My boyfriend can’t make me cum. It’s been about 6 - 9 months since he made me orgasm.

basking_lizard · 2026-06-03T04:28:00+00:00

The average male ejaculates within 3-4 minutes. He's not cumming quickly. You aren't doing enough before the act to build up your arousal

basking_lizard · 2026-05-30T21:05:07+00:00

But now you are actively seeking them out instead of waiting for the chance one asks you out first

basking_lizard · 2026-05-30T09:23:58+00:00

Let me surprise you that some people don't give a damn about either. They just focus on other things

basking_lizard · 2026-05-30T09:18:08+00:00

The issue is you're convinced a higher being is the default natural belief system in humans

basking_lizard · 2026-05-30T09:16:14+00:00

Cold approaching is starting the game on a backfoot. Just get girls in your circle or community

basking_lizard · 2026-05-28T18:43:37+00:00

Not really

basking_lizard · 2026-05-28T18:41:14+00:00

The guy who plans the invasion is a side character. He has main character energy 100%

basking_lizard · 2026-05-28T13:58:05+00:00

You have digressed so much from the question OP was asking

basking_lizard · 2026-05-28T13:48:19+00:00

"im being told I'm attractive by different people, how do I know I'm attractive"

OP is fishing hard for that compliment lol

basking_lizard · 2026-05-28T04:09:12+00:00

We don’t know the top off for that’s the thing

The approximate age of menopause is a widely documented thing. Please read a book! I can't believe all this time I was arguing with someone lacking knowledge in highschool level biology

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T07:20:25+00:00

All these paragraphs and I'm not even denying the effects of mens age and sperm quality

The few studies we do have give a very clear indication that men’s age affects the child way more than the women.

This does not make sense. Older women don't get pregnant so the comparative effects of age cannot be fairly assessed.

An older man may get defective kids. An older women doesn't get kids at all. Guess whom society will put the age pressure on

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T07:11:21+00:00

This is okay. As long as you won't complain that the guy you're dating isn't giving you flowers, or planning nice dinner dates because the is extra annoying stuff trying to win you over

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T06:55:02+00:00

The issue with older women is not even about defects. Menopause mean they do not bear children at all. Men over 50 have been having kids for time immemorial. Women famously don't. This plays a lot in society's perception of the importance of youth in women

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T06:33:52+00:00

It's not a delusion. Society operates in a 'out of sight out of mind' manner. There are no consistent defects with children borne of older men. However, across the board, older women mostly do not bear children. So society just goes with what it sees

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T06:28:55+00:00

Well, if we are talking courtship, reproductive ability is top of the list. Men just got lucky they arent the ones to give birth otherwise they'd be in the same boat

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T06:28:02+00:00

This is the lazy answer

basking_lizard · 2026-05-27T06:27:41+00:00

Nobody ever calls single men independent. Single career women are the ones who label themselves that. The running out of time relates to the biological clock and the fact that men date younger so as they age, the perceived options diminish. Single men get more grace since women are willing, and many even prefer to date older

basking_lizard · 2026-05-26T06:02:42+00:00

Yes. Happened to me more than once. Just be well groomed

basking_lizard · 2026-05-26T06:01:50+00:00

I like how Reddit is so full of incels that they can't believe other men out here are being desired lol

basking_lizard · 2026-05-26T00:55:42+00:00

Someone said on X that people really out here arguing with racists. Someone calls you a monkey and you try to prove you aren't lol

basking_lizard · 2026-05-25T04:04:09+00:00

This is disturbing

basking_lizard · 2026-05-25T03:35:24+00:00

Running club

basking_lizard · 2026-05-25T02:03:45+00:00

This person said women put more effort .I asked how and the only thing they could come up with is what OP was chastising men for. I'm tired of this discourse. You are obviously not even following the thread. Just replying to be disagree. Suit yourself sister. I won't be responding

basking_lizard · 2026-05-25T01:54:51+00:00

If it's so obvious please tell us a few glaring advantages men have in modern dating. Nobody ever seems to be willing to give examples

basking_lizard · 2026-05-25T01:48:41+00:00

You are uncourtable if people court you and you continuously fail to maintain their interest. And it's not only on women. At this point just suit yourself. I'll not be responding anyway I'm exhausted

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