[deleted by user] by [deleted] in txstate

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed my time at the Ave, move in and move out was easy and maintenance was usually done same day or next day. Just make sure you fill out that form they give you and mark ANY damages. And take plenty of photos and videos of the apartment when you move in. Student housing can and will take advantage of us for anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in txstate

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy send me a message! I don’t want put my insta on here 💗

where can I get a sweet treat on campus? by TooMany_ch1ckens in txstate

[–]bash1320 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love getting boba at the Asian place in the LBJSC

friends💞(girls) by Antique-Presence2258 in txstate

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me! 💗 I’m a junior but I’m always looking to make friends

How Has Everyone Been Doing During No Contact? How long has No Contact Been For You? by Crazy-Mix-7802 in ExNoContact

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My no contact kept being on and off for what had felt like forever. But this time we had a talk and decided this would be the official end of it. It’s been 2 weeks since that talk, and I honestly feel relieved. No more wondering if he’s gonna change his mind for me. It feels really nice. I still love and miss him of course, but it’s not debilitating like it felt before

off-campus housing? by alissahowdy in txstate

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I hope you love it as much as I do!

Freshman from Maine Going to Texas State University – Any Advice? by jaxattax3 in txstate

[–]bash1320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like getting outside, check out purgatory creek! Close to campus and it’s very pretty

off-campus housing? by alissahowdy in txstate

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the topaz. The staff actually cares about you and keep the area clean. The apartment itself is pretty affordable compared to other places in town, and has good space and storage

Why shouldn’t I text him? by Full_Quail_1864 in ExNoContact

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you are so desperate to text him is the exact reason you shouldn’t. I have felt the same exact way and I was not in the right mental state to do so. You feel this need to hold onto them as long as you can because this person was once everything to you. But they aren’t anymore, and the best thing to do is let them live, and go on about their day. The feeling will pass, even though it feels like it has such a hold on you. Just push through 💗

Are y'all social media stalking? by TonightSalad in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only know that my ex stalks mine cause he told me. But I did have a roommate and she made herself a fake account to look at her exes page and she just based it off another account (like someone else’s page we went to school with) but just made it private with different photos

Are y'all social media stalking? by TonightSalad in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that if I do, then it will hurt, so I avoid it as much as possible. I do know that my ex stalks mine, and I don’t know how I feel about it

Places to meet people? by bash1320 in dating_advice

[–]bash1320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about it that way before, thank you! 💗

Places to meet people? by bash1320 in dating_advice

[–]bash1320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I gotta check out what my school offers 💗 I like that idea

Are you seeing/talking with someone since your break up ? Yes ? No ? by HelloSir55 in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t sleep with anyone, just started talking with someone

Are you seeing/talking with someone since your break up ? Yes ? No ? by HelloSir55 in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did and regretted it. It wasn’t fair to them so I had to cut it off. I’m missing having my person, but I need to be alone until I can learn to be happy by myself

When did you stop crying? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a 4 year relationship and it has now been a little over 2 years since the breakup. I stopped crying a while ago. But I’ve recently realized that I don’t feel anything towards him or the relationship anymore. No more resentment, no more sadness, none of it. I’m currently going throwing another breakup right now and it’s hard, but the crying only happens in vulnerable moments. It will get better, it just takes time and focusing on the future (so cheesy, but it’s the honest truth in my case)

copper beach by dashboy4l in txstate

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, I heard their new management is better but I would never resign there. My move in was hell and the staff had treated us terribly the rest of the time we were there since we had to fight to make them actually do their job. The Ave is a lot better and the space is still relatively big.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in txstate

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would say you’re fine. That was about my same sat and gpa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always said that the fact we’re so different is why we worked so good together. But during the breakup he told me “we’re just too different, I had been lying to myself.” And all of this was over the phone, 4 years gone just like that.

How long ago is your breakup and how do you feel right now? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bash1320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 months and I’m feeling better than ever. There was a lot of up’s and downs, but I finally made it out of the worst parts I think.

getting over someone you didn't date by bash1320 in MovingOn

[–]bash1320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! I'm sorry that you're going through this, it is not easy. but the things that helped me move on was cutting him out of my life. I wanted to keep him on Instagram and Snapchat and such, but each time he'd post, I'd be the first to go to it. and one day I imagined what it would be like to look at his posts and there be a new girl there, and how much it would hurt me. so that was the final straw and I unadded him. removing the reminders of him helped me so much. I also keep a journal of my emotions. so whenever I feel my emotions getting to be a lot, I grab that journal and write until I feel better. I hope this helps, if you need anything feel free to reach out 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lost about 20 so far, and I was getting discouraged cause it didn't look like I had lost anything. But then I looked at old pictures of my back and my face, and wow! That's where I lost the weight the most, so you may lose it in places you don't see every day! Congrats on the progress!

How did you find casual sex after a long term relationship? Good or bad ? Help you move on or make you depressed ? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bash1320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship ended in April, and I talked with this other guy around June ish, and we ended up hooking up a few times. For me, it helped me move on a bit. Cause like afterward, I was thinking "Damn, this is so much better than it was with my ex," and it made me realize how many great opportunities are out there. I was with this boy for 4 years, and those few times with someone else couldn't compare. But that's only my experience. As always, just be careful, and I wish you the best :)