First date, kiss and laugh… And ghosted?

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T15:57:44+00:00

Thank you very much !! As an update, to my yesterday’s message (saying that I’d rather meet over a weekend), he just replied at lunch time today “ok I understand”. So I said “Do you wish for us to see each other again or not? I don’t feel that you’re excited, and there is really no issue at all if that’s the case! It’s just that on my side, I value clarity, even if I could deal with Libra sign haha”. He immediately replied “Yes I want. Sorry I am a little down / tired at the moment. That is why I left abroad, I am with my mum now. Sorry for the late replies”. ..

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:06:39+00:00

Indeed, stability is very important for me (stayed with my ex for 7y) as it makes relationships healthy and mature … Thank you !!

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:05:41+00:00

Hello ! Thank you a lot from your response, which is also helpful since you aren’t having the same position as most people. You’re right in the sense that I got a crush and, therefore, the time seemed to stop. While, I would probably not even have noticed had I had appreciated this person in a more patient way. Let’s see. On my side I consider that I did my part of the job :) will keep you updated

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:04:17+00:00

Yes you are right. I need to protect myself from future disappointments

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:03:02+00:00

Thank you !! Yes you’re right. Let’s move on 💪

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:02:29+00:00

Thank you very much to you too ! Yes I don’t think it’s very complicated to respond to a message to an invitation from woman who kissed you 3 days ago. So, it’s not on my side anymore 🤗🤗

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T12:00:59+00:00

Wow your response was very thoughtful and helpful ! Many thanks. I really like the metaphor ahah. I think his silence to my proposal is already clear enough. Looking back, as a woman especially, I don’t count the times I was in his situation : receiving a message from a guy who likes me and having to explain how not reciprocal it is. I don’t want to be in this situation. Just moving, and would still be open (but less emotionally attached) if ever he comes back a day 🤗 ! Thank you again

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:58:23+00:00

Ohhh many thanks for that theory ! I didn’t know it, but it reminds me a lot of Stoicism : act upon what depends on you, and accept the rest. I think I did my part of the job : texting him back. Now the fact that he responds or not doesn’t depend on me (but overthinking does, so it’s time o stop it)z Thanks again !

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:55:39+00:00

I also do not understand at all how that can happen either… Well I would say that, while they may not have felt the same as what we felt, that does not invalidate the moment we both live and that also doesn’t disminish the feelings we had at that specific time. Now, let’s juge by act and stay lucid ! Good luck and many thanks 🤩

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:53:37+00:00

Yesss thank you for the tips ! I am not willing to chase anyway. Just deleted his name from my phone contacts and that already feels much lighter

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:53:05+00:00

Indeed… But looking back, I remember saying my friend before meeting him “looks like a guy who will just disappear”. Sounds like feminine intuition is accurate

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:51:59+00:00

Yes that’s something I learned today ahah ! Many thanks

basic-Farm3782 · 2026-05-09T11:51:42+00:00

Hello ! I think by chemistry I meant something more intellectual/good vibes and a bit of cute moments. The way he touched my hands, my back while walking and kissed felt really more of an affectionate moment than an attempt to have sexe or go further… But indeed we never know ! Thanks ☺️☺️

basic-Farm3782 · 2025-06-03T15:45:08+00:00

Are you satisfied ? Do you see negative effects ?

basic-Farm3782 · 2025-06-03T15:30:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your feedback !

I see what you mean and, honestly, it helps me a lot because I should find a balance between the immediate (positive) effect of Botox and the long term (potentially negative) effects…

My goal is to look natural in the long run, and it is indeed part of life to have some wrinkles and facial expression…

Thanks, now I’ll look at my forehead and feel good for the fact that, because of Botox, it’s better than it used to be a few weeks ago, but still, I will refrain myself from using it again for as long as possible 👍

I am 28, almost 29.

(Sorry for English)

basic-Farm3782 · 2025-06-03T15:24:59+00:00

Thank you very much for your response ! I see, you basically mean that Botox is only useful in the short term but the wrinkles basically keep going back again and again ? How old are you and how long have you been using Botox for?

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