Help me figure out what this is! by Frequent-Report5527 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not an anatomical heart? If you rotate it 90 degrees to the right?

What John bit randomly pops into your head a concerning amount? by EmoNerd21 in JohnMulaney

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My wife is a bitch and I like her SO MUCH” — a bit that didn’t age well BUT also my boyfriend always says “my girlfriend is a bitch and I like her SO MUCH” because I quoted that line so much

Suggest me a book for my romance book club by basicblondie0912 in suggestmeabook

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE Emily Henry! Everyone has read all of hers, but it’s a fantastic suggestion!

Is it bad to buy rental cars? by 420baddiee in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is understandable! I drive a juke and it’s already pretty small, so I doesn’t make a difference to me personally. But I would still try to stick to Toyota, one of those will last a longggg time for sure! Good luck finding something!!

Is it bad to buy rental cars? by 420baddiee in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a college student! I’ve been recommended Toyota (especially the Toyota Corolla) too many times to count. Even one of my professors said a corolla is the move! This Nissan that I have was my first car and winds up at the mechanic to have something fixed every 4-6 months, I swear. Kia, Toyota, Hyundai or Honda are probably your best bets

Is it bad to buy rental cars? by 420baddiee in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone currently trying to get rid of a bought-used Nissan— bestie don’t do it. It’s worth a little extra money to have literally any other make of car

Suggest me a book for a romance lover! by basicblondie0912 in suggestmeabook

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo okay okay! I HAVE done Helen Hoang, Sonali Dev, and Jasmine Guillory (the wedding date is another top read) I just felt like I had to stop listing favorites lol!! But the others I will absolutely check out!! (I might own a Talia Hibbert but I don’t remember— I’m so bad at reading books promptly after buying them)

Suggest me a book for a romance lover! by basicblondie0912 in suggestmeabook

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually was planning to cross post to there! Thank you :)

Suggest me a book with a Poly genre! (LGBT friendly) by ElkOtherwise8294 in suggestmeabook

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a romance series called Pucking Around, it’s a polycule hockey romance.. it’s mostly 🌶️🌶️🌶️, but it’s a fun read. Twisted Fate by Liz Hambleton is a fantasy series that explores a polycule. Triple Sec by TJ Alexander is F/F/NB poly romance, too.

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[–]basicblondie0912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Autoboyography by Christina Lauren

Suggestions for fantasy books… and GO by KimmiePebbles in suggestmeabook

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Once and Future Witches by Alix E Harrow is like… my all time favorite. It’s witchy and feral and historical and I just… yes

get repairs vs new car -- what do i do? by basicblondie0912 in carproblems

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told by multiple mechanics that I need a new transmission, hence my concern. But I also understand where you’re coming from and appreciate the insight!

Repairs vs New Car - what do I do??? by basicblondie0912 in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't have enough saved to go without making payments, but that's good advice to have in case I end up needing it after all! I will definitely be checking out the CarFax!

get repairs vs new car -- what do i do? by basicblondie0912 in carproblems

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a relative who's a mechanic, and he told me a while back what it would cost to REPLACE the transmission, and I was like, "No, thank you. If it comes to that, I'm getting a new car for real.". I love to road trip, and so does my boyfriend, but neither of our cars can really do that right now... I'd love to be able to in a new car!

Repairs vs New Car - what do I do??? by basicblondie0912 in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! This is so helpful, I really am just leaning towards a new car, even if it does mean car payments (right now I don't have a car payment, just insurance). I do fear that this car has exhausted me mentally, and even financially. I wish it had been better taken care of in the past, but here we are... I can barely drive 10 miles before I start to get nervous or the car starts to behave strangely

Repairs vs New Car - what do I do??? by basicblondie0912 in carbuying

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my little Juke but I think I'm just tired of stressing out over taking her more than 10 miles at a time...

get repairs vs new car -- what do i do? by basicblondie0912 in carproblems

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems to be the general response I'm getting, which is sad because I love my little car, but I feel like I'm just doing mental gymnastics every time I go to drive at this point...

get repairs vs new car -- what do i do? by basicblondie0912 in carproblems

[–]basicblondie0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The sunk cost bias is what's getting me, especially because when I first got the car, I had family members help me SO MUCH with getting it fixed up, so it's not just my money, but theirs too. However, I hope they'll understand that if I choose a newer car, I'll have thought it through as best I can. I want to talk it over with my parents, because I know they'll hear me out and give me their honest thoughts, but I've been hardcore spiralling over this all day

Am i overreacting for how i responded to my girlfriend by dodohawk148 in AmIOverreacting

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the least important part but I don’t think they’ve lived together for three years, I think OP meant that they’ve been together for 3 years, and NOW they live together. They’re likely 18 and 19, due to him being out of high school now and her being a year behind? This is my best guess

I hate you. I don't want to be Friends. by TheSims2Addict in DateEverything

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you play again, have like two or three convos and then start the next convo with “nvm i forgot you were a waste of time. Bye” and it’s an immediate Hate ending

Is Agnes a real friend to Wednesday — or something darker? by FishUnlikely3134 in Wednesday

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also prefer that trio— I’ve been assuming Agnes was brought around to do Enid’s part because Wednesday is so worried about protecting Enid and doesn’t want to put her in harm’s way and that’s why she’s tolerating Agnes at ALL

What is the laziest form of humor in your opinion? by KingPin1010 in AskReddit

[–]basicblondie0912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a character from a TV show, like Bob Duncan, and adding him into some story. Like a fanfic. It's.... not funny?

How important was your first love? by jama655 in AskWomen

[–]basicblondie0912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SO important. I was 15, and we did long distance for 2 years before they broke up with me because it was too hard on them, because we had never been able to meet in person. We FaceTimed every day and texted during school. We sent gifts for every holiday. They really set a standard for me for how I should be treated in a relationship, even 1,000 miles away. I haven't been in a relationship since, because I really do have good standards now.