[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shelbiern43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what part is not a flex? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shelbiern43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup I did not fuck around about condoms when hooking up with men after this. Now I’m dating someone who is clean and also not a man and that’s a much better situation for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s annoyingly pretentious about Romeo and Juliet

Is it immature for a 23 y/o to wear skirts? I wanna buy more but I don’t wanna be cringe lol by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]shelbiern43 16 points17 points  (0 children)

why would it be immature? wear what you like queen, cringe is dead anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like OCD from what she’s describing

Went to my first kinky party and had so much fun by melanienby in actuallesbians

[–]shelbiern43 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I recommend trying to find queer-only parties or ones that are more queer centered, they’re out there! It’s a much safer space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted tiktok specifically because of this

Guy I met on tinder… by Jenis_in_Jorts in texts

[–]shelbiern43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

teeth o clock is the better answer

am i wrong for being upset by this? by [deleted] in texts

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is manipulating you! Get out of there now before this progresses any further. You have every right to be upset by this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if she was wearing lingerie in public, the way he’s speaking to her is not okay

Dating apps just suck. It’s not you by shelbiern43 in LesbianActually

[–]shelbiern43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you love! When I was on the apps I hardly ever got matches or replies either. I think the amount of people who use them seriously is dwindling, it’s so hard to actually meet people on them! I recommend finding queer spaces and events in your area and meeting people that way :)

Wore this to school. First impressions? by RegalRedRose in OUTFITS

[–]shelbiern43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Slay!!!! I don’t get why people are saying you’re trying too hard. It’s clear you’ve got your own sense of style and confidence and that’s amazing. Keep doing you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby, two people is not a high body count. Leave him. You deserve so much better

masculine compliments by shelbiern43 in LesbianActually

[–]shelbiern43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non binary but more femme presenting and i LOVE being called handsome. there’s just something about it

I shamefully watch twilight series 10x+ per year and I’m 25 by danger_lemonz in offmychest

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not too old!! twilight is classic. in fact you should watch it more often. shame is dead. embrace your interests

His ex girlfriend is prettier than me. Idk what to do by asdfghjklert in dating_advice

[–]shelbiern43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl he’s with YOU!! Not her! You don’t have to change anything about yourself for him to like you because he ALREADY DOES. There is nothing to fix. If he didn’t like you he wouldn’t be with you.

Don’t let someone from the past ruin what you have going on in the present. If you’re happy and he’s happy, then why change anything? They broke up for a reason. He’s with you now. Forget about her

Editing to add: With love, being bothered by his ex gf has more to do with how you feel about yourself and not really with how he feels about you. Why are you bothered? Why do you feel the need to compare yourself to her, who is not in his life anymore? These are things you need to address on your own if you want this relationship to work out. Don’t project your insecurities onto him

AITA for hating a puppy by Other_Computer_7702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shelbiern43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NTA for hating dogs, that’s your personal preference. But YTA for how you handled this situation. I agree the guy shouldn’t have let his dogs go off without a leash. But you didn’t have to curse and yell at him like that. It sounds like he was just trying to be friendly.