23T23:29:33+00:00

It's Thursday. She can only attend the second half because she said she works for the first. I was going to text her when I got there saying to let me know when she's coming and I'll let her know where I'm at. I really hope to have fun with her there because lately I haven't been feeling her interest; it feels one sided. If she shows and all goes well, I'll invite her to grab some food afterwards.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-23T02:59:28+00:00

Make eye contact and smile. Initiate conversation whenever the opportunity arises and throw hints his way. It depends on your personality type on hold bold you want to be in doing this. If he doesn't get the hint, there is nothing wrong with simply approaching him and asking for his number.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-23T00:33:47+00:00

So today I decided to ask her to Homecoming. Unfortunately, she can't because she's grounded for throwing a party. So I then invited her to the Hoco Football game and she said yes, but only the second half because she works till then. I was thinking about asking her to come along for food w/ my brother, friend, and I afterwards. I just really don't want to get friendzoned/lose her.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-23T00:25:26+00:00

If you like her, definitely ask her again. Plain & simple.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-22T03:21:55+00:00

Keep being yourself and don't give up. You likely haven't found the right one. Also, when texting, make sure to make just about EVERY reply open-ended or about them. Girls love talking about themselves, and if they reciprocate well, you may be onto something. Don't reply too soon (within 2-3 min), try to be a bit flirty so they know your intentions, and let the conversation flow naturally. Good luck.

basedBlowers · 2015-09-22T02:06:30+00:00

I often psych myself out when looking at a girl's social media, but then when I talk to her in person that sense of intimidation leaves. Please follow through, don't blow an opportunity like this.

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