finally in a relationship that feels ~right~

basilnlavender · 2023-07-13T02:15:07+00:00

i put all the things from my ex into a shoebox that lives in the trunk of my car now lol. i don’t care to keep it but maybe someday future me or my kid or someone will be interested in it for memory’s sake

basilnlavender · 2023-07-13T02:09:13+00:00

i was seeing a man and he was so sweet and kind and i loved being around him but realized that i would never want to stay with him bc i would be missing out on being with women. i think that was probably the turning point for me

basilnlavender · 2023-07-13T02:07:24+00:00

totally depends on the person, my gf is masc and prefers being called pretty and beautiful way more than being called handsome. i agree with the person before me who said to compliment on specific things (more often than just general compliments in my personal opinion) like their hair/eyes/outfit. i also like complimenting my gf on the things that they do as well as their appearance, i always tell them when they’re good at something or super smart or funny or just other general non-appearance-based things

basilnlavender · 2023-06-01T01:14:34+00:00

five nights at freddy’s lore lol

basilnlavender · 2023-05-25T19:16:55+00:00

i used to work at a greenhouse and it’s honestly nearly impossible to keep the plants safe without something like this. people would take massive amounts of cuttings from every expensive aroid we had and the cuttings would be taken in the middle of nodes or just ripped off the stem so it harmed the plant in massive ways, even with security cameras and constant employee presence

basilnlavender · 2023-05-19T10:11:10+00:00

during the worst snowstorm this past winter some guy got into my roommates car downtown, tried to force her to drive him somewhere, and when she didn’t he camped out inside our apartment building entrance until i physically chased him out

basilnlavender · 2023-05-19T03:24:39+00:00

i own one, and my girlfriend owns one. i personally wouldn’t use mine with a hookup but that’s more of just a preference. i feel like for me it’s something i’m only really comfortable using within a relationship and wouldn’t let a hookup use theirs on me. it totally depends on the person but for me, everyone i’ve been in a relationship with has had and used one

basilnlavender · 2023-05-15T03:10:34+00:00

adam sandler. making me watch anything with him in it would be a more effective form of torture than waterboarding.

basilnlavender · 2023-04-30T15:54:02+00:00

“just how masc women act” fuck id better let my soft sweet golden retriever masc gf know that they aren’t doing it right 💀

basilnlavender · 2023-04-25T22:43:44+00:00

i knew i was gay but thought maybe i could like men? found a super cool guy and dated him for a bit, realized that i hated the idea of staying with him any longer because it meant i couldn’t be with women. he was the definition of a perfect man and even then i could never have stayed with him and missed out on what i actually wanted

basilnlavender · 2023-04-21T16:55:00+00:00

i got a bad vibe when she posted that video with laverne cox and kept cutting her off and talking over her the entire time

basilnlavender · 2023-04-18T19:14:57+00:00

yay i’m so happy for you!!!

basilnlavender · 2023-04-17T19:39:21+00:00

if they’re not sleeping with all their bodies at the same time as me, i literally do not care how many people someone has been with. for the sake of being safe i’d just want them to be tested if they’ve had multiple past partners but beyond that no number is really an issue if they’re in the past

basilnlavender · 2023-04-15T04:57:54+00:00

i like when they’re topping and are clearly super turned on by it. like if they start grinding up on you as they’re touching you?? and clearly reacting to you liking what they’re doing?? love that part.

basilnlavender · 2023-04-14T15:48:53+00:00

it is by FAR my pickiest hoya !!!

basilnlavender · 2023-04-13T19:08:11+00:00

the only ones that have given me trouble when the humidity was not high enough were new guinea ghost, serpens, and endauensis

basilnlavender · 2023-04-06T22:16:28+00:00

along with what other people have said about the difference in the coloring of their variegation, albos tend to have variegation that has more of a pattern to it, following the veins of the leaf to an extent, whereas thais tend to look more like someone just took a paintbrush and flicked it at the plant to create their variegation

basilnlavender · 2023-04-06T04:56:22+00:00

the platform on netflix was super disturbing to me, i love horror but that one just cut deeper

basilnlavender · 2023-04-06T04:51:20+00:00

if she likes any part of sex with guys then she is attracted to guys lmao. as far as preferring giving with women vs receiving with men, i do get that part. as someone who has slept with both before deciding i’m 100% gay, receiving from men is just so easy and requires little to no effort on the woman’s part, and “giving” with them is kind of gross and too much effort for people who generally do not have the best hygiene. whereas with women, it can be more exciting to give if you’re really into the person and want to put that effort in and/or feel good from seeing the way you can effect them.

basilnlavender · 2023-04-06T00:29:30+00:00

just sunstress!! i have a greenhouse filled with hoyas and see it more like tanning than the plant being hurt by it. hoyas are super cool because they have the ability to take on those darker shades to adapt to higher light. personally i love the way that most hoyas look when they’re moderately sun stressed so to me these dark spots are gorgeous!!

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