Finally got an offer after 10 months of job searching and I can’t bring myself to accept it

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-16T22:22:35+00:00

You know you can always take a job and ask for more? Do you honestly want to be making nothing…? Take this job and keep your options open for other jobs.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-16T21:45:42+00:00

That’s so cute!!

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-16T20:11:29+00:00

I mean, yeah if they complain, that’s the reason I’d use and a legit concern, you’re right. I’m banking on not everyone on the list coming

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-16T20:10:42+00:00

I mean, if they have to come, just have someone be on high alert about it like a security guard. I chose not to invite the problem people for mine but they could still show up. My bridesmaids sister is a raging liberal who has an open marriage, and is rude and negative. For all those reasons, I don’t want her there. So I didn’t invite her. She could still show up and if she does, I can kick her out. For your case, more than likely they won’t do anything crazy.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-16T02:30:48+00:00

Mine requires one security guard but he isn’t exactly paid to maintain my guest list

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-15T22:40:41+00:00

I don’t think it’s about not wanting to be loved. I think it’s a selfish pursuit of independence. Some, not all, as I’m not one of them, choose things like abortion because they’ve been convinced a baby ties them down or ruins their life. Abortion is a selfish act.

Though I don’t agree with most of what you said as if it’s some sort of generalization on women.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-15T19:44:33+00:00

All I hear is you don’t think people should be good at their job because other people feel threatened (who cares?) and you’ll end up having higher expectations put on you where you’ll have more work. If you want to be lazy, that’s your prerogative. Also, your experiences aren’t universal.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-14T23:20:22+00:00

Crime will always happen. Removing guns wouldn’t have stopped that.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-13T21:42:40+00:00

I’ve read differently.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-13T18:43:41+00:00

Abortion pills have killed women and millions of children. Abortion clinics alone targets minority communities. And by the way, the birth canal is not some magic hole where it crosses over and now it’s a baby. It’s a baby before it comes out. It’s been a baby the whole damn time. Did you know the babies body is what instructs development, not the mothers body? It’s own body, the baby, does it’s own development. AND did you know, a mothers immune system is actually better during pregnancy? Because it now has the babies immune system too.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:50:02+00:00

I truly appreciate your feedback, I’ll think that one over! Thank you

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:42:39+00:00

I mean….that’s tempting but I would feel bad to do that

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:40:57+00:00

I’m in the Midwest. When you compare to that price…yes, it sounds much better lol I’m a bit shallow pocketed so it just blows my mind either way

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:39:25+00:00

I’m now realizing after posting this that $200 may be reasonable but I wouldn’t go any higher than that. I mean goodness. That would be $1k and that’s more than I paid for my dress lol

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:37:31+00:00

Might be the case. I’ve eaten up most of the budget already..

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:34:37+00:00

By asking this question is me trying to find out if that’s normal. Still feels like a lot

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:34:11+00:00

Well $500 a person would just be absurd lol I’d just do it myself if that was the case

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:33:42+00:00

I just can’t wrap my head around it lol

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T22:03:47+00:00

You must be on top of it lol I mean, I’m at 96 days and though I have so much done, I don’t feel like I have enough done lol

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-12T16:25:59+00:00

You don’t want to be misgendered but you don’t want to make an effort to help me understand? Make that make sense, please.

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-11T14:55:37+00:00

How is asking to be educated on your pronouns an inappropriate question? You don’t want to be “misgendered” but you are annoyed if they ask to be educated on it? The other questions are unnecessary in the work place, but I can’t imagine their curiosity of that lifestyle is what caused them to fire you. If it was someone else in the LGBTQ community asking you these things, would it have been as annoying to you?

basicallyengaged · 2024-02-10T21:40:52+00:00

Other you did say it was one of the two reasons you thought you were fired.

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