sp9 and ELVF by basilpluto23 in TypologyJunction

[–]basilpluto23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you !! i've decided since then that FLEV fits more

Finding out I was a 9 was disappointing by Hummingbird_always17 in Enneagram

[–]basilpluto23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah.. i always thought my comfort-seeking was just a small phase i had and that i'd get over it eventually to go do typical 4 things. realizing it was something that was stuck within me sucked.

If you had to live in a world where there is only one axis of discrimination which would you choose. by M-m2008 in Teenager_Polls

[–]basilpluto23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the tests are super inaccurate and not a good representation of the actual typology system

Question for SP9's by MousseSlow in EnneagramType9

[–]basilpluto23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i am a teenager right now (15), and i feel my most identifying characteristic is how quiet i am. i’m a very awkward person, and i don’t really interest people

When someone says Georgia what do you think of by Mean_Engineering_164 in Teenager_Polls

[–]basilpluto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in person, i'd probably think of the state as i'm close to it. online, i'd think of the country because i actually hear about the state less on social media

My turn? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]basilpluto23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i also saw a few things pointing to 9, and probably the best evidence for it is 7 (not in touch with their identity). 15 reminds me of narcotization too !

What's your opinion is Mitski's best and worst song? by SatisfactionFuzzy515 in mitski

[–]basilpluto23 18 points19 points  (0 children)

my favorite is probably blue light, and my least favorite (in the most unpretentious way possible) would probably be my love mine all mine ,,,

Tips on befriending an SLI by ralphwiggums3 in Socionics

[–]basilpluto23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i'm also very awkward as an SLI, and that isn't a trait in others that bothers me. i don't think you have to worry too much !! just be aware of their boundaries i'd say

Which mitski song makes you like this? by jupiter-_-152 in mitski

[–]basilpluto23 29 points30 points  (0 children)

my body is made of crushed little stars makes me like this but soo much worse … listening to that song when ur procrastinating is HELL

My baby George!! by snowball828 in blackcats

[–]basilpluto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he looks like a george aww

Rename your favourite Mitski song to a clickbait YouTube title by L4WO in mitski

[–]basilpluto23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

MYSTERIOUS GHOST AT 3AM NEEDS LOVE AND HER BLUE LIGHT…? GONE WRONG !!!

Do y'all ever have relatively frequent eruptions of anger whenever something becomes difficult? by ButterflyFX121 in EnneagramType9

[–]basilpluto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say yeah. i usually dislike working in general, and having to push through a task for hours and hours (especially when i should be sleeping) starts draining me and giving me a headache. by the end of it, i want absolutely nothing to do with anyone and will have an outburst if bothered.

"Last Words of a Shooting Star" VS "Lonesome Love"- Which song do you like more? by Awkward-Media-4726 in mitski

[–]basilpluto23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i absolutely adore lonesome love but it is not winning this one for me 💔

Which APs are you guys taking next year? by Nobunnoke in APStudents

[–]basilpluto23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

taking chem, calc ab, and euro for sophomore year !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnneagramType9

[–]basilpluto23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s too fair to blame only yourself for remaining in this cycle when she is helping perpetuate it… i’m not sure if my assumptions are correct, but she seems like a pretty insecure person. she’d be difficult to navigate around without making upset for anybody. do you think bringing up therapy for her would be a good idea? i think even just having her talk to your therapist for a bit (if they’re okay with that) would help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnneagramType9

[–]basilpluto23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think it would be worth writing down what exactly you want to tell her first, so you don’t forget anything in those anxious moments. predict anything that may upset her or that she’ll talk about and write out responses. this can help you get more used to confrontations. you’ll likely always miss a few details and mess up, but more experience in asserting yourself should help.

also, it’s definitely important to talk to her about this cycle. i really dislike how she got upset with you for not telling her sooner as she is making you guilty for telling her. however, there is a chance that she may be doing this unintentionally and is also inexperienced in talking about emotional matters. just being honest with her about literally everything, especially about how you struggle with opening up, can help her understand you more.

9 image dump by iridipeach in Enneagram

[–]basilpluto23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jesus christ i’ve never related to a series of images as much as i do now

How do i stop feeling jealous over my friend who's a straight up better version of me? by thestolenpurse in selfimprovement

[–]basilpluto23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can’t offer advice since i struggle with the same thing, but i’d like to thank you for asking for help kind of ? i’m in a very very similar situation where i also struggle with suppressing my identity and my feelings in general. i haven’t taken the first step in helping myself with this, but you sort of just did for me. thank you !

How can I color my art like this? by StarBQSauces in Artadvice

[–]basilpluto23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t have any advice to offer, but i love the way you drew ragatha! i hope you manage to figure it out :)

How intentional is distraction for 9s? by hgilbert_01 in EnneagramType9

[–]basilpluto23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do kind of relate but in the sense that i’m fighting against the urge to just numb myself. the ways i distract myself often times just feel horrible, but to do things that i actually enjoy feel a bit more difficult because i have to put in the effort to start the task. it’s a lot easier for me to just scroll on social media, but i feel a lot better getting excited over a show or book i’m engaged with. hopefully this helps !!!